The first message I recieved this morning reminds me of true independence... Nice one... Happy independence and new month to all... But I have a question? Why do guys stop their fiances,galfriends or wives from using social network,when they themselves do,hence putting them into boundage? I THINK A LADY THAT HAS NEVER GIVEN YOU THE REASON TO DOUBT HER FIDELITY AND TRUST IS WORTH THE FREEDOM(Pls note the words in upper case). I feel like crying,why are some nigerian guys so selfish for God's sake,I've met like two of them,and I feel like crying for their so called galfriend or fiance,cos They're definitely gonna have a trait of hypocrasy,why should a young man turn a lady of value(so,He'll call her) into that from relationship level,what will now happen in the marriage?... Pls I need urgent answers... Thanks

Its only an insecure guy that ll do that,they feel that they re nt man enough to have their gals faithful to them so they av to lock the ladies up in their inferiority complex. The gals on their own need to grow up to know that all that glitters is nt gold and learn to be faithful to their man

you felt like crying because some guys dont want their girlfriends or wives to use social networks?

are you jobless,no offence.

wetin concern you?

tpia@:
you felt like crying because some guys dont want their girlfriends or wives to use social networks?

are you jobless,no offence.

wetin concern you?

Exactly my thought, don't know why he was worried about that. I can't even stand a girl who's not expose to internet. A girl that really love you will stay no matter the situation or your condition,so why bothering yourself over unnecessary issues.

When I said I feel like crying,not because they stop their gals from using social network,but because,of the selfishness of some nigerian guys. It's painful seeing some wrong representatives of you out there... Imagine a guy setting curfew for a lady he claims to love online! I feel like crying for ladies who are not bold enough to stand up to the challenge,keeping quite and I feel like crying for the guys doing that,cos they don't really know What's in those gals or women they think they are lording things over... That's what I meant... I believe in woman right,and I want to see a black race that will learn to let people do things WILLINGLY cos they have a reason to do so,than forcing it on them... To crown it all one of my good friends is in that cell presently... Pls try and see what I'm seeing... What will you do to help such friend

Insecurity...bt no mata hw much u stop her,u cant stil enjoy dat relatnshp without sm level of trust

D sage:

Exactly my thought, don't know why he was worried about that. I can't even stand a girl who's not expose to internet. A girl that really love you will stay no matter the situation or your condition,so why bothering yourself over unnecessary issues.

........ But should guys be selfish about their own pleasures only? Don't women also have the right to pleasures?

Princephelar: When I said I feel like crying,not because they stop their gals from using social network,but because,of the selfishness of some nigerian guys. It's painful seeing some wrong representatives of you out there... Imagine a guy setting curfew for a lady he claims to love online! I feel like crying for ladies who are not bold enough to stand up to the challenge,keeping quite and I feel like crying for the guys doing that,cos they don't really know What's in those gals or women they think they are lording things over... That's what I meant... I believe in woman right,and I want to see a black race that will learn to let people do things WILLINGLY cos they have a reason to do so,than forcing it on them... To crown it all one of my good friends is in that cell presently... Pls try and see what I'm seeing... What will you do to help such friend

so u mean to tell me if ur wife dey flirt with different guys for facebook and they engage in midnight calls with them u no go worry?

My husband can't tell me what social network to get on or get off....I am a GROWN WOMAN and not HIS CHILD.

The things SOME women do to keep a man.

Princephelar: ........ But should guys be selfish about their own pleasures only? Don't women also have the right to pleasures?

That's why love and trust are very important in a relationship. Love and trust are the basis or major factors in every successful relationship/marriage.

D sage:

That's why love and trust are very important in a relationship. Love and trust are the basis or major factors in every successful relationship/marriage.

.... And That's what I'm longing to see in relationships.... TRUST

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so u mean to tell me if ur wife dey flirt with different guys for facebook and they engage in midnight calls with them u no go worry? [/quote/] I said note the words in upper case,read the post again Pls

Mrs..Chima:
My husband can't tell me what social network to get on or get off....I am a GROWN WOMAN and not HIS CHILD.

The things SOME women do to keep a man.

..... I appreciate this... I think you must be courageous

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Can be permitted if the guy in question is a muslim

dabrake: Can be permitted if the guy in question is a muslim

so,what does islam teach about ladies using social networks?

I can't mess with an insecure guy. So such is not even gonna be an issue.
They are the ones that become abusive.

I like my man confident. Secure in who he is as a man. Darn, if I forsook all others to cling to you, that's gotta mean something?

lola.luv:
I can't mess with an insecure guy. So such is not even gonna be an issue.
They are the ones that become abusive.

I like my man confident. Secure in who he is as a man. Darn, if I forsook all others to cling to you, that's gotta mean something?

..... I think I like this,insecurity is the beginning of restrictions in all relationships...