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Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by WhyAWhy(m): 7:42pm On Nov 11, 2012
chief batiatus:

You started the thread like an adult then you just messed it up with this childish last line. What is it about this issue of virgins by the way? Have you tried been intimate with a virgin before? Do u know how messy attempting that is? Have u thought of seeing blood during intimacy before? Have you really talked with anyone that has been through it before? Its a very very messy job and no matured and experiences person will even think of it. Please stop talking about virgins because you see a lot of ignorant people talking about them. Most virgins are even very clumpsy due to their inexperience and could really disgust you. For your info I have dumped 2 ladies becos they are virgins. If you are not a virgin so why do you expect the woman to be? You see why women need liberation?

With all said, I will still take a BRAND NEW over TOKUNBO!

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Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by WhyAWhy(m): 7:43pm On Nov 11, 2012
chief batiatus:

You started the thread like an adult then you just messed it up with this childish last line. What is it about this issue of virgins by the way? Have you tried been intimate with a virgin before? Do u know how messy attempting that is? Have u thought of seeing blood during intimacy before? Have you really talked with anyone that has been through it before? Its a very very messy job and no matured and experiences person will even think of it. Please stop talking about virgins because you see a lot of ignorant people talking about them. Most virgins are even very clumpsy due to their inexperience and could really disgust you. For your info I have dumped 2 ladies becos they are virgins. If you are not a virgin so why do you expect the woman to be? You see why women need liberation?

With all said, I will still take a BRAND NEW over TOKUNBO!
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Nov 11, 2012
WhyAWhy:

With all said, I will still take a BRAND NEW over TOKUNBO!
LMAO
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Luxythere: 8:23pm On Nov 11, 2012
I will rather be out there available for the right person than settle for the wrong person. Its worse than being single
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Nwaoma1(f): 8:26pm On Nov 11, 2012
blogger1.0:

Calm down joor! Man has to keep body and soul together na.
The fact that nature has a way of shoveling sh1t in my face each time i set out to find someone good for myself doesn't mean i wouldn't find a way out.
But on a more serious note, finding a virgin woman 4 wife material is like waiting for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle. Why?
Because there are no virgin men anywhere!! It is amazing how men who have lived their whole lives jumping from one woman to the other end up looking for virgin wives! Who will marry all those holes you ve been digging?? I tire for u oooo

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Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by DukeNija(m): 8:35pm On Nov 11, 2012
digitalgeorgy: let me state this categoritically that in a relationshp the woman's love keep the relatnsp going more than the man's love..
The love of the wife could boost dat of the man bt d reverse is nt often noticed..
I prefer to kip a faithfully, lovely,humble and respctful woman who is nt my type than a beautifl but disrespctfl, nagging and self-centred woman who is my type!!
HUMBLE!! When i say humble, i mean she's willing to learn and take correctn wen neccesary..
/*He dat is luking for a perfect person, is luking for WHAT WAS NOT, IS NOT and WILL NEVER BE...*/
Yes.. I can construct a perfct woman Frm her.

I Stand to oppose this baseless bathroom Generalisation.
When did you become Cupid to determine whose Love holds a Relationship.

PERSONALY, it is impossible for me to love a Woman I do not Love/Like no matter how wonderful and loving She may be.
If I don't love You, I don't love you.
Infact, I prefer a Woman I love more(at the early stage) than one who loves me more than I do her.
With my Consistent Love and Care, her Love for me will Sky Rocket, eventually exceeding mine.

Men should Love their Women more at the early stage cos men have the tendency to 'lose it' mid-way.
Women Love Naturally.

Even God said 'Husbands Love Your Wives' angry its a Command.

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Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by tpia1: 8:45pm On Nov 11, 2012
Dahbutter: You can't even be happy with someone else if you are not happy and content being alone. Being with someone when you are not happy by yourself is multiplying ur misery to others. Nothing is as great as being alone yet not lonely and loving it!

good one.

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Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by tpia1: 8:45pm On Nov 11, 2012
@ topic

infatuation is overrated.
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by AdeniyiA(m): 9:01pm On Nov 11, 2012
Celine dion sang "when the wrong one loves you right" u cant help it but reciprocate.
we do not most times in life get wat we want.
many are d devices of man's heart,but d Lord counsel shall stand.
as short sighted as human beings are,some things we desire are not good for our lives,but thru d special love of God,He brought them into our lives-those we claim are not our type,but unknown to us, they are our destiny helpers n we ultimately grow in love wt them.
lets trust God, He alone knows best
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by mkoabiola: 9:03pm On Nov 11, 2012
[quote author=chief batiatus]

You started the thread like an adult then you just messed it up with this childish last line. What is it about this issue of virgins by the way? Have you tried been intimate with a virgin before? Do u know how messy attempting that is? Have u thought of seeing blood during intimacy before? Have you really talked with anyone that has been through it before? Its a very very messy job and no matured and experiences person will even think of it. Please stop talking about virgins because you see a lot of ignorant people talking about them. Most virgins are even very clumpsy due to their inexperience and could really disgust you. For your info I have dumped 2 ladies becos they are virgins. If you are not a virgin so why do you expect the woman to be? You see why women need liberation? [/qu
ote]
On point
Well said.
Bt y did u dump virgins
Does it mean u can't marry a virgin?
Bt dere's nothing lik tear rubber.
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by mkoabiola: 9:04pm On Nov 11, 2012
chief batiatus:

You started the thread like an adult then you just messed it up with this childish last line. What is it about this issue of virgins by the way? Have you tried been intimate with a virgin before? Do u know how messy attempting that is? Have u thought of seeing blood during intimacy before? Have you really talked with anyone that has been through it before? Its a very very messy job and no matured and experiences person will even think of it. Please stop talking about virgins because you see a lot of ignorant people talking about them. Most virgins are even very clumpsy due to their inexperience and could really disgust you. For your info I have dumped 2 ladies becos they are virgins. If you are not a virgin so why do you expect the woman to be? You see why women need liberation?

On point
Well said.
Bt y did u dump virgins
Does it mean u can't marry a virgin?
Bt dere's nothing lik tear rubber.

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Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by mkoabiola: 9:07pm On Nov 11, 2012
ice_fish: I cld settle 4 sum1 dat isn't my type so long as he truly luvs n adores me,wit tyme I cld luv him too. Bein Alone all d tyme isn't fun nor a gud idea
So much On point babe
True talk
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Nov 11, 2012
Nwa-oma:

Because there are no virgin men anywhere!! It is amazing how men who have lived their whole lives jumping from one woman to the other end up looking for virgin wives! Who will marry all those holes you ve been digging?? I tire for u oooo
LMAO! But that's why i always try no to dig too deep na....you funny sha
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Nov 11, 2012
[quote author=mko abiola][/quote]
Leave that aboki, let him be forming that self-righteous BS
Even Joseph wouldn't have married if she wasn't a virgin, and like hell wanted to divorce her ASAP when he started 'seeing tinz'
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by kunletech: 9:32pm On Nov 11, 2012
I will rather live in the bush, not only be alone.
The greatest mistake is being with who is not your type.
You will always bore and that will reduce your life span
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by jrhymes(m): 9:35pm On Nov 11, 2012
i will gladly be alone
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by dmcdad: 9:44pm On Nov 11, 2012
blogger1.0:
I recently made the decision to be ALONE

Wow! Welcome to my club bruv.. Being alone is far better than being with most gurlz let alone someone that ain't ur type. I'm enjoying being alone to the fullest
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by chiefbatiatus(m): 10:07pm On Nov 11, 2012
WhyAWhy:

With all said, I will still take a BRAND NEW over TOKUNBO!

I know you either a teenager or in ur early ignorant twenties. What of requiring the man to be brand new too?
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by chiefbatiatus(m): 10:17pm On Nov 11, 2012
mko abiola:

On point
Well said.
Bt y did u dump virgins
Does it mean u can't marry a virgin?
Bt dere's nothing lik tear rubber.

If u engage in intimacy for the fun, virgins will definitely disappoint you. But if you in it to trip your ego and feel good about your superman status then go for virgins and please shut up about your disappointment after it. At my age I know am not a superman but just a member of the human family so I don't need any ego trips and I have nothing to prove by running after one clueless virgin or the other.
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Sike(m): 10:33pm On Nov 11, 2012
As for me, Half Bread is better than none. #BeleeThat
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by SELFWORTH: 10:39pm On Nov 11, 2012
what does "your type" mean?
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by WhyAWhy(m): 10:58pm On Nov 11, 2012
chief batiatus:

I know you either a teenager or in ur early ignorant twenties. What of requiring the man to be brand new too?

What has my preference for decency in life gotten to do with your line of reasoning? Cooking pot calling kettle black tongue Did you just tell me your age range? Oops I didn't even ask

And for the records, there are still men, plenty of them still "brand new", medically certified "SOUND"!. It requires a few people to change the societal decadence, it can start with YOU too

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Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Nov 11, 2012
SELFWORTH: what does "your type" mean?
Your dream girl
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by NewsFlash101: 11:48pm On Nov 11, 2012
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Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Moyola(f): 11:50pm On Nov 11, 2012
Alone undecided
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Theblessed(f): 12:15am On Nov 12, 2012
[size=16pt]Rather single and lonely than embracing 'perpetual unhappiness ' in the name of having an incompatible someone as husband, wife, partner. Naaaah!!

After all, there won't be marriage in heaven when we get there so, what would I loose if I didn't get a husband, wife or partner down here on earth, eh??
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Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Deluty997(m): 12:19am On Nov 12, 2012
Half bread ȋ̝̊̅§ better Dan none.
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by superendowed: 12:28am On Nov 12, 2012
blogger1.0:

Haba! I'll defo find that special one b4 then na

Was wondering how you for do am then!!
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Joliecoco: 12:47am On Nov 12, 2012
I don't settle, I rather bealone than be with a guy that I was not attracted to.
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by ablives949(m): 1:56am On Nov 12, 2012
claremont:
The words of the elders are words of wisdom.
Just a good gal with self discipline will evntually be any man's type.
Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by Nobody: 2:17am On Nov 12, 2012
The OP chose to be ALONE..........


Being ALONE doesn't mean you lonely...... Like someone here also said, it is the OP's happiness that matters......


However, there are people who aren't really our type, but as we get closer to them, we tend to like them the more. Being alone just because of that man/woman's looks is quite shallow....

I'm not in any way saying looks doesn't matter, but looks can easily fade away. A Mr/Miss Nigeria in a car crash that resulted in paralysis could easily have his/her beauty taken away in an instant.

My beautiful wife could bear me kids that are autistic, genetically impaired or retarded......

My handsome husband might even lack the confidence to deal with life's challenges.... He might be dumb and clueless......


In conclusion, being alone is good if you happy with it... Being alone just because of the other partner's looks is quite shallow, especially if she has other interesting qualities you admire in her. Qualities that wont fade away, and are forever.. wink wink wink wink wink

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Re: Would You Rather Be Alone Or Settle For Someone That's Not 'Your Type'? by moonraker(m): 5:52am On Nov 12, 2012
brb!!!

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