koseepaaro: But to be honest with you, house, I`ve got only 7k from which I planned to use in preparing food for her and give the remaining one to her as her fare (though her fare from their town to my place is just N1,600, making it roughly about N3,500 to and fro including fare on bike). That`s the plain truth, house! Now tell me, how can I achieve all these with the 7k that I have?

sunnshyn: Eeyah! Its your sincerity I admire!!

I hope she enjoys her stay when she eventually visits!

Bless you bro!

190-the-clown:
[size=18pt]I Dont know why Nigerian girls are always giving their bf's problems [/size]

Mynd_44: Another thing I am concerned with here is ventilation. People breathing on each other has health issues oooooooo

koseepaaro: Alright! Thank you all for your contributions. But I`m happy to tell you that she phoned me early this morning to inform me that she wouldn`t be able to make it today that she was planning to stay in the town with me for a week but the key to their room (the room she jointly rented with a friend of hers) was with her friend because her friend is still sleeping there that her friend told her that she forgot to keep the key down for her. That she can come and meet her in another state she travelled to (and her friend will be staying there for a week before she comes back) to collect the key, as my girlfriend will like to stay there for that one week she wants to spend in the state with me and moreover, she would need to pick some things in the room when travelling back to her state. She then told me that she can`t travel to that state to collect the key from her friend because her cell phone was faulty that she always put her SIM card in someone`s cell phone (her neighbour). That she can`t be making phone calls from one business centre to another. Though, I was a little bit angry initially, but later reasoned with her. But we haven`t talked on the day she would then come later. I only told her that there is no problem that we shall talk later. And when she phoned me in the afternoon, we didn`t talk about her not coming of a thing at all. We just talked about another thing entirely and say "bye", then ended our conversation for the day.

koseepaaro:
Thank you, thank you very much indeed, all advice noted! But one more thing: what do you suggest I should do when I take her to a hotek just to sleep there overnight and she says I shouldn`t lodge her in any hotel that she will be comfortable sleeping in our house, even if she have to sleep on the mat, that she wouldn`t mind? The lady is the type that always tell me that I like to waste money each time I buy anything that is a little bit expensive for her that instead of me wasting my money on that thing that I should have given her the money that I used to buy that thing for her. Or I should have phoned her to tell her that I want to buy such a thing for her. Should I still tell her that she shouldn`t worry that she should let us go that I want comfort for her? What would you advise me to do at that point? To answer one of the questions that you guys are asking me, my brother was the one that told me to bring her down to his place to come and sleep overnight when I raised alarm to him that I don`t know where she would sleep because I`m quite sure that she can`t go back to their town on that same Saturday. And see, this lady didn`t tell me that she would like to meet both my mum and my siblings when she comes until yesteqday evening when a message enter into my phone and I opened up the message and read this meeting my mum and my siblings issue of a thing. But to be honest with you, house, I`ve got only 7k from which I planned to use in preparing food for her and give the remaining one to her as her fare (though her fare from their town to my place is just N1,600, making it roughly about N3,500 to and fro including fare on bike). That`s the plain truth, house! Now tell me, how can I achieve all these with the 7k that I have?