Confonting your unfaithful spouse at a public event only brings you to his level. Act maturely and restrict such undignifying confrontations in the privacy of your bedroom.

Or, what do you think of this saying, "Dont wash your dirty linens in public"?

Ndipe:

Confonting your unfaithful spouse at a public event only brings you to his level. Act maturely and restrict such undignifying confrontations in the privacy of your bedroom.
Or, what do you think of this saying, "Dont wash your dirty linens in public"?

Say what? If you do that in the privacy of your bedroom---people usually continue their mess.

spoilt:

a wife has a right to confront a cheating spouse anywhere. even at his presidential swearing in.
even if they had been at home he would have done the same thing.

That's right!!!!  Anywhere, anytime!!!!!  Some people are best disgraced in public!!!!!


_{Especially Naija men!}

Confront him wherever, even in front of his Pastor or boss at work!

shameful men like that need to be embarrassed, humiliated and of course castrated

no wait! what are we talking about here - frank edoho

My husband -- ------ Beat me ------ DEM DON BORN AM WEL!!!!! no way in hell! i go kill am!

I will SUE u to death! That's y i say ladies have got to be educated! u ve got to top it! gosssh i pity d man!

that's y i like myself ---- i will not scream or shout like you're some big deal -- i say it straight to your face that your a chicken-change! sue u to death! and of course i would win d case, because not only did u cheat but u beat me as well so d case is mine! File 4 divorce n get more of the properties than u and go my 4king way!


u've got to make d jerk feel worthless, u can't bring yourself so low as screaming and making all those fuzz shit!

That is if u did not sign a pre nup , abi

Uche2nna:

That is if u did not sign a pre nup , abi

how many couples sighn pre nup in 9ja?

Uche2nna:

That is if u did not sign a pre nup , abi

Nella:

how many couples sighn pre nup in Nigeria?

LOL! LOL! pre-nup in Nigeria? very funny! I guess maybe one or none!!!

I don't know what is becoming of most Naija men. Is it not the other day that a lagos state lawmaker beat a pregnant woman to stupor?

uspry1 so if the topic is not i kissed him but hee didnt kiss me back or sumthing like that it should not be on nairaland?
for once an educative and enlightening thread that has to do with our nigerian culture!!
dont shoot it down.

by the way aisha2 was the man urhobo? cos i heard na them dey beat wife pass

I can't understand, if the woman wanted to confront her husband, why didn't she wait till he gets home, why at the office? I personally don't believe in public confrontation, there are many other effective ways to deal with this kind of problem, but it's obvious that the man doesn't have an iota of regard for his wife.

What a shame! 

The man don KOLO MENTAL!

uspry1:

LOL! LOL! pre-nup in Nigeria? very funny! I guess maybe one or none!!!

What has pre-nup got to do with woman beating? pre-up or not a man who wants to beat will beat. Period!

babycool:


What has pre-nup got to do with woman beating? pre-up or not a man who wants to beat will beat. Period!

read d b4 posts lady,

Do really think that pre-up is the solution?

Yes i get away with all his property, i have a broken home, broken bones, confused and sad children? God forbid!
Some things should just be avoided

But hey, it's better than living with a husband who beats u up! you're not happy, he cheated on u and upon that beats u up?? How worse could it get??

aisha2 aisha2

Story that touch so fake. husband beater, hisssssssssssss

Nella abi oh!

Sly
what is fake about it? we all know that some men beat. Haba! 

The woman should have been patient enough to hold her anger and waits for her husband to return home .
That was rather beastly of the man too.Beating his wife publicly_{where do they put simple courtesy} .Too bad.

Nella:


how many couples sighn pre nup in Nigeria?

Well, if U are talking about pre nup in Nigeria, I guess I have never seen any. On the same hand,U wont get one Kobo by dragging the man to court in Nigeria. The guy go just send u back to ur mama house with no sweat. Na In laws go come dey beg am make him take U back.

But U will get a whole lot given the way the system works here , but then thats why I raised the issue of the pre nup thingy.

The woman no get brothers and male relatives
If I were her,I'll  "unleash" all my male clansmen to give him the beating of his life
That way when the case is being arbitrated,everyone will be speaking the same language of pain and suffering.

Well, dats one option. But it will heavily depend on the number of Akpu-obi clansmen that U have. Woe betide U , if the man have more "clans men" than U

Also if the financial power of the man pass ur own , na for kirikiri all those ur clansmen go sleep

@ osisi, very good advice .

@ poster, I was expecting to hear that the 'Mike Tyson-lawyer' was actually beaten unconscious by the mob . This kind of stories are pathetic cause these same guys that beat up their women stand at attention like security guards in some nigerian movies and answer 'yes ma' when their female bosses address them. Fighting their fellow men is not in their to-do list either. These women that are beaten by some men should follow osisi's advice or better still follow mine which is: tell some touts to jump the guy and carry him to an iroko tree. The touts should tie the guy to the iroko tree, then scrape his body with a broken beer bottle while the 'punching bag-lady' is watching and enjoying the scenario. They should end the 'act' by pouring a bucket of stinging acids mixed with ice on him and leave him there under the sun . Since he's a beast I believe that he should be treated as one.

Zandra1:

@ osisi, very good advice .

@ poster, I was expecting to hear that the 'Mike Tyson-lawyer' was actually beaten unconscious by the mob . This kind of stories are pathetic cause these same guys that beat up their women stand at attention like security guards in some nigerian movies and answer 'yes ma' when their female bosses address them. Fighting their fellow men is not in their to-do list either. These women that are beaten by some men should follow osisi's advice or better still follow mine which is: tell some touts to jump the guy and carry him to an iroko tree. The touts should tie the guy to the iroko tree, then scrape his body with a broken beer bottle while the 'punching bag-lady' is watching and enjoying the scenario. They should end the 'act' by[b] pouring a bucket of stinging acids mixed with ice on[/b] him and leave him there under the sun . Since he's a beast I believe that he should be treated as one.

chai! these S & M feminists! whats this an inquisition?

But we women we really have to be on the look out, God will help us.
There are times during their courtship that he would have shown his true colour that she probably just ignored.

adeboo:

But we women we really have to be on the look out, God will help us.
There are times during their courtship that he would have shown his true colour that she probably just ignored.

MY DEAR SISTER, HELP ME TELL ALL THESE LADIES WHO ARE ALREADY BOASTING THAT THEIR MEN CANNOT BEAT THEM OR CHEAT ON THEM TO BE CAREFUL! WHEN PPLE ARE IN COURTSHIP, THEY IGNORE LITTLE SIGNALS THAT WILL MAKE THEM TO KNOW THE CHARACTER OF THE PPLE THEY MARRY. I HAVE ONCE, NO TWICE DONE 'AMEBO' TO SEPERATE FIGHTING(?) LOVERS YET TO BE MARRIED. THE LAST ONE THE GUY WAS BEATING D HELL OUT OF HIS FIANCEE, WE ALL RUSHED IN TO SEPERATE. THEY GUY GOT MORE ANNOYED THAT OUTSIDERS ARE GETTING INVOLVED, THERE N THEN, THIS GIRL WHO WAS ALMOST LYNCHED TO DEAT BEGAN 2 APOLOGIZE FOR OUR INTRUSION. I VOWED NEVER TO DO AMEBO HELP AGAIN! IT IS WHAT IS GOOD 4 U THAT U EAT

oyb:

chai! these S & M feminists! whats this an inquisition?

what is your solution then?
The man needs to be taught a lesson by his fellow men .
I'm a lover not a fighter
but if I dey jejely and a man come smack me gbowai on a street corner, baby,it's on!
He has declared war and God help him.

Uche2nna:

Well, that is one option. But it will heavily depend on the number of Akpu-obi clansmen that You have. Woe betide You , if the man have more "clans men" than You

Also if the financial power of the man pass your own , na for kirikiri all those your clansmen go sleep

My brother one doesn't have to be a killer to see dead bodies.

If she no get am for muscular clansmen,she can rent some to roughen the guy up a little and teach him a little sense in the language he understands.
Then after we all go for confession and marriage counselling ROFL.

by osisi
The woman no get brothers and male relatives
If I were her,I'll "unleash" all my male clansmen to give him the beating of his life
That way when the case is being arbitrated,everyone will be speaking the same language of pain and suffering.

Lol, typical ibo style.

i witnessed the incident.
the man caught his wife with his gateman making out
the gateman jumped the fence and ran away leaving the man to vent his anger on the wife.
he chased her from their house to the mainroad with the womans'
pleas for forgiveness falling on deaf ears.
she was later handed over to the sharia court

bennygee:

i witnessed the incident.
the man caught his wife with his gateman making out
the gateman jumped the fence and ran away leaving the man to vent his anger on the wife.
he chased her from their house to the mainroad with the womans'
pleas for forgiveness falling on deaf ears.
she was later handed over to the sharia court

The man should go check himself.
How come an ordinary mai guard get better sexual appeal pass am.
madam no be wood now.
I wonder what the sharia courts did to the poor woman probably being starved by an unperforming mallam with a shrivelled up hotdog.