hotfunmi:

What is the best way to protect a housewife financially in case her husband decide to divorce her or take a second wife? Will you like Nigeria to make such laws that will either make housewives contribution at home equal to her husbands outside work that pays the bills?

see wetin liberation and civilisation don cause. all these lifestyle we copy from the west no go help us at all.

by Brawss
No disrespect but they opted to be house wives didn't they? Otherwise they'd have found means to earn some an income no matter how meagre.

elpapi:

zignor u be agbaya

Really?

hotfunmi:

Are you suggesting that we hold  on to laws made by our ancestors that never saw light? Why accept cell phones, cars, electricity but find it difficult to accept a process that will make life easier for our women? Lots of housewives have been used and tossed to the gutter in Nigeria because they work at home. Even the westerners change their laws from time to time to adjust to the changing times. Now, ask yourself why women should not be able to kick their husbands out of their home @ night if he indulges in adultery like men do to women that commit the same crime since they both own the house?

by omoibo
personally,im all for the man taking care of and handling all the bizniss which includes paying bills, making very last decision decisionor the important decision etc etc. this is how i was brought up. i saw and still see my dad handle his bizniss and others. times have changed.
if u thought i was against women liberation/civilisation then u thought wrong. im all for it but with a 'pinch of salt'.

men need to realise that women are now career minded

OMO IBO:

personally,im all for the man taking care of and handling all the bizniss which includes paying bills, making very last decision decisionor the important decision etc etc. this is how i was brought up. i saw and still see my dad handle his bizniss and others. times have changed.
if u thought i was against women liberation/civilisation then u thought wrong. im all for it but with a 'pinch of salt'.

men need to realise that women are now career minded

Me!? - a house wife --- 4 wich planet??! no way baby!

hotfunmi:

What if condition permits that? may be you married Hakeem Olajuwon and his status will not allow you to go and seek employment, what will you do? or you had to move to France so your kids can go to school while your husband is busy chasing money up and down around the world. You never can tell.

Nella:

If there's one thing i'm personally very against - it's utter dependence on your husband! u have got to work! the highest thing is that when u deliver your kids u take a break 4rom work and when they r old enough u return to your work _{i seen people do it}


nowadays that people divorce like shit, wht if that happens, where do u start looking 4 a job? --- and apart 4rom that - your husband can't treat u like shit if he knows that u don't completely depend on him.