Guys, I had a relationship that lasted fours years but at the end i realised having money or not doesn't guarantee true love but come to think of it,sincerely can there be true love without money?

Yes there can!!!!
Love doesn't cost a penny, money can make it easier or harder.
I know a guy who is a friend of my fathers - he is very famous (has at least two million pounds) (cant say his name for obvious reasons) he has to pay for sex and is usually unhappy - women see his cash and use him for it.
On the other hand if you have no money there can be more arguments - because people may be stressed.
But like i said - LOVE costs NOTHING!
My husband asks me why I'm with him (because I'm from a fairly wealthy family & he isn't), but i tell him I'm with him because i love him - you cant buy or sell love - it's something that is given with or without money.

alpa,i quite agree wit u coz of d xperince u have(i mean been married) n been a lady u are!!!but plz consider smone from d other side of ur very self, might b u knew money wasn't ur problem and so u had to settle 4 love.

yes if u love the person
it doesnt matter if the person is rich or poor

just because I'm from a wealthy family - doesn't mean i have any of the wealth.
there was a time when i had a large argument with my father (and he is one to cut off his nose to spite his face) me and my fiance at the time looked at leaving and never coming back - so i would of still been pennyless.
i have never borrowed money from my family and I'm standing in £3000.00 worth of debt right now.
so yes i still stick to my original quote - that love costs nothing.
I'd happly be in debt a thousand times over to be with the one i love - i have slept on floors just to spend the night with him (unfortunately- my hair matted the night i slept on the floor - and had to have it chopped off), but it's part of love.
if you truly love someone, you don't care wether they are rich or poor, black or white, young or old, tall or short, etc.

wow!!!alpa,,uve absolutely paid the price, let me just consider you to be exceptional, Humans at times are like that and ur hubby sholud be proud of you, I pray to have someone like you in my life sha, kip it up.

Concerning love and money:
- Can A Girl Choose A Husband On Love Alone?
- Romance Without Finance?
- Does Finance Matter In Any Relationship?
- Does Love Have Anything To Do With Money?
- Can Love Without Money Work?

yes to some difficult to attain extent,

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Guys, I had a relationship that lasted fours years but at the end i realised having money or not doesn't guarantee true love but come to think of it,sincerely can there be true love without money?

yes snazz, dere cn be true love without money!

Guys, I had a relationship that lasted fours years but at the end i realised having money or not doesn't guarantee true love but come to think of it,sincerely can there be true love without money?

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yes there can be tru Love without money!!!!

well love doensnt cost a thing it only pays for what you feel

Yes.

yes,bt money is also a factor dt affects love.

yes!

Can There Be True Love Without Money?

It depends on your taste.

Yes, there can be true love without money.

In fact, its better that both of you start together at the bottom of the ladder with your love waxing strong, climb it together with your love waxing strong and by the time you both get to the top, your love for each other will still be waxing strong, money will not be able to cause divisions in the family.

Well said , I have this Webster Lexicon Dictionary with my favourite quote " its often said that money will not buy you everything, but  have you ever tried buying without money". I guess  you will then know the  value of money. Please money is a facilitator. Unless you meant that  money was not used to woo  you over. Check out  all the movie tickets, gifts, eat outs, good looks and lots more. Being in love makes you  most times to compete and impress your partner. These you got to with some money.

Maybe, maybe not.

well,all i know my love doesnt cost a damn thing but it only pays for what i feel

"it pays for what I feel" I'm wondering.

well keep wondering

I don't have to. Why don't you fill me in?

babymine:

I don't have to. Why don't you fill me in?

am gonna fill in girl,

well what am saying is that,if u love someone it doesnt matter what the person is or
what he does,u are loving the person from ya heart,not what the person have,
or what he or she does,


well as for me my love doesnt cost money or a thing it pays for what i feel inside me,
i dont know about ya babymine?

practically in NIgeria,love as in true love has its price.its either the lady knows the guy is ambitious or smtin.true love comes only to those that appreciate what love is all about.people that are concerned about there future.people that thinks less of there today but rather are ready to sacrifice for tmrrw, people that are aware that true love can only be polished with money, without money,true love will diminish with time.

Me too, eve. My love don't cost a thing.

babymine:

Me too, eve. My love don't cost a thing.

guess u feel me babymine


love dont cost a damn thing but it can pays for what ya feel

is not always about money

Sure! If there can be love without SEX then surely there can be love without MONEY.

The problem is "guys think that all what the girl wants from them is MONEY" and "the girls thinks all what the guy wants is SEX"

Love a girl/guy for who he/she is, forget abt sex (premarital sex) u'll have enough of it when u get married and u girls demand less.

Mind you, u date to learn each other, help each other (not just finacially), correct each other and then live happily together ever after if its God's wish

Let stop thinking "all the girls want is cash" and "all the boys want is sex"
Cheers