Well guys,In my own opinion I think VIRGINITY IS NOT DIGNITY,IT IS JUST LACK OF OPPORTUNITY.Why?
Cos i think a lotta girls and guys would have done the sex thing at 14 if they had the opportunity to.Those that kept themselves till 18yrs and above are not saints neither are DIGNIFIED!what i think happened was that the right guy with the right sweet tongue didnt come around when they were much younger.I tasted p**ussy when i was 14yrs with a calabar girl under our staircase.I was the only one that had the oppotunity amongst my peer group.IF YOU THINK AM WRONG LET'S HEAR YOUR OWN VIEW

hmmmmm,

short of words.

Lolabbey:

hmmmmm,

short of words.

You shouldnt be! i think sharing your experience on how u first did it will shed more light on this topic.

Limited mentality is your gold medal and could be your downfall.

Ignorance is not Bliss in your case.

wel, guy i think you are right, cos at the tender age children tend to do what adult are doing cos they b'live they are already a grown up. unlike me, i didn't have the experience when i was at the age of 14 even 18 so, i think the way you are brought up also have effect on how you go for such a thing. ok.

I lost mine some years back, it was fun and lovely but the painful part of it is that; ever since i lost mine, had never disverging any woman till date, am not sure i can anyway but each time i thought of it, it pains me more and more!

I think that assumption is just stupid.
Everyman according to his own. Some people don’t see losing their virginity as a big deal while some others do. Opportunity has got nothing to do with this.

If u ask me, virginity is sure dignity!

busta rhymes thank u ooo,abeg help me tel am

Busta:

I think that assumption is just stupid.
Everyman according to his own. Some people don’t see losing their virginity as a big deal while some others do. Opportunity has got nothing to do with this.

If u ask me, virginity is sure dignity!

Are u trying to or are u telling us that you are still a virgin?If so then the cool goodlooking sugar coated guy has not yet come your way.It"s the the same thing,you lack the opportunity!or you are simply not attractive!!

Lolabbey:

busta rhymes thank u ooo,abeg help me tel am

Are u still a virgin too?
BUNCH OF LIARS!!!!

iceland:

Are u trying to or are u telling us that you are still a virgin?If so then the cool goodlooking sugar coated guy has not yet come your way.It"s the the same thing,you lack the opportunity!or you are simply not attractive!!
Are u still a virgin too?
BUNCH OF LIARS!!!!

You've just proved ursef to be an empty-headed igonrant fool!
what is it with u and assumptions?
there u are again assuming that am either a virgin or not attractive. . .

i'll bet a million dollars that u are as ugly looking and u sound.
Its just the net (cyber world) and u don't F**kin know me and i sure in hell don't give a cent who u damn are.

capish??

Just saw your pic now . . .boi, are u ugly?

wearing sunglasses indoors

Ignorance is not Bliss in your case.

luvly.


another resident of fools paradise.

@topic

Long yawnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn next.

Busta:

Just saw your pic now . . .boi, are u ugly?

wearing sunglasses indoors

Am i really ugly?I bet am more good looking than you and your boyfriend put together (That is if you have one)
if you are bold enough post your pic,beautiful monkey

iceland:

Am i really ugly?I bet am more good looking than you and your boyfriend put together (That is if you have one)
if you are bold enough post your pic,beautiful monkey

nahh, am not the type that goes blowing ma horn. I've had ma pics on nairaland and just had to remove it because of people like u that save ma pic and telling everyone that is their girlfriend's pic.

don't u know anything else besides calling people "beautiful monkey"? trynnna make them feel good in a bad nice way?
it really does makes u look like an ugly orangutan!!

to your question, YES You ARE UGLY!! but i'll give thumbs up for being so full of ursef and egotistic over your ugliness

**ps: it will be your lifetime achievement for u to look a quarter as good as my boyfriend!

Ouch!

Busta chill mami, don't get riled up over this crap aight?

@ topic

It may be lack of opportunity for some folk (mostly guys) but for many people its because of a conscious decision not to mess around till they are well and truly ready.

I guess it was an achievement for you to have sex at 14, not everyone thinks the same way. There are so many things of value beyond sex, it has its own place and time.

Its always said that the practice of virginity is eroding-people are no longer staying virgins until they get married.The reality is that there have been cultural changes that necessitate that .

Back in the days when people got married in their early teens,staying a virgin till marriage wasn't hard work.If you are living in an era where people don't get married until their late 20s,you can't have it like before.

_{Hey,just realised that this doesn't really have anything to with the topic,I just type furiously at my keyboard just like that}

This virgin topi again.

Why won't you let people Bleep when they want, eh?

Na their cross. Make them carry am!

Lol,

@debo, I ma try. it is just so annoying these days that a lot of immature and ignorant fools joined facebook. Look at all the stupids posts they be putting up?

well. . .explains the reasons why my I had to minimize ma activities on NL.

so, wats gud in O'town?

@ Poster,

If you want to base your argument on that premise, then it would be safe to say that Murder is not a crime, it's just lack of opportunity or other vices (not that virginity is a vice) are not crimes too, they just stem from a lack of opportunity.

My take is this, i am glad you told us how you got deflowered and i think that if our society had a sense of semblance, that Calabar girl should have or be serving time for Statutory rape. That experience is what is making you post this topic on nairaland.

I have met some Ladies that have had all the opportunities in the world to have sex and have withstood the temptation and are still pure as we speak. Your assumption is not true in all cases, as kids we all are inquisitive, but with the right guidance one can avoid having sex before marriage.

debosky:

Ouch!

Busta chill mami, don't get riled up over this crap aight?

@ topic

It may be lack of opportunity for some folk (mostly guys) but for many people its because of a conscious decision not to mess around till they are well and truly ready.

I guess it was an achievement for you to have sex at 14, not everyone thinks the same way. There are so many things of value beyond sex, it has its own place and time.

Thanks debosky,what busta does not realise is that this place is for discussion,anybody can say his/her own opinion.no sh**it!I said it when i posted this topic"MY OWN OPINION" SHE COULD HAVE SAID HERS AND KEEP QUIET!
Must she attack the poster?

Busta:

nahh, am not the type that goes blowing ma horn. I've had ma pics on nairaland and just had to remove it because of people like u that save ma pic and telling everyone that is their girlfriend's pic.

don't u know anything else besides calling people "beautiful monkey"? trynnna make them feel good in a bad nice way?
it really does makes u look like an ugly orangutan!!

to your question, YES You ARE UGLY!! but i'll give thumbs up for being so full of ursef and egotistic over your ugliness

**ps: it will be your lifetime achievement for u to look a quarter as good as my boyfriend!

I must tell you that i have achieved a lot with my beauty what u cant achieve till you die!Am a professional model and this same profession took outta naija.But YOU ARE SO UGLY THAT YOUR MAMA HAD MORNING SICKNESS ONLY AFTER U WERE BORN!
Am still sayin it dont talk in the darkness SHOW UR PIC(Remove it the next second if u like)But one thing an sure of, am much more goodlookin that your

Busta:

I've had ma pics on nairaland and just had to remove it because of people like u that save ma pic and telling everyone that is their girlfriend's pic.

Really . . . no wonder some brainless baboons has been getting on ma nerves here

@topic, i disagree.

I think you are wrong to be having orgasmic experiences at 14 son , more than anything its an abuse by you or yours truly whichever way you looked at it. for a girl its her pussy that gets fukked and her arse that gets bigger at the end of the day men are solitary being its her that will have to clean up all the messy stuff and so on. Exception is where you have high sex drive like in your case and that is the exception, not the norm. Under normal physiologic growth all the energy is channeled on to overall development at fourteen and not to sexual activity.

iceland:

Thanks debosky,what busta does not realise is that this place is for discussion,anybody can say his/her own opinion.no sh**it!I said it when i posted this topic"MY OWN OPINION" SHE COULD HAVE SAID HERS AND KEEP QUIET![/b]Must she attack the poster?

See why its good to go to school and learn. I said ma part and kept quiet . . what did u do? Insulted me by calling ugly and a virgin. .
shows how immature u are.

iceland:

I must tell you that i have achieved a lot with my beauty what u can't achieve till you die!Am a professional model and this same profession took out of naija.But [b]YOU ARE SO UGLY THAT YOUR MAMA HAD MORNING SICKNESS ONLY AFTER You WERE BORN!
Am still sayin it don't talk in the darkness SHOW UR PIC(Remove it the next second if u like)But one thing an sure of, am much more goodlookin that your

secondly, why choose to insult ma mum and then laugh about it. I tot me and u are the ones bumping heads. I demand that u take that back. Insult me all u want but don't u include ma folks because they did nuthin to u. . . childish i'll say. GROW UP!
insults like that were used back in the days when I was 10yrs old. You gat beef with me, insult me and don't insult ma mum!

professional model indeed . . i guess u model your ugliness and stupidity!
wearing shades indoors, that is sooo overated.

wonder how u crawled outta naija. . .stupid agbero boi!

Gemini25:

@ Poster,

I have met some Ladies that have had all the opportunities in the world to have sex and have withstood the temptation and are still pure as we speak. Your assumption is not true in all cases, as kids we all are inquisitive, but with the right guidance one can avoid having sex before marriage.

Yeah Good point! This is someone with brains in his skull,But my arguement is THAT if they had seen a guy with sugar coated tongue.dont you think i would have been another story?I mean every girl has her own weak point.Not every guy can get the point,but a special guy can!have u not heard of priests sleeping with nuns?most of this people came into the seminary a VIRGIN!

debosky:

Ouch!

Busta chill mami, don't get riled up over this crap aight?

@busta  

there really is no need to waste your breath

some people will neva grow past secondary school mentality. No matter how old they become. Its quite sad.

@ Busta

O'town is kickin! going skating later this week.

@ iceland

you need to quit with the insults, it doesn't look good on you at all, it seems you cannot have a discussion with someone who disagrees with your opinion. There is no reason to resort to insults.

Your 'sweet mouth' theory is not right, not everyone is swayed by words - I know people who will love a guy but will bite his thingy off if he comes near their virginity, that issue is simply NOT DEBATABLE for some people.

You might have known weak girls or some who could be convinced, but I've met enough to see that deep convictions can stand even the sweetest tongues.

NaJa HaJe:

@busta  

there really is no need to waste your breath

some people will never grow past secondary school mentality. No matter how old they become. Its quite sad.

really?to you,that means you are dissing me right?well i dont have have time for you,debosky thanks man! you are a great guy.Am not that insolent!it's just that========Busta,am sorry

NaJa HaJe:

You are happy aint you?LET PEACE REIGN

Well guys,In my own opinion I think VIRGINITY IS NOT DIGNITY,IT IS JUST LACK OF OPPORTUNITY.Why?
Cos i think a lotta girls and guys would have done the sex thing at 14 if they had the opportunity to.Those that kept themselves till 18yrs and above are not saints neither are DIGNIFIED!what i think happened was that the right guy with the right sweet tongue didnt come around when they were much younger.I tasted p**ussy when i was 14yrs with a calabar girl under our staircase.I was the only one that had the oppotunity amongst my peer group.IF YOU THINK AM WRONG LET'S HEAR YOUR OWN VIEW

Because some calabar girl fell for you when you were fourteen, you now think you are the man

The right guy with the right sweet tongue,  you make me laugh,

You remind me of someone.

iceland:

You are happy aint you?LET PEACE REIGN

The aesthetics of sarcasm is lost on you.