Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,158,499 members, 7,836,942 topics. Date: Wednesday, 22 May 2024 at 02:47 PM

*nine Signs That Say She Loves You* - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / *nine Signs That Say She Loves You* (1329 Views)

Signs That Show A Girl Is Secretly In Love With You / Warning Signs That Your Girl Doesn't Love You Anymore. / 9 Signs That Say She Loves U (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply) (Go Down)

*nine Signs That Say She Loves You* by Bezed(m): 12:47am On Oct 31, 2012
*Nine Signs That Say She Loves
You*
1. Communication
She calls you often, wants to
know what you’re doing, and
shares her day’s activities. When you ask about her plans
for the evening, or the
weekend, or even the whole
summer, she doesn’t hedge or
put you off. She is open and
forthcoming. 2. Exclusivity
When she only wants to see
you, and does not give you the
“space” talk, as in, “I need my s
pace,” and is not craning her
neck to watch other men walk by, you have her attention. She
makes it known to you and to
everyone else that she does not
want to date other people.
3. No Conflicting Messages
She makes you her one and only love interest and does not send
you conflicting messages. She
does not say things like, “I’m in
love with you, you are my soul
mate, I can’t live without you…
AND…I saw my ex yesterday and I think Istill have feelings
for him.” This kind of message
will drive you crazy. You will
feel like the rubber ball
attached to the paddle by a slim
rubber string, batted back and forth. The real message that is
being sent is: come here… and
go away. You can’t win. But if
she loves you, her words and
thoughts are straight forward
and you do not feel batted around.
4. Family and Friends
She makes plans to introduce
you to her family and friends.
When you meet them, you
realize they already know a lot about you because she has
obviously talked about you.
Most of them (except the few
jealous ones) are warm and
friendly and genuinely excited
for her that she has found happiness.
5. The Future
When she talks about her plans
for the future,she automatically
includes you in them. She has
places she wants to take you and sights she wants to show
you. She follows through on her
suggestions. She might also
mention marriage and children,
if only in an abstract way, to
evaluate your reaction. 6. Affirming
She speaks often of how proud
she is of you. She does this
privately and publicly. She
thinksthe work you do is the
most important thing in the world and loves for you to tell
her about what you
accomplished during the
day.She is happy to help you
with your work in any way she
can. 7. Gifts
She has noticed what you like,
admire, and read, and brings
you gifts that reflect what she
has observed. The quality of her
gift shows the level of her perception about what you like.
If she is rich, she may buy you
expensive presents. If she is
not, she may send cards, books,
or poems. If she is not richand
she sends a Porsche or a pricey suit, she’sgot some problems.
Have the grownup conversation
with her about how you don’t
like gifts she can’t afford. That
would be a very loving thing to
do. 8. Touchy
Your girl may be the touchy
type, which is notthe hyper-
thin-skin ned poor sport, but the
warm, snuggly sort. She may
show her love and affection by holding your hand when you’re
together, giving big long hugs,
frequent kisses, and putting her
arm through yours. Her favorite
date may be a movie at home so she can cuddle up with you. 9. Helpful
Another overt sign of love is
how helpful she is. When she
does the garbage detail, helps
in the yard, helps you prepare a
speech, or cooks your favorite meal, she wants to be in your
life!
To move these feelings along,
and to better understand where
she is, ask her what she wants
her future to look like. If she has you init, and a time-line for
certain events that bind you
together, the ball is in your
court. What do you want?
Remember: in order for love to
sustain itself, it needs to flow back and forth. If you do all of
the above also, your
relationship should be ontrack.
Re: *nine Signs That Say She Loves You* by amosy007: 12:52am On Oct 31, 2012
Cant agree less..
Its just that only rich guys. Or playaz get this kinda love in 21st sextury century
Re: *nine Signs That Say She Loves You* by larrymoore(m): 3:09am On Oct 31, 2012
On d next market day l will look out 4 these attributes.
Re: *nine Signs That Say She Loves You* by Mynd44: 5:38am On Oct 31, 2012
WTF is this
Re: *nine Signs That Say She Loves You* by Nobody: 8:54am On Oct 31, 2012
Yeah very applicable where life is a bed of roses. undecided
Re: *nine Signs That Say She Loves You* by amosy007: 4:09pm On Oct 31, 2012
Mynd_44: WTF is this

how come u never see anything good in all posts?

1 Like

Re: *nine Signs That Say She Loves You* by Mynd44: 4:10pm On Oct 31, 2012
amosy007:

how come u never see anything good in all posts?
Stop stalking me
Re: *nine Signs That Say She Loves You* by amosy007: 4:22pm On Oct 31, 2012
Mynd_44:
Stop stalking me

undecided undecided

(1) (Reply)

Unfaithful Me / Why Does She Ignore Me? / My Girlfriend Accused Me Of Being Too Generous

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 13
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.