DO YOU THINK IT IS GOOD TO LEAVE YOUR GIRL THAT YOU WANT TO MARRY RIGHT HERE IN NIGERIA, WHILE YOU ARE GONG TO ABROAD,
DO YOU THINK SUCH GIRL WILL BE HONEST WITH THE GUY WHILE HE IS IN ABROAD.

PLEASE ADVISE IF SUCH WILL WAIT FOR HIM TO COME BACK, OR SHE WILL MOVE TO ANOTHER GUY AT THE LONG RUN.

It’s never a good idea. Then again, it works for some people.

Which people, its work for nobody i advice you quit b4 living abroad.

Its never a good idea, if you going for awhile then kiss your relationship good bye.

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yea 4 me o
i wld b faithful

I don't think that works out too well in my opinion. But then again, if you feel that you both can handle it then give it a shot.

it all depends on the trust both of you have for each other

and the level of understanding the both of you have for each other too

Ok, want to marry and marriage are two different things.

I have done something similar in my young days and I found someone else. So expect those obstacles to happen. It's life.

If your married, keep your family together. Don't compromise. Do everything you can to hold it all together, especially in the beginning of a marriage. You will come out stronger on the other side. In the end you can only put forth your best effort.

It dont make sense to say something like dude in naija thinks his girl is faithful. Girl has been chasing me all around London since i joined that church!

mntpaul:

Ok, want to marry and marriage are two different things.

I have done something similar in my young days and I found someone else. So expect those obstacles to happen. It's life.

If your married, keep your family together. Don't compromise. Do everything you can to hold it all together, especially in the beginning of a marriage. You will come out stronger on the other side. In the end you can only put forth your best effort.

He has said it all