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What Is Your Biggest Decision In Life by beqs101(f): 8:24am On Sep 28, 2012
Hello people,
I saw stumbled on this piece and decided to share.

What do you think your biggest life decision
is?
Is it the job you choose? Is it where you live?
Is it where you raise your children?
No.
The biggest life decision that you will make is
whom you’re going to have a relationship
with. The person you choose for your life
partner is the person who’s going to
determine whether or not you lead a happy,
stress-free, amazing life or a shitty one.
A lot of you are divorced, so you know exactly
what I’m talking about here.
Many of you reading this right now have
been through a divorce, and you realize that
the choices you made and the person you
decided to marry caused a slight downfall in
your life.
Your home is your castle. Your home is the
one place that will really make you feel whole
again. You can be immensely stressed at the
office, but if you come back to a peaceful
home — a home that’s full of love,
nourishment, and understanding — you can
recharge your batteries emotionally, mentally
and physically. You can go to sleep at night
knowing that you’re in a safe place, and it
doesn’t really matter what happens at work
because the home front really determines
how happy and fulfilled your life is going to
be.
You know what I’m talking about. A lot of you
have been through divorces that were just
miserable.
A lot of clients that I’ve worked with over the
years have gone through divorces that have
been brutal. They’ve experienced years and
years of fighting, and their home was in no
way a peaceful, loving environment.
I encourage you to look in the mirror and
realize that you have another chance to do
this all again. You have another chance to
create happiness in your home. You have the
chance to go out and meet somebody
spectacular, but only when you know what
you want, desire and need from a relationship
are you most likely to find it.
Most people repeat the same relationships
over and over again until they finally feel so
much pain that they vow to never do it again.
A healthy, happy, amazing relationship is
what you’re questing for, and it’s the reason
you got divorced.
So when you’re out there dating again, I
strongly suggest that you know what your
needs, wants and desires are — it’s the only
way to attract that amazing, loving, powerful
relationship you deserve.
This piece was first published in Huffington
Post.
Re: What Is Your Biggest Decision In Life by emilyone(f): 1:42pm On Sep 28, 2012
whats a nice piece ! cheesy
Re: What Is Your Biggest Decision In Life by UmericanGirl(f): 3:33pm On Sep 28, 2012
I am unmarried but I totally agree. grin

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