;DIf she is like 5 to 8 yrs older still ok but if she is 20sometin older than u den u need correct back up documents ;DIf she is like 5 to 8 yrs older still ok but if she is 20sometin older than u den u need correct back up documents

Its simple now..you can get married at d registry in ikoyi..but why can't u go and meet her then get married there...its better...but if she can come then fine...it easy to get married here sha...me I no dey get marry for here.I no won av anytin to do wit naija again..

So much have been said here. But bros if u really say her age is 40+ and ur 20+, then it wud be extremely difficult to prove that ure not a potential migrant.
Ur prefered road map should be dat u invite her again to Nigeria, then allow her stay extensively for months in ur home dats if she doesnt hav a permanent job that is. And also ensure u host her a couple more times in the future like twice more... During her fourth visit, u can then proceed with ur traditional wedding and registry certification/ documentation.
This may work in ur favour in the long run. If she is seen by the Dutch Embassy to spend more of her time in Nigeria with u...despite ur age.

I really love ur advice, you speak with a true heart, thanks I will think about your idea.

am 18yrs and my uncle sent an invitation letter to me from Germany, I went to interview, in two days am time, I received my passport, Inside it, was steamed denied, reason because there was no strong tie to show I will return home, wen visa expires, am am not working ,I just finished secondary school? what can I do, answers needed please!!