Is that saying 100% true or not?

jidegirl12: Is that saying 100% true or not?

NO
Human Being is very complex.
It is like saying 100% of Men or 100% of Women are unfaithful. That can never be true.

Some life issues are better experienced than what was written on ink.

What is 'cheater'? Do u mean 'cheat'?
To answer your question, NOPE people change.

How do you define who "a cheat" is?

cheatin is wen u smile at a gal/guy n wish she/he were ur babe meanwhil u av a gf/bf

No, circumstances can make one to become worse or better.

Yes the statement is very true. There are some exceptions of folks who realized the folly of their actions and stop cheating.

Most cheaters only stop when they are caught or things turned against them.

So i agree with the statement: once a cheater,always a cheater.

Thanks Ed .... that's the believe here too, I don't think a cheat will ever repent they always repeat the same thing again, not right away but it'll happen again,,, just my thot.

Yes,
Just like when a pig has had a taste of human blood,it must be put to sleep because it will come back for more.
Once a boyfriend/husband,girlfriend/wife has tasted the barbecue sauce from another person,they will go back for another scoop sooner or later.
The remedy is simple: cut them off.

Yes there are exceptions like ,the act was committed in retaliation or, the cheater was drugged at the time of the act.

If it was in retaliation,then counseling may be needed.
If drugging was involved,then it may be a criminal act needing the attention of a lawyer

jidegirl12: Thanks Ed .... that's the believe here too, I don't think a cheat will ever repent they always repeat the same thing again, not right away but it'll happen again,,, just my thot.

And ur purpose of opening the thread is? To find someone else that will reinforce your views on infidelity abi? smh..
Anyway, what about starting with you, look through your life, aren't there things you once did in childhood out of ignorance, wickedness or plain honesty that you've casted off due to maturity?
Ok, maybe not, but in my own life i have, and I'll boldly say that people are capable of change. Sex isn't as big a deal as you are making it to be.

Horayce:

And ur purpose of opening the thread is? To find someone else that will reinforce your views on infidelity abi? smh..
Anyway, what about starting with you, look through your life, aren't there things you once did in childhood out of ignorance, wickedness or plain honesty that you've casted off due to maturity?
Ok, maybe not, but in my own life i have, and I'll boldly say that people are capable of change. Sex isn't as big a deal as you are making it to be.

Well.... what'd you want me to say ? I'm just being straight forward here

I just asked a question and you attacked me for no reason( it's okay ) ... Yes I've done things I'm not proud of during my days in school ( high school/ Uni)

but I'm talking about when you're committed to somebody and you cheated.... sex isn't a big deal ? in my world meern it is!

( singing Rihanna ..just wanna dance )

Horayce:

And ur purpose of opening the thread is? To find someone else that will reinforce your views on infidelity abi? smh..
Anyway, what about starting with you, look through your life, aren't there things you once did in childhood out of ignorance, wickedness or plain honesty that you've casted off due to maturity?
Ok, maybe not, but in my own life i have, and I'll boldly say that people are capable of change. Sex isn't as big a deal as you are making it to be.

Not surprising to see you reply like this.
You are the guy who posted somewhere on this site that you tape videos of you and your girlfriend having sex.you even said that it was no brainer because most guys watch porrn.
Somewhere else you talked down on women and said things about serena williams and why Nigeria can not have a female head of state.

So, i am not surprised at all to see you say " sex isn't a big of a deal".you are entitled to your opinion.

To some of us,sex in marriage is sacred. It is a very big deal. We do not associate with swingers,polygamists,polyamorists,pedophiles,rrapists,pporn addicts and those who advocate such depravity.

You are free to go cheat on your spouse or even encourage her to cheat on you.it is your right and no one can take it away from you.

Thanks Ed.... wonders shall never end!

jidegirl12: Thanks Ed.... wonders shall never end!

Welcome.
The way he replied to you made me dig in his old posts.lo and behold,my gut instincts were right. He is a sexist and a perv.

eddy1977:


Not surprising to see you reply like this.
You are the guy who posted somewhere on this site that you tape videos of you and your girlfriend having sex.you even said that it was no brainer because most guys watch porrn.
Somewhere else you talked down on women and said things about serena williams and why Nigeria can not have a female head of state.

So, i am not surprised at all to see you say " sex isn't a big of a deal".you are entitled to your opinion.

To some of us,sex in marriage is sacred. It is a very big deal. We do not associate with swingers,polygamists,polyamorists,pedophiles,rrapists,pporn addicts and those who advocate such depravity.

You are free to go cheat on your spouse or even encourage her to cheat on you.it is your right and no one can take it away from you.

You've already formed a hasty opinion of me in just a few hours .
I see you also did that to score cheap brownie points with your votary.
But hey i'm already extending myself, and find it all amusing actually.
But this thing you call sacred, how sacred is marriage? isn't raw steamy mind-in-your-arze sex supposed to be part of the bargain?
I'm getting a hard-on thinking about the connection already, rotten me; but you can't say people are entitled to their opinions and their behaviors and in the same broad stroke condemn them.
it is lutheran-like and smacks of vain hypocrisy.
Be braver!
you dont't like what i do, or say ? Great, who does? but fight for my right to say or be it!

I have no freakin& idea what you just posted above

Its 100% true for some people.

jidegirl12: I have no freakin& idea what you just posted above

I have no freakin& idea why u shud

Okay then

Its true, because a cheater always find it comfortable to cheat. Its in the blood and even, no matter what you do, such person can only pretend to be good just for some-time. But still, that cheating feeling will still return. If a person finds it comfortable to cheat in past relationships, yours is not an exception!