timbros:

You just forced me to comment on this thread.
Must you bring religion into this? I hope you know you want to detrail this thread. Jehovah's Witnesses editing the bible? Thats just plain silly. Are there examples you have to back up your claim? The fact that you dont agree with their interpretation of the bible doesnt make them "edit the bible". How are you sure your not the one editing the bible? Afam just asked you a question which you havent even aswered correctly and here you have turned the discussion religiously. Although the sons of Noah shielded their eyes from seeing their father's unclothedness, the question still stands, did Noah curse the other son because he SAW his unclothedness or because he MOCKED his unclothedness?
Just a question and you have changed it to Jehovah's Witnesses editing the bible.

@all:
Sorry for derailing the topic a bit. But the quoted pissed me off how he misinterpret Jehovah's Witnesses. If you dont agree with them you dont have to go about misinterpreting them.

Yes, i am one of Jehovah's Witnesses.

Idi-Amin:
Need your opinion, me and my wife always disgree about something. It's nothing major, but she takes it too serious.

We have 3 kids. 7 year old boy, and twin girls, 4 years old. My wife has a problem that I do not hide my unclothedness from my kids. If I am urinating in the toilet, and my son wants to pee as well, he comes beside me and pees, and he will even joke and try to shoot my pee with his pee. I do not tell him to wait outside so that he does not see my manliness. Even if we are in the bedroom and I'm lotioning up and daughters run into the room, i do not hide and tell them to go outside so they do not see my manliness! Why should I do that? they are my children. My wife will tell them to go outside.

If we have no visitors at home, and Im taking a bath, I dont lock the bathroom door. My wife would come and say 'you need to lock the door, these children can come in' and I will be like 'So? they are my children'

she keeps telling me it's not proper in our culture, it is morally wrong and can cause disrespect, it does not happen in Nigeria, bla bla
I can understand where she is coming from. I stayed at home for 23 years and I can say I have never seen my father's manliness (or maybe I did as a small child and can't remember).

Is it wrong?

cantell:
Why would you want your kids to see your unclothedness?
Thats disgusting!
Too much info for the kids!

Idi-Amin:


tell me why do you think that because a little girl has not seen manliness before as a child, then it means she will grow up morally better than the one who grew up seeing her father's manliness.

what do you mean by 'there are some lines you should not cross' I am not a peadophile abegi, and will not be Nigerian Josef Fritzl. It just does not bother me, that is all I am saying.

Idi-Amin:
yeah, your mama thinks I'm sick as well ***smiling***

Law-confessor:



@op, let me grieve ur indulgence first. U dnt hav to blame anybody here in defensiveness. Bt i fink dt u need to read ur post "in between d lines" again. U see it as nofin SHOOTING PEE wit ur small boy. Mind u, he z bound to shoot it outside ur home.
Be Thou Wise!

Idi-Amin:


'what am I teaching my kids by being n.a.ked around them?' Nothing I am not teaching them anything.
but to your twisted p0rn0graphic mind, you think I am teaching them how to have intimate intercourse, and molesting them se*ually, people's minds are so twisted & perveted, goodness me

timbros:
You just forced me to comment on this thread.
Must you bring religion into this? I hope you know you want to detrail this thread. Jehovah's Witnesses editing the bible? Thats just plain silly. Are there examples you have to back up your claim? The fact that you dont agree with their interpretation of the bible doesnt make them "edit the bible". How are you sure your not the one editing the bible? Afam just asked you a question which you havent even aswered correctly and here you have turned the discussion religiously. Although the sons of Noah shielded their eyes from seeing their father's unclothedness, the question still stands, did Noah curse the other son because he SAW his unclothedness or because he MOCKED his unclothedness?
Just a question and you have changed it to Jehovah's Witnesses editing the bible. @all:
Sorry for derailing the topic a bit. But the quoted pissed me off how he misinterpret Jehovah's Witnesses. If you dont agree with them you dont have to go about misinterpreting them.

Yes, i am one of Jehovah's Witnesses.

MOBBDEEP: I just don't fathom it! Why a lot of people don't only lack diplomacy, but they in addition pack caustic tongue join. We can't share the same view on a controversial issues like this. But then, there are refined ways of contributing your opinion or view. Even if the OP was outright wrong, politeness&courtesy still demands not being desirive. I get pissed frequently seeing people passing very damaging remarks on people as if they are talking to robots with no psyche. Aha!!!

Where are the psychologist in the house, especially the child specialist ?

@ Idi-Amin(I guess your username/ID is even giving some people an eerie feeling), we can't say you are wrong or right. Here are the facts :
* A lot of what culture & norms imbibe on us are just baseless & without reason e.g not using your hand to touch rain, pregnant woman attaching/fastening pin to their cloth before going out in the day etc
Hence the culture in some tribes, at least I know of Igbo, may be without reason.

A point of digression, if not for Adam & Eve in the Biblical Adamite Creation story, I guess all of us will be naked by now. Hence, you can simply say clothing is a fallout of man's original transgression with no sexual tone to it.
Which is why the name 'Pudenda' which is used for private part has its root word to mean 'shame' - which refers us back to the feeling Adam & Eve felt in the garden. There's no more to it than that.

If I get you right, we are trying to weigh the effect/influence of this behaviour on your children. Are their any negative(or positive) on the children.
Capital no.

1. There is what we call imprinting. Those children will naturally grow without even taking into cognizance that 'something' is unusual/funny/out of place/strange.
For the contributors who are of the opinion that the effect is gender-based, it is far from the truth. There is no marked difference between a boy-child & girl-child except for the physical trait & some trace cognitive functions. As a matter of fact, you can raise a girl to behave like a man & vice-versa.
In fact, studies have shown that a parent is more likely to raise unusual curiosity in children when you are TOO OVERTLY conscious of your nudity. ( How many of the smartalecs in the house can testify to that remembering asking our young curious minds question on why mum & dad are locking themselves in?)

But then, that is where it ends.
I do know that in this setting, it is easier for the ugliness in an abusive/irresponsible/unstable parent to reap its head.
Equally, since it is becoming a sort of rigmarole between you & your wife ( and I assume in this scenario, it should be easier for you to bend/adjust to her voice than for her to change), for the sake of mutual peace & love, you should try to adjust. Not necessarily because you are doing a bad thing, but because you want peace to reign.
Hope I won't get insulted!

MOBBDEEP: I just don't fathom it! Why a lot of people don't only lack diplomacy, but they in addition pack caustic tongue join. We can't share the same view on a controversial issues like this. But then, there are refined ways of contributing your opinion or view. Even if the OP was outright wrong, politeness&courtesy still demands not being derisive. I get pissed frequently seeing people passing very damaging remarks on people as if they are talking to robots with no psyche. Aha!!!

Where are the psychologist in the house, especially the child specialist ?

@ Idi-Amin(I guess your username/ID is even giving some people an eerie feeling), we can't say you are wrong or right. Here are the facts :
A lot of what culture & norms imbibe on us are just baseless & without reason e.g not using your hand to touch rain, pregnant woman attaching/fastening pin to their cloth before going out in the day etc
Hence this culture (of children not seeing their elderly's nudity) in some tribes, at least I know of Igbo, may be without reason.

A point of digression, if not for Adam & Eve in the Biblical Adamite Creation story, I guess all of us will be naked by now. Hence, you can simply say clothing is a fallout of man's original transgression with no sexual tone to it.
Which is why the name 'Pudenda' which is used for private part has its root word to mean 'shame' - which refers us back to the feeling Adam & Eve felt in the garden. There's no more to it than that.
Any where the issues concerning nudity are cited, people usually get uncomfortable & most of what you get are negative feedbacks & comments. This is pure emotions & instintive feeling which may not have any justifiable reason.
If I get you right, we are trying to weigh the effect/influence of this behaviour on your children. Are there any negative(or positive) on the children.
NO!

1. There is what we call imprinting. Those children will naturally grow without even taking into cognizance that 'something' is unusual/funny/out of place/strange. A normal child is just going to accept it as normal thing.
For the contributors who are of the opinion that the effect will be gender-based (no problem with male child but he stopped because of the female children), it is far from the truth. There is no marked difference between a boy-child & girl-child except for the physical trait & some trace cognitive functions. As a matter of fact, you can raise a girl to behave like a man & vice-versa.
In fact, studies have shown that a parent is more likely to raise unusual curiosity in children when you are TOO OVERTLY conscious of your nudity. ( How many of the smartalecs in the house can testify to that remembering asking our young curious minds question on why mum & dad are locking themselves in?)

But then, that is where it ends.
I do know that in this setting, it is easier for the ugliness in an abusive/irresponsible/unstable parent to rear its head.
Equally, since it is becoming a sort of rigmarole between you & your wife ( and I assume in this scenario, it should be easier for you to bend/adjust to her voice than for her to change), for the sake of mutual peace & love, you should try to adjust. Not necessarily because you are doing a bad thing, but because you want peace to reign.
Hope I won't get insulted!

Idi-Amin:
Need your opinion, me and my wife always disgree about something. It's nothing major, but she takes it too serious.

We have 3 kids. 7 year old boy, and twin girls, 4 years old. My wife has a problem that I do not hide my unclothedness from my kids. If I am urinating in the toilet, and my son wants to pee as well, he comes beside me and pees, and he will even joke and try to shoot my pee with his pee. I do not tell him to wait outside so that he does not see my manliness. Even if we are in the bedroom and I'm lotioning up and daughters run into the room, i do not hide and tell them to go outside so they do not see my manliness! Why should I do that? they are my children. My wife will tell them to go outside.

If we have no visitors at home, and Im taking a bath, I dont lock the bathroom door. My wife would come and say 'you need to lock the door, these children can come in' and I will be like 'So? they are my children'

she keeps telling me it's not proper in our culture, it is morally wrong and can cause disrespect, it does not happen in Nigeria, bla bla
I can understand where she is coming from. I stayed at home for 23 years and I can say I have never seen my father's manliness (or maybe I did as a small child and can't remember).

Is it wrong?

Idi-Amin:
Need your opinion, me and my wife always disgree about something. It's nothing major, but she takes it too serious.

We have 3 kids. 7 year old boy, and twin girls, 4 years old. My wife has a problem that I do not hide my unclothedness from my kids. If I am urinating in the toilet, and my son wants to pee as well, he comes beside me and pees, and he will even joke and try to shoot my pee with his pee. I do not tell him to wait outside so that he does not see my manliness. Even if we are in the bedroom and I'm lotioning up and daughters run into the room, i do not hide and tell them to go outside so they do not see my manliness! Why should I do that? they are my children. My wife will tell them to go outside.

If we have no visitors at home, and Im taking a bath, I dont lock the bathroom door. My wife would come and say 'you need to lock the door, these children can come in' and I will be like 'So? they are my children'

she keeps telling me it's not proper in our culture, it is morally wrong and can cause disrespect, it does not happen in Nigeria, bla bla
I can understand where she is coming from. I stayed at home for 23 years and I can say I have never seen my father's manliness (or maybe I did as a small child and can't remember).

Is it wrong?

Mr Teacher was that the way you were brought up?Seeing ur father and mother unclothedness at an early Age of Four & Seven.Well dis post look so disgusting because i dont understand the Kind of Children u are trying 2 raise.Its better for u 2 stop that Barbaric Act b4 u turn ya children to something else

Idi-Amin:
Need your opinion, me and my wife always disgree about something. It's nothing major, but she takes it too serious.

We have 3 kids. 7 year old boy, and twin girls, 4 years old. My wife has a problem that I do not hide my unclothedness from my kids. If I am urinating in the toilet, and my son wants to pee as well, he comes beside me and pees, and he will even joke and try to shoot my pee with his pee. I do not tell him to wait outside so that he does not see my manliness. Even if we are in the bedroom and I'm lotioning up and daughters run into the room, i do not hide and tell them to go outside so they do not see my manliness! Why should I do that? they are my children. My wife will tell them to go outside.

If we have no visitors at home, and Im taking a bath, I dont lock the bathroom door. My wife would come and say 'you need to lock the door, these children can come in' and I will be like 'So? they are my children'

she keeps telling me it's not proper in our culture, it is morally wrong and can cause disrespect, it does not happen in Nigeria, bla bla
I can understand where she is coming from. I stayed at home for 23 years and I can say I have never seen my father's manliness (or maybe I did as a small child and can't remember).

Is it wrong?

Mr Teacher was that the way you were brought up?Seeing ur father and mother unclothedness at an early Age of Four & Seven.Well dis post look so disgusting because i dont understand the Kind of Children u are trying 2 raise.Its better for u 2 stop that Barbaric Act b4 u turn ya children to something else

Mavor: Lol. Na guilty conscience dey worry you? Calling Jesus Christ "god" instead of "God" in the Book of John in "your bible" You guys are like Mormons and Latter day saints. Christian cults.

SELFWORTH:

You are a Fake Jehovah's Witness. What are doing on a site like this? You are experts are modifying the Bible to suit your needs but am sure even you cant justify such sick behaviour.

You are probably on the site to witness to the poster because I have no idea why you were attracted by the topic.

If you are angered by my response, it proves my logic that you guys are a modern day cult and experts at brain washing.If you are not, then it means you are pals with the sick poster.

Idi-Amin:


'Reprimanded' LOL, you make me laugh. Because I dont see any reason to jump behind the cupboard in case my kids walk into the room and I am undressed, then I need to be reprimanded. I have done nothing wrong and it is no dirty laundry. It is dirty laundry to you because you have a perversion of child molestation in your head, that is why it is dirty to you. maybe you were touched inappropriately as a child and still have not forgiven your relative that did this to you and you are still suffering from the experience. Sorry eh!. To me, it is not dirty laundry, dont feel any guilt because I dont rush for the towel to cover my manliness if any of my kids walk in the room. 'Reprimanded' hahaha, I just needed to say that word again

LadyT: Oh please there is nothing wrong till this day I still see my mother naked and to me its just normal nothing sexual or gross its just mummy with no clothes on. Im immune to it and these kids will be too the father is acting normal and natural. lets stop sexualising everything!!!