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Top Reason Girls Mess Up Relationship by alacrity007: 5:57pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
Ladies, if your relationship is always unsuccesfull check these. You maybe fucking up your dating world unknowlly. these are top reasons why your man always find his way out before you know it. 1: YOU ARE TOO FAST TO CLAIM HIM AS YOURS: You just met each other and you think that he is fun for you to date. You are worried whether he meet other girls yes of cos. As single guy who has a lot to offer likelly to be involve in this act, so calm down. Behaving this way will only escalete the fact by scaring him away,and he will categorize you as "SAME SPACIE". That he has other woman before you thus not mean that the relationship will not last cos that cannot stop him from loving you once you ARE REAL. "If he has no girlfriend,you start to question if something is wrong with him" Calm down and use more time in knowing him very well cos at last,you may realize that he is not the level you are considering him. 2: YOU ARE NOT COOL: As a woman,don't expect that your man will not enjoy his hobbies. Men feel great when their women show a little sign of interest on their favourite activities. Don't force him to suspend watching his soccer in order to give you attention. Even if you don't enjoy it you can still add some flavour by saying things like; " So ur Club will play tonight I bet you,they are going to lose tonight you can try and watch it a bit. Men feel great with this cos it expresses that they are appreciated. 3: YOU ARE NOT HOT ENOUGH: No man is willy to be with a girl that hardly care for her apperance. " so am going to be with this mess in next 8 years? Imagine how she will look like in that moment? Who will accept to buy an old and weak mobile phone for his entire life while lot of flashy and strong phones are available to him and he is fit to get them You need to have time to organise and Take good look of your apperance . 4: YOU ARE NOT OPEN: You can't carry out communication. You pretend to tolerate everything he did while it piss you off. When it's time to discuse important issue you keep quiet, you can't express your opinion . Your partiner can't read your mind so feel free to express your impression on what you like and dislike. 5: YOUR REWARD IS TOO POOR: You believe that true love expect nothing in return so you don't work hard to show your appreciation of being loved by someone. " oh.... i love him so much cos he is hardworking man while you can't even handle kitchen activities. You can't work hard on your studies. He is a neat guy while your hair is always dirty with off design clothing. His parents is so nice and responsibe while your family is ONE WEEK ONE TROUBLE. He support me in all my needs. You think that you have paid him back with sexxxx lie. there are things left to offer apart from sexxxx 6: YOU ARE INSECURE: You don't appreciate who you are. you think that you are not suitable to date such cool guy. You ignore her praises and compliment cos you belive that you are not worthy to be complimented. 'ooh babay you really look great on that dress or u made a wonderfull speech during the class. Don't turn him down by saying ' i know u don't mean it of say simple thanks otherwise he will sence that trait of insecurity in you. Men love to be with confident girl. 7: YOU ARE TOO CLINGY: You need to give him space to share his wonderfull life with his male friends. Don't obstruct him if he choose to drink with his male friends, thinking that they may meet other girls. That will only scare him away cos every man want free life. Give him some space for him to enjoy his privacy. Give him soe space to miss each other. 8: YOU ARE UNGRATEFUL: No matter how much he try to please you, you never show a sign of graditude to him. Your man will easily go for another girl once he observe that you can't be satisfy. Express some sign of satifaction for him to know when you are happy and unhappy too. 9: YOU DON'T HAVE ENDURANCE: Just because he didn't answer your call does not mean that he is with another girl. Don't misbehave for that cos it looks childish. When he is not around, keep yourself busy with something else instead of getting worry on who he maybe sharing with. Act like mature person by resisting some certain obnormalities that may occur. CHECK YOUR SCORE AND MODIFY IT.............. |
Re: Top Reason Girls Mess Up Relationship by 190: 8:36pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
Oh my God!! Oh My God! |
Re: Top Reason Girls Mess Up Relationship by Nobody: 8:53pm On Oct 09, 2012 |
some people DO have insecurity issues. are you suggesting they should pretend they haven't? |
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