iceberylin:
Watch it...

I got a Sister

JoshuaKay:
At first there was this gal I was so close to back in sec sch, so much intimacy btw us that ppl think we were actually dating. But u know what? We were just close friends.
Sincerely urs, it's not as if I didn't wish we could take it beyond friendship level but two things restrained me;
1. She was very religious n holiness was all over her.
2. I didn't want to lose my friendship with her in case she'd say NO.
But surprisingly, less than a yr after finishing sec sch, she gave birth to a baby boy. I was like "could this be true? could this be d same gal I know in sch or someone else?
I was so disappointed and at d same time regretted dat I never told her my real feelings for her.
Well, life must continue. We remained just casual friends afterwards n I moved on with d promise never to mk d same mistake again in my life.
Finally, I met this gentle beautiful girl at one of d combined church programs we used to have in my diocese n I didn't waste much time to approach her even though it took me a lot of courage to do so. We talked n I really feel good during our conversation but I wasn't able to get her contact number. It took a whole yr b4 we were able to meet again. I was so excited to see her n she was surprised I could still remember n recognise her. From there things got mutual btw us n we started dating(distant relationship).
As time goes on, we knw more abt each other n even knw each other's friends n families. I blvd our love grows younger as days grow older or so to say because of some level of commitment we both showed toward d relationship.
We agreed to maintain a plutonic relationship for d mean time n we maintained this for almost 2yrs.
But things changed when she started a pre-degree program in LAUTECH last yr. Universities nationwide were still on strike but she moved to sch since October last yr all in d name of attending tutorials. As God would have it, I was also given admission to study a 4yr course in UNIBEN dat same October but decided to keep it from her in order to make it a surprise for her when strikes are over.
Unfortunately, as d yr was running to an end so was d communication btw us going to its end. Later she uploaded a picture of her with her new bf on whatsapp n she wrote notes expressing her love 4 him on her status. At this point, I was really heartbroken. I confronted her n she couldn't deny it, some of our close friends tried to settle dis issue btw us but I asked her to do three things that would enable me to be sure of my position with her even though I knew she wouldn't do it.
1. She should upload a picture of my humble self as her dp.
2. She should write on her status stating how much she loved me
3. She should see me anytime she's back from sch.
As presumed, she couldn't do any of them and that confirmed our breakup.
Since then we stopped communicating n I've deleted her number. Until sometime in June when I received this call from a strange number n guess who? It was my ex. Why did she call? She called to warn/advice me on d type of gals I'd be going out with in sch. I was just like 'who r u advice me on something like that and how on earth did u even know that I am in sch since I didn't tell her I got an admission'?
Just early last last month one of my friends from home called to tell me dat my ex had been pregnant. I didn't want to blv at first but not later than 2wks after d news, I saw pictures of her and her newborn baby on facebook.
I called one of her friends to ascertain this n everything I've been told n seen were true. I was so nonplussed.
These experiences have now left me with only one conclusion that:
There's no SAINT GIRL anywhere.

MizMyColi:
I read the closing speech.
That's rather myopic, imo

You need to glean things from a higher perspective.

Start with this;

You respect people (boys, girls, men and women) not because they deserve it or NOT, but because....it's who you are @ your core.

It's your tradition.


If you assimilate this mindset, trust me.....the universe has a way of attracting you to people of like mindsets.

You made this post because a part of you still wants to believe in the "impossible"

Well, impossible's nothing

damselabi:
Swithrt quit looking 4 a saint, dats d problem u r having cos no1 on earth is.D girl u see all covered up clutching tightly to her bible u don't knw wot she does behind close doors bt once u c a girl who dresses or makes up or doesn't look dat spiritual u feel she's a sinner.We r all striving 2wards perfection no1 is, dia r still decent girls who take dia relationships seriously bt dey r nt saints eida.Attending evry chch service doesn't make u HOLY.

MizMyColi:
I read the closing speech.
That's rather myopic, imo

You need to glean things from a higher perspective.

Start with this;

You respect people (boys, girls, men and women) not because they deserve it or NOT, but because....it's who you are @ your core.

It's your tradition.


If you assimilate this mindset, trust me.....the universe has a way of attracting you to people of like mindsets

You made this post because a part of you still wants to believe in the "impossible"

Well, impossible's nothing

JoshuaKay:


Ain't really looking for a saint, just wished there could be someone that'll be really honest with u.

1one:


Have you read The Secret by Rhonda Bryne?

That submission of yours seems like a reflection from the major theme of the book.

Nope
Maybe my teachers have.

1one:


Have you read The Secret by Rhonda Bryne?

That submission of yours seems like a reflection from the major theme of the book.

pDude:
Why are all your ex girlfriends always getting pregnant like goat?

JoshuaKay:


I hope she's beautiful...

JoshuaKay:
At first there was this gal I was so close to back in sec sch, so much intimacy btw us that ppl think we were actually dating. But u know what? We were just close friends.
Sincerely urs, it's not as if I didn't wish we could take it beyond friendship level but two things restrained me;
1. She was very religious n holiness was all over her.
2. I didn't want to lose my friendship with her in case she'd say NO.
But surprisingly, less than a yr after finishing sec sch, she gave birth to a baby boy. I was like "could this be true? could this be d same gal I know in sch or someone else?
I was so disappointed and at d same time regretted dat I never told her my real feelings for her.
Well, life must continue. We remained just casual friends afterwards n I moved on with d promise never to mk d same mistake again in my life.
Finally, I met this gentle beautiful girl at one of d combined church programs we used to have in my diocese n I didn't waste much time to approach her even though it took me a lot of courage to do so. We talked n I really feel good during our conversation but I wasn't able to get her contact number. It took a whole yr b4 we were able to meet again. I was so excited to see her n she was surprised I could still remember n recognise her. From there things got mutual btw us n we started dating(distant relationship).
As time goes on, we knw more abt each other n even knw each other's friends n families. I blvd our love grows younger as days grow older or so to say because of some level of commitment we both showed toward d relationship.
We agreed to maintain a plutonic relationship for d mean time n we maintained this for almost 2yrs.
But things changed when she started a pre-degree program in LAUTECH last yr. Universities nationwide were still on strike but she moved to sch since October last yr all in d name of attending tutorials. As God would have it, I was also given admission to study a 4yr course in UNIBEN dat same October but decided to keep it from her in order to make it a surprise for her when strikes are over.
Unfortunately, as d yr was running to an end so was d communication btw us going to its end. Later she uploaded a picture of her with her new bf on whatsapp n she wrote notes expressing her love 4 him on her status. At this point, I was really heartbroken. I confronted her n she couldn't deny it, some of our close friends tried to settle dis issue btw us but I asked her to do three things that would enable me to be sure of my position with her even though I knew she wouldn't do it.
1. She should upload a picture of my humble self as her dp.
2. She should write on her status stating how much she loved me
3. She should see me anytime she's back from sch.
As presumed, she couldn't do any of them and that confirmed our breakup.
Since then we stopped communicating n I've deleted her number. Until sometime in June when I received this call from a strange number n guess who? It was my ex. Why did she call? She called to warn/advice me on d type of gals I'd be going out with in sch. I was just like 'who r u advice me on something like that and how on earth did u even know that I am in sch since I didn't tell her I got an admission'?
Just early last last month one of my friends from home called to tell me dat my ex had been pregnant. I didn't want to blv at first but not later than 2wks after d news, I saw pictures of her and her newborn baby on facebook.
I called one of her friends to ascertain this n everything I've been told n seen were true. I was so nonplussed.
These experiences have now left me with only one conclusion that:
There's no SAINT GIRL anywhere.

pDude:
Why are all your ex girlfriends always getting pregnant like goat?

MizMyColi:


Nope
Maybe my teachers have.

joseph1832:
Pardon me I am curious to know who your teachers are?. Please, do kindly tell.

MizMyColi:


Nope
Maybe my teachers have.

joseph1832:
Couldn't agree more. "The law of Attraction". Any way I feel respect is something you earn, you just don't expect me to respect you for no reason at all.

Same applies to girls. I once had a similar experience with what the OP had. When it comes to girls respect is what I don't give them until the show or prove they deserve it, same goes with trust.