I was quite surprised when my friend who is now happily married told me that he does not share the same room and bed with his wife and that they both have separate rooms. He told me that they are not having problems and that they live happily. Then during the night when they are in the mood(you know what I mean) she will come to his room for business. So I don't know if this is good or not, because everyone is entitled to his or her own lifestyle but as a couple I thought both of them are supposed to share things together including their bedroom. So Nairalanders what do you think about this??

I like the idea, because I hate to share, don't get this the wrong way, but I don't like my things tampered with.
I like my disorganised room and I know where everything is, even a needle. Than an organised room where I can't find the remote or my phone, get the point? Arrrggghhh!!!! I hate that so much, that I get irritated my just thinking and typing about it.

If you aren't willing to share a room, why, in the first place, did you agree to share a home?!

All that one na capriccio!
The day you say 'I do' to me, you're saying I do agree to share everything with you - body, money, home, room, life and everything else.

Well, whatever rocks each one's boat!

I can understand having separate rooms where they each keep their stuff.....but still sleep in one and same room/bed everyday
Seen a lot of couples with that kind of arrangement.
...but separate rooms,separate beds?
Nah!
I can't understand that!!!

I dont have any thoughts on it for it is their marriage and not mine.

Different Strokes for different people. Personally i like the idea of separate rooms, that doesn't mean we don't get to spend the night together. There are times i go to that pretty weird place where i suddenly become a biatch and having company just makes me worse, we can call the other bedroom my getaway.