jhydebaba: Visit an herbalist today

fejeerow: i'm getting the signs that we re fading away but sometimes am confused cos wwhen am with him...i feel loved but when we re apart then everyother thing is apart. i love him and dnt wish to leave him. how do i know that he doesnt love me anymore and besides...i feel he s seeing some girl...

Mrs.Chima:


I can only speak for what I know...

A man that wants/loves his woman will spend every waking moments he can with that woman unless he is grieving and mourning then I say give that space otherwise...he has no reason not to speak time with you.

If he stop calling, texting, hanging out, and treat you with respect then worry. The day Chima stop fussing at me about wearing granny panties..then I would be worry!

Mynd_44: Ask him

fejeerow:
i asked him dat...he said " news to the ears"

lola.luv:
When he starts distancing himself (just like Mrs Chima said), it's that time....

lola.luv:
^^^^
I know. Maybe you should have 'the talk'....

Ask him if you still hold the special spot in his heart and tell him he's been acting distant...

lola.luv:
^^^^
Oh, didn't know that...
I'm caught with something at the moment, couldn't concentrate or focus my eyes enough to read. Oh well...

12 inches!:
The same behavior the Op put up here is what made me get frustrated with the whole relationship. She started complainin that I dnt love her as much as before when we initially started dating. That I have change. She started making up imaginary girls I was dating. Starting acting very insecure. Well I got frustrated and her behavior certainly didn't help matters. Op why don't u just take a chill pill. If he's thru with u he'll tell u.

12 inches!:
The same behavior the Op put up here is what made me get frustrated with the whole relationship. She started complainin that I dnt love her as much as before when we initially started dating. That I have change. She started making up imaginary girls I was dating. Starting acting very insecure. Well I got frustrated and her behavior certainly didn't help matters. Op why don't u just take a chill pill. If he's thru with u he'll tell u.

190:


the basic question she should be asking us is:

is he still chopping the punny regularly
if he isnt then wahala dey!
but if he is then probably financial issues is weighin him down

please note this is only applicable to a NIGERIAN RELATIONSHIP and this post was directed to offend as many
Nigerian girls out there - this post is subject to criticism

Mynd_44: Ask him

190:


smh

12 inches!:
The same behavior the Op put up here is what made me get frustrated with the whole relationship. She started complainin that I dnt love her as much as before when we initially started dating. That I have change. She started making up imaginary girls I was dating. Starting acting very insecure. Well I got frustrated and her behavior certainly didn't help matters. Op why don't u just take a chill pill. If he's thru with u he'll tell u.

amyg:
Guys don't tell u its over,they just vanish.
Op pls give him a break and don't let it bother u,change is d only constant thing in lyf.

amyg:
Guys don't tell u its over,they just vanish.
Op pls give him a break and don't let it bother u,change is d only constant thing in lyf.

hornipipe: vanish to where ?

Mynd_44:
Who told you guys don't say it is over?

amyg:
Did u tel ur x its over?
Guys vanish in2 thin air I think

oubi: Whoeva is the stupi.d moderator dat banned me must be a bastard

Mynd_44:
I sat her down and explained why it won't work and why we had to break up

amyg:
Good 4 mynd.most guys just can't,do I cal it guts/guilt?