Go crazy over a man? that will be a dumb thing to do.I understand how you feel dearie, i will only advice you not to reach conclusions yet as he may sure be under stress like he told you.just be patient with him and take it to God in prayer._{He never let his people down}Goodluck.

@poster:

It does sound like this guy is trying to play a fast one.

Give him some space and see what happens. 

If it were me o, I'd hang out with other guys just so I don't keep thinking about this one unneccesarily. But you do what you think is best. In any case, since he feels you're bothering him, give him his freedom.

Thanks everyone for your timely responses. Honestly I was at a cross road as to what to do. I'm glad I listened to you.
You are the best.

@Viviyn,
Keep your head up girl, he is not going to be the only man who will love you or who you will love. Most importantly, You should love yourself

For goodness sake, all these complain on nairaland about my b/f doing this and doing dat pisses me off, why d complain, since he's not ur husband, not ur 1st b/f & probabbly will not be d last.

All these b/f, g/f, fiancee stuff in d name of familiarization b4 marriage (if at all self), hope no sex is involved, I wonder what ur doing in his house during all those visits.

If only our girls will be wise, cos once d guys eats u tire, he become 2 loose interest, after food plenty 4 naija.

easternguy

HOW e dey do u for body? i tire 4 ur person

@ Poster

You sound like some desperate girl trying extremely hard (in vain) to hold on to a guy that wants out. Lawd!!! If the dude wants out let him be. There are plenty of nice good looking guys out there looking to hook up. Loosen up and live life meaningfully! (or are you ugly?)

Lord_Reed:

I don't understand why ladies seem to loose some of their self esteem when they go into relationship. Look let the guy alone remember he is the one chasing u. You can call him once awhile to see how he is doing so that he knows u still care but don't go calling him n whining on the phone like a lost puppy dog! You can also inform his family wats goin on since he has informed them so that if anytin happens they don't blame u.

Girl u got to be strong. A man who really loves u can't bare to b apart from u too long he will seek u out but u need to create that a air of mystery a little.

My guy God bless u.
Thats just it - we say stuff like 'he is my existence' only GOD should take that place.
Why must we loose our identity - we do that a lot.
I absolutely am desperately loving ma man, but come on now - lets leave a bit of space for the human element.

i think u should go for him, no matter d circumstance meant be

Gal,listen to dis sayin" if u have sumfin let it go,if it is urs it will surely come back 2 u,else it neva was urs!" which is wat most ppl here wer practically saying! Also dis will help u go a long way-"do not let anyone define ur happiness(existence) but let God n urself define it"!! If u kip dese two quotes in mind,u will not have any problems,TRUST ME!!!

easternguy:

For goodness sake, all these complain on nairaland about my b/f doing this and doing dat pisses me off, why d complain, since he's not your husband, not your 1st b/f & probabbly will not be d last.

All these b/f, g/f, fiancee stuff in d name of familiarization b4 marriage (if at all self), hope no sex is involved, I wonder what your doing in his house during all those visits.

If only our girls will be wise, cos once d guys eats u tire, he become 2 loose interest, after food plenty 4 naija.

EXACTLY D SAME TIN U N DAT GAL WERE DOING WEN SHE VISITED U,DOG!