HumbledbYGrace: relax I have a thing for almost chubby guys :PJesus Christ what about when she frowns? I bet your love would disappear.

You liked her for a certain something...it wasn't love. Love is from what's inside, not what the eye sees

HumbledbYGrace: I guess the world will never know.

toba: u want to put me in a tight corner. My bro, there's no one world accepted definition of love, as love means different things to different pple. There're some aspect of love that we must agree with in common.

♚ƒԐLis-c∆tus:


Which one be 'the world will never know'? It is obvious that it is toba you're talking about na.
You quoted him and said ' I love him'. Na wa.

Sorry for wrecking your 'hard to get' swagzzz.

CFCfan:

You are kinda correct though. Inner beauty is crucial

♚ƒԐLis-c∆tus:


There is no love at first sight.
You can truly love a person either because of both their inner and outer qualities or because of their inner qualities alone.
Inner is crucial here.
When you love a person based on only their outer qualities then that my man, is LUST. Not love.
And you cannot love the inner qualities of a person you are seeing for the first time in your life because you don't know what they have on the inside.

♚ƒԐLis-c∆tus:


Which one be 'the world will never know'? It is obvious that it is toba you're talking about na.
You quoted him and said ' I love him'. Na wa.

Sorry for wrecking your 'hard to get' swagzzz.

CFCfan: You are kinda correct though. Inner beauty is crucial

Idowuogbo:
Meanie!

♚ƒԐLis-c∆tus:

There you go.
I just obliterated the theory of 'love at first sight'

CFCfan:

But I think lust is too harsh a word to describe the initial attraction.

Some lady might be attracted to the outward handsomeness of a man, and not necessarily have sexual thoughts of him; and vice versa.

♚ƒԐLis-c∆tus:


Which one be 'the world will never know'? It is obvious that it is toba you're talking about na.
You quoted him and said ' I love him'. Na wa.

Sorry for wrecking your 'hard to get' swagzzz.

♚ƒԐLis-c∆tus:


Okay sure.
Attraction/lust/whatever you name it.
It is not love, is what my point is.

CFCfan:

It wasn't only her smile, other attributes followed. However, I dey fear when people frown

I'm borderline chubby/averagely built

HumbledbYGrace: who is playing hard to get? I meant I love JESUS and the world will never know how I love him as that kind of love is rare

CFCfan:

Ok, ur point is noted

CFCfan:

But I think lust is too harsh a word to describe the initial attraction.

Some lady might be attracted to the outward handsomeness of a man, and not necessarily have sexual thoughts of him; and vice versa.

♚ƒԐLis-c∆tus:


Ok miss.

Sorry about the mix up

♚ƒԐLis-c∆tus:


There is no love at first sight.
You can truly love a person either because of both their inner and outer qualities or because of their inner qualities alone.
Inner is crucial here.
When you love a person based on only their outer qualities then that my man, is LUST. Not love.
And you cannot love the inner qualities of a person you are seeing for the first time in your life because you don't know what they have on the inside.

♚ƒԐLis-c∆tus:


There is no love at first sight.
You can truly love a person either because of both their inner and outer qualities or because of their inner qualities alone.
Inner is crucial here.
When you love a person based on only their outer qualities then that my man, is LUST. Not love.
And you cannot love the inner qualities of a person you are seeing for the first time in your life because you don't know what they have on the inside.

CFCfan:

But I think lust is too harsh a word to describe the initial attraction.

Some lady might be attracted to the outward handsomeness of a man, and not necessarily have sexual thoughts of him; and vice versa.

HumbledbYGrace: explain this please

HumbledbYGrace: you crushed her.....are u dark?

toba: I agree with the latter part of your post regarding inner qualities. However, the 'out of the abundance of the heart' quote from the bible suffices in many cases. The inner qualities are revealed through outer qualities yes or no? You can atleast decipher who i am by reading my posts on NL to some extent. This is it. more than 60% of the characters being potrayed on NL represents real world characters. Someone who shows kindness must definitely be a kind person.

CFCfan:

I meant that a lady/guy might just appreciate the beauty/handsomeness of the other without harbouring any s.exual thoughts. Just like how we admire the beauty of a good piece of art.

CFCfan:

I never crushed anyone, but I've had a crush on someone. And I'm brown.

Ayoke22: light? Dark?

CFCfan:
Both light and dark-skinned

Ayoke22: is that possible?

CFCfan:

Brown-skinned is a combination of both light-skinned and dark-skinned complexion.

Ayoke22: mixed breed?

CFCfan:

Not really, both my parents are Nigerian.

Ayoke22: so who is dark and who is light between them?