maclatunji: 1. Do you agree that you are the head/leader of your home?

2. Do you accept that you are primarily responsible for financing the provision of the basic needs (food, clothing & shelter)of your wife/kids?

3. Do you accept that you have a duty to do everything in your power to ensure the general well-being of your wife/kids?

4. How would you want your wife to react if you answered in the affirmative to questions 1-3 but find that you cannot meet-up with these obligations after genuinely putting-in your best effort?

5. Do you find it easy to acknowledge when you are wrong or have done wrong? How do you apologise?

coogar:

yeah - i have been the head right from when the relationship started. as the man, i take charge!
yeah - i accept!
yeah - that's the essence of my manhood!
everything in my power must be done to provide for my wife and kids!
she should sit me down and offer her best support - she should understand and trust me completely that i am doing my very best to change the situation....she should also remember when the going was good - i never held back! in a nutshell, understanding one's partner is the key!
i am not ashamed to say sorry to my spouse when i do wrong - it effectively puts out unnecessary arguments - my spouse is also peace-loving, the apologies are promptly accepted and it's all good in the hood!

coogar:

yeah - i have been the head right from when the relationship started. as the man, i take charge!



yeah - i accept!



yeah - that's the essence of my manhood!
everything in my power must be done to provide for my wife and kids!



she should sit me down and offer her best support - she should understand and trust me completely that i am doing my very best to change the situation....she should also remember when the going was good - i never held back! in a nutshell, understanding one's partner is the key!



i am not ashamed to say sorry to my spouse when i do wrong - it effectively puts out unnecessary arguments - my spouse is also peace-loving, the apologies are promptly accepted and it's all good in the hood!

jammyng: I'm not yet married but when i do, my answers to all these questions would come from wife

BABE!:


Had me blushing. Olowo ori mi, Adufe.

Ibime:
Are you a married man? Ode!

aryzgreat: MTCHEEEEEEEEEEW!

am expecting a BAN!

Johndoe100: 1. Yes, who else would have been?

2. Yes

3. Yes

4. My wife is up to the task of taking over the bills.

5. I am never wrong and even if I am, I am still right . Why would I apologize?

Brand_new:

So I guess we bachelors should work hard to be able to meet up with the responsibilities.

Johndoe100:

5. I am never wrong and even if I am, I am still right . Why would I apologize?

maclatunji: 1. Do you agree that you are the head/leader of your home?

2. Do you accept that you are primarily responsible for financing the provision of the basic needs (food, clothing & shelter)of your wife/kids?

3. Do you accept that you have a duty to do everything in your power to ensure the general well-being of your wife/kids?

4. How would you want your wife to react if you answered in the affirmative to questions 1-3 but find that you cannot meet-up with these obligations after genuinely putting-in your best effort?

5. Do you find it easy to acknowledge when you are wrong or have done wrong? How do you apologise?

To avoid derailing, I suggest that single men (and women) have a look at this thread https://www.nairaland.com/1090291/problems-marriage-need-talk, it has some questions you might find interesting enough for you to answer.

Thank you.

RudySmith: @Poster
these questions should b directed at the wives of all the people who replied, and not them. The hypocrisy of men is very apparent while going through this tread. As 4 ur questions:

1. The leadership of a home is only true and valid if it is handed 2 men by women. Any leadership that is taken by force or fear is worthless.

2. Marriage is a union of 2 able bodied adults, who should do their best 2 provide the best 4 their family, so it is the responsibility of both of them 2 provide food clothing and shelter 2 the family.

3. They both have a duty 2 do everything in their power 2 ensure the general well being of the family. There will b something very wrong if a wife could raise the family standard but doesn't do it bcuz she doesn't believe it is her duty or bcuz hubby's ego is in the way.

4. If any person answered yes 2 all the above questions then they should b divorced the minute they cannot provide what they supposedly claim is their duty. Men should stand by their words or shut the hell up.

5. *I am sorry I was wrong* is a simple way 2 apologize, so long as the person means what they are saying.
Thank you.

uplawal: Maclatunji,these people cannot accept things the way Allah wants it,they like to share bills wiv their wives,and all other evils follows after e.g perpetual nappy changing,sweeping etc,no wonder their hormone changes and they turn gay.

RudySmith: ^^^ What has allah got 2 do with anything here? pls do point out 2 us all where u read in ur Qur'an that men *only* should pay bill and that they shouldn't change nappies or sweep floors.

U certainly talk like the thousands of women who have nothing 2 offer in marriage, but 2 holes 2 f.uck and feed, no wonder.

Johndoe100: Where do all this pimple faced adolescents come from? You sound like those semi homosexual pansies, hell, what am I saying you probably are one. Go back to school and study. When you grow up come back.