obowunmi: If you are not intimate - how about if you get stuck with an impotent man? With no functioning pe,nis?

obowunmi: Sorry - you are a child.

HumbledbYGrace: M no child but m practising abstinence and Man its flipping hard,Married christians please tell us how u did it

HumbledbYGrace: M no child but m practising abstinence and Man its flipping hard,Married christians please tell us how u did it

chrisevans: how do you see or hear from God? be explicit pls

Omo Alata: I know a lady (personally know this lady) who waited until after marriage. A white wedding with all the thrills etc. Anyway, on the wedding night, it was a no-show O as the man could not 'do'. The lady ran back to the pastor the next day to divorce them. The pastor said till death do you part so the lady quit the church

obowunmi:

True story. This is a reality for many people. Many impotent men hide under "God said" I suggest you try the pe,nis before you ever proceed into marriage.

To all the ladies beware of impotent men, men with low sperm count, no sperm.

Make sure your man is sexually healthy before you move forward.

Omo Alata: I know a lady (personally know this lady) who waited until after marriage. A white wedding with all the thrills etc. Anyway, on the wedding night, it was a no-show O as the man could not 'do'. The lady ran back to the pastor the next day to divorce them. The pastor said till death do you part so the lady quit the church

chrisevans: how do you see or hear from God? be explicit pls

chrisevans: how do you see or hear from God? be explicit pls

HumbledbYGrace: hehehe y did the sister run sha?

obowunmi:

If I close my eyes to pray in the first two weeks while we are dating and I don't see or hear from God. You will be dumped.

obowunmi:

Dear Chris, I recently started working on my spirituality after years of not caring. God speaks to people in various ways. For me especially, thru dreams. For

HumbledbYGrace: .If I say its about the man I love trust me,iv dreamed of all my exes before I received Christ,I now don't even like the sound of dreams wen it comes to relationships

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@HumbledbYGrace why didnt you respond to my email request?
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Omo Alata:

We told her it was for better for worse but she said No way

k2039:

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Dreams can be deceptive,you dream what you think about
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HumbledbYGrace: Brothers and sisters,Christians alike let's talk about waiting till marriage before having sex.How do you react when your with your partner?Do you kiss,hold hands or touch each other?Or all that will be done after the wedding day?Let's all be honest

HumbledbYGrace: Not always..u mean if I think about u m absolutely gonna dream bwt u?

k2039:

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I wish I could answer the question but I have never had a girlfriend

On a serious note if I were to have I think I will kiss and hold her hands(but issue of touching is really something I cant really say,but am sure I'm not going to have sex until my wedding night(I actually vowed to God,so am sure I wont))

But religiously speaking kissing makes me guilty of fornication
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k2039:
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Their is a 1% chance of you thinking about me(1% in mathematics means it is very possible but unlikely)
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my email kolawoletoluwalase@yahoo.com
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k2039:

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why not pray first that God shows you rather than going on a date first before asking God
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obowunmi:

Good question. I've gone on dates and God reveals that the person is not the one thru dreams. I never relied on "God" - and I always dated all sorts of women and women are attracted to me. But I no longer want to rely on beautiful women because beauty and sex don't sustain marriage.

I don't see anything wrong with dating as many women as you desire. Marriage however, I believe is a different matter.

k2039:

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I wish I could answer the question but I have never had a girlfriend

On a serious note if I were to have I think I will kiss and hold her hands(but issue of touching is really something I cant really say,but am sure I'm not going to have se*x until my wedding night(I actually vowed to God,so am sure I wont))

But religiously speaking kissing makes me guilty of fornication
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obowunmi:
But I no longer want to rely on beautiful women because beauty and sex don't sustain marriage.

obowunmi: I don't see anything wrong with dating as many women as you desire. Marriage however, I believe is a different matter.

plappville: @thread, i found Christ some years after i got married so i didnt have same experience as you. But as a Christian, if you and ur partner are true believers, you will definately abstain. Kissing can be very tempting, if you do not trust it. Its better to avoid it. But nothing is wrong in holding hands. You will need God to help you through this period.seek him more. I do not see why people say its hard to abstain.
I believe Its just a thing of the mind. Apart from been a Christian. Its safer and proper to Abstain.

Do not be decieved with the "Impotent" issue, if you have doubt and want to be sure you can asked for medical reports. This is how Brothers in the churuc decieve sisters. I want to be sure you are not a baren !! Before you know it, secret abortion is done. Under the eyes of God. So rampant out there !!