Mynd_44: Smart guy. We call what you did "fire bye bye"

Smuthx: why are you cohabiting. its wrong. should have put a ring on her finger b4 all these wahala happen. could have been better

obowunmi: Good to move on - figure out what you need to do so that you do not continue to attract the same type of girl.

Also, you need to heal before moving on to the next relationship.

hoodboy: Funny enough, this morning the dude comes over to solicit for the rest of the stuff I didn't burn. How can a nigga stoop so low. Why can he man up and promise her new stuff as per he is he bf now, he should be glad I did what I did. Instead he is saying that she says I took the best of her ish, and the ones I have already buurnt should be revenge enough. Thats just so lame, they really make a great pair.

hoodboy: Funny enough, this morning the dude comes over to solicit for the rest of the stuff I didn't burn. How can a nigga stoop so low. Why can he man up and promise her new stuff as per he is he bf now, he should be glad I did what I did. Instead he is saying that she says I took the best of her ish, and the ones I have already buurnt should be revenge enough. Thats just so lame, they really make a great pair.

Smuthx: Hope the clothes and the properties you are burning are yours or the ones both of you own. If you are burning her personnal things, then its not ok

You dont have disagreements with a roomate for example and he or she leaves, and you burn their things. The person will call the police on you. Even if you paid the rent yourself.

A good thing would be to Pack her things on side of the room or you tell her to come take her things or you throw them out

Goldieluks: I feel for you. Before you go into another relationship, make sure you are ready emotionally.
Burning the stuffs you bought for her, was un-called for. Its obvious you did that because you are
hurting.


It is better you let her go with the stuff you bought for her, and that would act as a reminder to her
that she once dated a loving and caring guy.

xtrafly:
F*ck that reminder sh*t... It will only remind you of how foolish you once were

Goldieluks:


Foolishness gives way to wisdom.

hoodboy: Some time this year i made a post about my trying relationship. well she purportedly came back, but ever since it has been from suspicion to suspicion because of her funny moves which suggested she was still seeing the guy she supposedly left to come back to me after our initial breakup.

https://www.nairaland.com/1010320/lies-deceit-threats-break-up-complicated

Apparently my suspicions were valid as the dude came over to my room to spill the bean. she had been promising him she would dump me for him but when he noticed she was just playing us both, he decided to come over and tell everything that had been happening all the while. For him this was the only way to get her out of his system and also making the ground uncomfortable for her to try to see him again.

He told me of all their sexual dalliances and how they just stopped short of straffing in my room at the final minute of common sense. and truth be told his intel was correct. there was a time she was told me was going over to her sister's place in town, but ended upin his house for one whole week, even though i knew she wasnt in town and i accused her of being with him, she piously kept to her lies, but the truth has eventually come out. the dude was all fuming, claiming i should keep her away from his sight or else he would hurt her bad... he even used my phone cause i gave him to check something else to text her some insults "old cargo" etc. he told me of how she clainmed that all she was doing with me was to mess me up emotionally as a vengance for all the perceived wrongs i had done her.

Anyways she apparently knew her game was up and called me to say i should just pack up her stuff in my room that she was gonna come pick it up once she came back from town. well while contemplating the whole ish, i got angry and decided to set fire to my tears. every thing she has gotten for me, and everything i had bought for her tha was within my reach, i set ablaze and sent her the pictures.

But she come back from town, goes to meet the dude, apologises anfd in her words "well i'm done with you and now with him". i say fuc.k her because i know she aint worth my tears, and they both deserve each other. not like i'm perfect or anything, but I dont think i can ever put anybody through what she made me see. to imagine that while i helped her with her reading during our last semester exam, when she had purportedly come back to me, she finished her exams one paper before me and while i was revising for my last paper, my "girlfriend" disappeared to spend the night with the dude only to appear the next day, how i managed to ace my last Exam is nothing short of miraculous. and i thank God i didnt pay academically for what she put me through which im am sure would have been to her greatest delight.

Anyways they can both enjoy themselves, though it hurts, but finally i know i'm better off without a lying, conniving bitch that can kill a man just to have her selfish way. to think that she was bleeping under my nose and yet will be harassing me when i contact other girls. As for the dude, i really do not envy him being puss.y whipped is a curse.

Ivynwa: Hoodboy, didn't I tell you (when you had a thread about her before) [color=#00009]to concentrate on[/color] your studies and run away from that love triangle?

tashanja: OP: Sorry about your experience and most of all the loss of your aunt. Also happy you chose to move on, its probably your best option eventually.

However, next time (though not wishing so ) bear in mind that there is a better way to deal with such deceipful biitches; play them back and later dump them i.e. cooperate with the other guy to continue screwing her concurrently and dump her after making sure she knew about the agreement, leaving her feeling exactly how she should - used and abused.

Unfortunately, you let your emotions flow too soon and ended up being out played by the other guy. It would appear whether intentionally or otherwise, he came disclosed stuff, pressed your buttons, and you expectedly blew your top and burned your bridges, then he cleverly sneaked behind to claim the girl all to himself - in short you were subtly out manouvred; so while they now both still have themselves you've been left out with only your balls in your hands.

Like I said, next time let the cheater pay, make her be the fool and the one dumped - you grab?

phunmy dahdah:
Hi dear I tot ny story was worse though it luks similar wit urs but wit slight difference, dis is d height,I didn't knw ladies do this too I tot it was only guys it really bad. Pls accept d chalenge and. Luk towards a beta future wit a partner that wuld sincerely love u for wu u r

phunmy dahdah:
Hi dear I tot ny story was worse though it luks similar wit urs but wit slight difference, dis is d height,I didn't knw ladies do this too I tot it was only guys it really bad. Pls accept d chalenge and. Luk towards a beta future wit a partner that wuld sincerely love u for wu u r

hoodboy:

Thanka , hope you find that person too. Better to learn from these sort of thing and avoid the same errors in a life long commitment

You guys should get together...