He said he left me because he loves me, how is that even possible?? What are your thots on these people??

Alleinad: He said he left me because he loves me, how is that even possible?? What are your thots on these people??

Either he is kidding or he has a very good reason. In the latter case, it would be nice and helpful if he told you about his reason(s).

Maybe he has being using others as use and dump or just wasting their time without any element of commitment.

Does it mean you are single now. there are descent single guys out there for you.

Alleinad: He said he left me because he loves me, how is that even possible?? What are your thots on these people??

do not cry over spilled milk. He could have an untreatable medical ailment or thats his own way of ditching u. U just have to move on and am sure with time, u will get to know the reason he left.

U don't wanna hurt those u love. It's simple na

You have not provided enough info to make any conclusion

uboma:

do not cry over spilled milk. He could have an untreatable medical ailment or thats his own way of ditching u. U just have to move on and am sure with time, u will get to know the reason he left.

my thought exactly

It depends on the circumstances surrounding his decision...

Is he a cult.ist?
Apologies dear, just that these things happen.. The guy may decide to leave so that he will not put the girl in danger...

Alleinad: He said he left me because he loves me, how is that even possible?? What are your thots on these people??

"if u love something, u let it go and if it comes back to you it become yours...and if it doesn't , then it was never yours". Do relate ur situation to the quote above maybe it will help u connect the dotted lines.

Smh

Sure happens. I once left an ex cos I loved her so much but wasnt financially capable to hold her then & didnt want her to lose out on a better suitor... Wasnt easy though. Sometimes,the best way to love is to let go.

Alleinad: He said he left me because he loves me, how is that even possible?? What are your thots on these people??

Break it down for us to understand by telling us the background of the story.Did you have an argument/quarrel? He can't just wake up and say that

chronique: Sure happens. I once left an ex cos I loved her so much but wasnt financially capable to hold her then & didnt want her to lose out on a better suitor... Wasnt easy though. Sometimes,the best way to love is to let go.

Smart move but did you ask her if she was willing to stick with you?

binger: Break it down for us to understand by telling us the background of the story.Did you have an argument/quarrel? He can't just wake up and say that

we had no quarrel, we were good, he was coming around and all. We had fun on sunday and then on monday, he said its over and just left. He changed his line and all that.

KINGwax: U don't wanna hurt those u love. It's simple na

leaving without an explanation hurts more.

i couldn't get him to explain, he just sent a text some days back saying he left because he loves me, whether i believe it or not.

Alleinad: i couldn't get him to explain, he just sent a text some days back saying he left because he loves me, whether i believe it or not.

Pele. Did you call to ask why?

Eyah, let him be 4 now, mayb he wil trace his steps back, if not d rightman wil come.

Eiyaa.. Life goes on boo. Things like this happen to give way 4 beta 1s. Let ur light shine on o! Som1 beta 'll see it.

Mynd_44:
Smart move but did you ask her if she was willing to stick with you?

Well,she was but she was also putting some kinda pressure on me with the things she was saying. She's married now though but still confides in a mutual friend that she still loves me... Guess she was too proud to tell me she still cared when I asked us to quit...

^^^what you wrote above proves to us that you only left because your low self esteem and ego couldnt handle the pressure of dating.....or better known as the pressures of BEING BROKE, and this had NOTHING to do with love. if you loved that gal then you would have BELIEVED IN THAT LOVE.

i am sorry to inform you that the best way to love is NOT to let go, it is to BELIEVE IN THAT LOVE. next time, BELIEVE IN LOVE, as with love almost everything is possible (unless you are waste your time/energy/life dating someone that didnt love you equally.

@OP
there could be MANY reasons why the guy told you this, but if he thinks that you dont deserve an answer then move on with your life, et voila......as someone said earlier, no need to cry over spilled milk.

When you a too deeply in love with someone, the best u can do is to run away frm them kiakia, because whatever that is too much aint good for ur health.;(

MRbrownJAY: ^^^what you wrote above proves to us that you only left because your low self esteem and ego couldnt handle the pressure of dating.....or better known as the pressures of BEING BROKE, and this had NOTHING to do with love. if you loved that gal then you would have BELIEVED IN THAT LOVE.

i am sorry to inform you that the best way to love is NOT to let go, it is to BELIEVE IN THAT LOVE. next time, BELIEVE IN LOVE, as with love almost everything is possible (unless you are waste your time/energy/life dating someone that didnt love you equally.

@OP
there could be MANY reasons why the guy told you this, but if he thinks that you dont deserve an answer then move on with your life, et voila......as someone said earlier, no need to cry over spilled milk.

Naah! Far from it. We all differ....

Initially I as thinking he just didn't want to hurt your feelings. However if he changed his phone line, it may be that he is seriously involved with someone. I know that some people do this when they are about to marry in order to avoid 'loose ends.' Just thank God and move on.

uboma:

do not cry over spilled milk. He could have an untreatable medical ailment or thats his own way of ditching u. U just have to move on and am sure with time, u will get to know the reason he left.

LMAO

Alleinad: He said he left me because he loves me, how is that even possible?? What are your thots on these people??

if you can find out the reasons he said such then we can give reasonable advice.as for now, there is nothing to think about cos he might be right or wrong

Maybe he has an STD which he doesnt want to transfer or he is impotent or a spiritual warning or something.....
Just be thankful for d state of things, else, u may wish u never said yes 2 him.

You don't want to worry yourself over assumptions.

Ah...One girl told me this same thing 4 days ago. I was so happy eh