I do not see the point in even considering a relationship with any of her exes at this point. She is an abusive marriage and needs to sort that out first. Her husband's absence at the family meeting shows that he does not care about the marriage or the children should they seperate. Painful as it is, there lies her answer. It is time to move on and forge a better life for herself and her kids.
I would suggest not entertaining the noton of dating as yet as she needs time to heal and reflect on the direction she wants her life to take. There is something empowering about being the master of your own destiny, being in charge of your life. It doesn't mean everything will fall into place automatically but atleast she will hold her life and happiness firmly in her own hands. And that of her kids as well. When she attains that happiness or should I say contentment within herself knowing that she is being the best she can be as a person(not necessarily materially), then any other thing will be jara on top the happiness. If she goes into a relationship then, it'll be because she wants to and not because of circumstances. Also if any relationship doesn't work, she will capable of leaving secure in the knowledge that she does not need one to be happy.

tpacalipse: The nigerian churches may be money making homes where anything can happen, but I do not think they have gone so down to the level of being party to marriage btw one woman and two husband same time.

I have never witnessed such event here in Nigeria.
190! Hmmmmmmm... R u planning to dive into Polygamy?

shaybe baby: I do not see the point in even considering a relationship with any of her exes at this point. She is an abusive marriage and needs to sort that out first. Her husband's absence at the family meeting shows that he does not care about the marriage or the children should they seperate. Painful as it is, there lies her answer. It is time to move on and forge a better life for herself and her kids.
I would suggest not entertaining the noton of dating as yet as she needs time to heal and reflect on the direction she wants her life to take. There is something empowering about being the master of your own destiny, being in charge of your life. It doesn't mean everything will fall into place automatically but atleast she will hold her life and happiness firmly in her own hands. And that of her kids as well. When she attains that happiness or should I say contentment within herself knowing that she is being the best she can be as a person(not necessarily materially), then any other thing will be jara on top the happiness. If she goes into a relationship then, it'll be because she wants to and not because of circumstances. Also if any relationship doesn't work, she will capable of leaving secure in the knowledge that she does not need one to be happy.

*Thumbs up*
Thanks for the advice
I wonder and hope Allen's family won't start running their mouths.
Some Nigerian families are something else. They might say, their son came begging and Anggie refused him. Some might even add that Anggie wants to live a promiscious life outside marriage.
God help her.

sexkillz: **whistling**

This is super story
a life of strife and sorrow
where the fish drown
or even die of thirst. . . .

Mr. Moderator!
SMH...