This is about girls meeting or hooking up with their facebook friends (guys), only to end up biting their fingers later. If you dont want to be molested, then dont venture. that is, dont meet/follow any guy to his house no matter the time of the day. for, alot of guys are crazy about sex these days, and see every girl as an item of pleasure. My advice to girls is simple; if you dont want to be molested, dont venture.
Some guys see facebook as a porn site, where they can just come and pick any girl they want for sex. and some girls have been so gullible and falling 'yakata' for guys on facebook. is it out of desperation or adventure? facebook is suppose to be for socio networking, but some guys and girls are using it for the wrong reasons. Look at what happened to Cynthia and the girl that jumped from a building (to avoid being molested by a guy)just recently. girls usually like to learn their lessons the hard way. What happened to those girls can happen to any girl. dont because of a night of fun and some 'tashere'(meagre)money risk your precious life. your life is worth more than that.
In most cases, when a girl follows a full grown man to his house, she shouldn't expect him not to touch her (or make an attempt) when he is neither a priest nor her 'uncle'. by going home with a guy, you're simply giving him the wrong signal. you've already put him in the mood, and any attempt to prevent such, would be a slap on his ego. and what comes next is a tale for another day.
And anytime you notice any of your room mates looking so quiet or sad, or stays in bed all day after returning from an outing the previos night, then there's every possiblity she's been molested or an attempt was made to molest her by her date. most times, girls dont report incidents like this due to fear of being stigmatized or talked about by others. they prefer to go through the pain and trauma on their own and silently. but if you dont talk, others wont learn!
Like an incident I was told happened to two undergraduate girls, who were raped by some guys they met at a party. having met and exchanged numbers with these two guys, they were later called and asked to accompany them to an engagement in town. and while returning from the event, the two girls were taken to the house of one the guys. where they now try to molest the girls. the girls resisted at first, but were made to succumb at 'knife' point (one of the guys threatened to harm them with a knife). the girls didnt leave until the next morning. feeling filthy and traumatized. alot of girls go through similar experiences like this, even in the hands of their so called boyfriends, but they hardly talk about it.
What some girls dont realize is that if you dont follow a guy to his house or nite club, he can't come and drag you from your house or hostel. Love no be by force. There're many unreported cases like what happened to the girl assaulted in 1004 flats in Lagos. but alot of girls dont listen or learn from other people's mistake.
Ladies use your heads. No matter the situation, dont be deceived or carried away. Always use your head. the days are evil...

**sighs**

@OP You can't be serious . Do you really think this is the reason for most "molestation"?

Nice. op lots has been seen, said and heard abt all these but people like their names to make headlines.

I can count how many Nairaland girls are in their houses tonite despite this epistle of urs

I did not want to be the first to say it was cap else he might say I am hating. But now y'all can see

Actually thought this thread was about r.aping NL girls.

Couldn't be bothered to read this.

marvelck: This is about girls meeting or hooking up with their facebook friends (guys), only to end up biting their fingers later. If you dont want to be molested, then dont venture. that is, dont meet/follow any guy to his house no matter the time of the day. for, alot of guys are crazy about sex these days, and see every girl as an item of pleasure. My advice to girls is simple; if you dont want to be molested, dont venture.
Some guys see facebook as a porn site, where they can just come and pick any girl they want for sex. and some girls have been so gullible and falling 'yakata' for guys on facebook. is it out of desperation or adventure? facebook is suppose to be for socio networking, but some guys and girls are using it for the wrong reasons. Look at what happened to Cynthia and the girl that jumped from a building (to avoid being molested by a guy)just recently. girls usually like to learn their lessons the hard way. What happened to those girls can happen to any girl. dont because of a night of fun and some 'tashere'(meagre)money risk your precious life. your life is worth more than that.
In most cases, when a girl follows a full grown man to his house, she shouldn't expect him not to touch her (or make an attempt) when he is neither a priest nor her 'uncle'. by going home with a guy, you're simply giving him the wrong signal. you've already put him in the mood, and any attempt to prevent such, would be a slap on his ego. and what comes next is a tale for another day.
And anytime you notice any of your room mates looking so quiet or sad, or stays in bed all day after returning from an outing the previos night, then there's every possiblity she's been molested or an attempt was made to molest her by her date. most times, girls dont report incidents like this due to fear of being stigmatized or talked about by others. they prefer to go through the pain and trauma on their own and silently. but if you dont talk, others wont learn!
Like an incident I was told happened to two undergraduate girls, who were raped by some guys they met at a party. having met and exchanged numbers with these two guys, they were later called and asked to accompany them to an engagement in town. and while returning from the event, the two girls were taken to the house of one the guys. where they now try to molest the girls. the girls resisted at first, but were made to succumb at 'knife' point (one of the guys threatened to harm them with a knife). the girls didnt leave until the next morning. feeling filthy and traumatized. alot of girls go through similar experiences like this, even in the hands of their so called boyfriends, but they hardly talk about it.
What some girls dont realize is that if you dont follow a guy to his house or nite club, he can't come and drag you from your house or hostel. Love no be by force. There're many unreported cases like what happened to the girl assaulted in 1004 flats in Lagos. but alot of girls dont listen or learn from other people's mistake.
Ladies use your heads. No matter the situation, dont be deceived or carried away. Always use your head. the days are evil...

PPl will always fall inlove and follow the guy.


The only way to stop this is to have tougher laws on molestations

sexsinners:


PPl will always fall inlove and follow the guy.


The only way to stop this is to have tougher laws on molestations

And you had to quote the whole thing right?

Mynd_44:
And you had to quote the whole thing right?

I wonder o.