Good men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls & the halls @ work. Most women cant see because we dont know what a good man really looks like. He usually isn't flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads.

He might not wear a suit or push a BMW, he might not have a body like Vin Diesel or a Brad Pitt's face. But as time goes, we realise it's better to find someone who's got our back than someone who turns our head. A good man doesn't agree whole-heartedly with everything u say, he doesn't just tell u what u want to hear & do the opposite. He has his own opinions & u may clash, but he doesn't have to degrade u to prove he's right. He even admits @ times to being wrong especially if u're willing to do same.

A good man isn't going to meet every item on ur check list, he's human with frailities & faults mixed with all of his wonderful & strong attributes. He needs ur love & respect. He needs to feel that u dont live to catch him doing something wrong, so u can declare "Aha! I knew u were a dog"

A good man doesn't neccessarily give u a huge birthday or valentine's gift. He shows his love in ways that are comfortable to him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one lives that fairy tale for real. U will miss out on ur own fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are no good. Its just not true. Men! we salute u, thank u for who u are & all u've done.....

Awaiting the Good Women version

Dreystar: Awaiting the Good Women version

don't worry dear, i will soon author that!

Some will find solace in this and be consoled

more ink to ur pen my dear.