[color=#770077][/color]Very nice write up, I must say. One sentence struck me and that is:
"Usually a man’s treatment
of his mother is a good indication of how he will treat
his wife".
Today's ladies seem to dislike their potential mother in-laws (for reasons best known to them) and tend to prefer guys who aren't in good terms with their mothers. Word here is, he will treat u the same way he's treated his mum.

i think i have placed this somewhere on nairaland b4. I guess this site is part of what you need http://www.ncsnonline.com says its a site for the single christians. Got to know about it many months back through a male friend who got married through meeting someone on there.

So i have more or less become a witness that it may work for you if you are open to online dating.

HumbledbYGrace: there are lots of them...you can count yourself out though.

Babe, you have half knowledge about christianity or you have joined the train of " let adjust it to our taste" anyway half knowledge kill faster than poison

Marriage was before any religion and marriage is for Love and not for religion, millions of pagans are living happily in their marriage and your pastors keep divorcing every month.

Many that marry cus of Money,Ethnic,Religion are crying inside and outside now .... If na lie go to court and open mouth

Marry cus of love

FACT: Christianity is not a religion. It is simply a belief and personal relationship with Jesus Christ.

D sage: @op, according to No. 4 in your initial post, 'a good Christian husband must be able to provide for the needs of his wife and children'. What if he possess all the qualities you've mentioned but lack no.4? Will you still consider him?

I bet she will never. They love to read the bible but will never study proverbs 31.

omo-to-dun u said u ar an american, ar u sure?

ogaju007:

Do you love christ? will you die for him should the need arise? even your pastors dont love him that much... if they did, they will be preaching the gospel in iraq, afghan and the likes...

if dat is what God saved me for, he wil sure give me the grace as i learn always at his feet

omo to dun, i wil like 2 have a personal/ one on one talk wit u

salt 1:


How can you mix Koran and Bible? Who told you the first couple of Lagos are happy? Are you an insider? I'm not saying that they're not happy, but in marriage, appearance may be widely different from reality.

Which religion will the children practice?

:
They will practice buldism.

The will practice buldism.May God help us.No marriage between muslims and christian will ever work on earth,not even in Jupital or Mars or Genus.

HumbledbYGrace: where did Jesus come from? You don't believe in God? The Holy spirit?

M confused

My dear, I love Ūя post!! Happy birthday dearie!! We share †ђξ same birthday!! Happy birthday to U̶̲̥̅ and me

ogaju007:

Now this is what i love to hear .... when people claim they know there origin yet live the life, culture and even religion of people thousands of miles away. you have the bible, you have read it, you atleast read it every sunday... have you ever asked the 4 main questions (Why? What? HOw? When?)

I hate it when you act like you know me.

oluomad:

My dear, I love Ūя post!! Happy birthday dearie!! We share †ђξ same birthday!! Happy birthday to U̶̲̥̅ and me

happy birthday to us....how old are you lol

wazobia_for_u:


Babe, you have half knowledge about christianity or you have joined the train of " let adjust it to our taste" anyway half knowledge kill faster than poison

Marriage was before any religion and marriage is for Love and not for religion, millions of pagans are living happily in their marriage and your pastors keep divorcing every month.

Many that marry cus of Money,Ethnic,Religion are crying inside and outside now .... If na lie go to court and open mouth

Marry cus of love

Come on!

I will marry a man after God's own heart...nothing less. Btw...you amuse me

What taste are you talking about? I hate it when people start being Hypocrites

What will happen if I decide to marry Tonto Dikeh?

tpacalipse: I bet she will never. They love to read the bible but will never study proverbs 31.

lol...you don't know me, stop making assumptions when you know nothing about me

I practice what I preach, ask around about the proverbs 31 woman.....its my favourite. Here is my old post

Humbledbygrace: *takes the same bible*

Same proverbs 31 from verse 11


The Capable Wife
[b]
10 How hard it is to find a capable wife! She is worth far more than jewels!

11 Her husband puts his confidence in her, and he will never be poor.

12 As long as she lives, she does him good and never harm.

13 She keeps herself busy making wool and linen cloth.

14 She brings home food from out-of-the-way places, as merchant ships do.

15 She gets up before daylight to prepare food for her family and to tell her servant women what to do.

16 She looks at land and buys it, and with money she has earned she plants a vineyard.

17 She is a hard worker, strong and industrious.

18 She knows the value of everything she makes, and works late into the night.

19 She spins her own thread and weaves her own cloth.

20 She is generous to the poor and needy.

21 She doesn't worry when it snows, because her family has warm clothing.

22 She makes bedspreads and wears clothes of fine purple linen.

23 Her husband is well known, one of the leading citizens.

24 She makes clothes and belts, and sells them to merchants.

25 She is strong and respected and not afraid of the future.

26 She speaks with a gentle wisdom.

27 She is always busy and looks after her family's needs.

28 Her children show their appreciation, and her husband praises her.

29 He says, “Many women are good wives, but you are the best of them all.”

30 Charm is deceptive and beauty disappears, but a woman who honors the LORD should be praised.

31 Give her credit for all she does. She deserves the respect of everyone.[/b]

Verse 13 may be difficult to accomplish. What if my future wife (could be Tonto Dikeh) can't weave a cloth?

CFCfan: What will happen if I decide to marry Tonto Dikeh?

is she an Akwa Ibom lady?

CFCfan: Verse 13 may be difficult to accomplish. What if my future wife (could be Tonto Dikeh) can't weave a cloth?

it depends on what you prefer to wear, but she can learn how to weave a cloth

HumbledbYGrace: is she an Akwa Ibom lady?

LWKMD!

No, she isn't. She is from Rivers State.

HumbledbYGrace: it depends on what you prefer to wear, but she can learn how to weave a cloth

Okay. Anyway, it will be her choice though.

CFCfan:

LWKMD!

No, she isn't. She is from Rivers State.

your tonto Dikeh type...

CFCfan:

Okay. Anyway, it will be her choice though.

as long as its her choice and won't be pressurised into anything

musKeeto:

Feel free to judge me by the views I hold about someone. Lol. I also like Messi and hate Ronaldo.

Fixed.

Happy Birthday, HBG. More grace to your elbow!

I'm also wishing HBG a happy birthday

ARareGem: Happy Birthday, HBG. More grace to your elbow!

Thanks sis...blessed day to you too

CFCfan: I'm also wishing HBG a happy birthday

Thank you bro...go sleep now lol

CFCfan: Verse 13 may be difficult to accomplish. What if my future wife (could be Tonto Dikeh) can't weave a cloth?

it does nt really means showing of cloth but it means she is always busy doing something even though if it is small. Her hands ar always on the deck

omo_to_dun: @CFCfan

That is completely false. Look up the definition of the word religion in any dictionary and you will see that Christianity is, indeed, a religion. No one likes to label what they believe in as a religion because it connotes something negative, especially in modern times.

A Muslim can also say that Islam is not a religion, but a belief and personal relationship with Allah.

Don't mind the shallow minded people.Paganism is written all over Christianity,and yet they don't know it.Christian is a Full time religion.

As for this topic,I was in the church for many years,faithful and active,a leader,but all my life i have seen more honest sinners that Christians (in Nigeria). It's easier to get S>e,x in the church that even a brothel. Follow all that is written here,most ladies will still term you boring or mr nice man,you go finish last.Na your front newcomer wey dey cult go blow your house fellowship leader. My EX was a prayer warrior,cheated on me with a her pastor friend,and she will always be the one to scream everytime you attack these useless pastors who control many but have no sense of discipline.

I am not bitter,sh.i.t happens,but i have learnt to be more open minded,i will marry any woman with a good head,that will add value to my life and will give me peace,especially around 12 am,when morons are awake to bind devils.

There are bad people and good people everywhere,we can share the same moral values without belonging to the same religion..as long as we click on most levels,i am good to go with any woman.But if you are true to what you believe,kudos to you and i wish you luck in finding someone you deserve.

omo_to_dun: ^
Take a good look at Nigeria. Does it look like a nation where any good human being lives in? All these Christians are nothing more than Christians in name.

U're pretty right but not all christians sha. Mayb u should have say many of dem.