merciie: Girl, 24months is enough time for you to have moved on, taking him back (no matter how much he's sworn to have changed) is dangerous, cos he'll now feel "I can do whatever n if I come begging she'll take me back" since you could still take him back after 23 long months. Let him go jare, you deserve better.

edelweiss: I have a mate, just a mate, dunno what else to call it,

acidosis™:

As in a §ex mate for 23months ?

190-the-clown:
Relationship wahala everywhere these days

Make God help us ooo

Vanneni: dint c any posts frm u in a day iz dat normal?? hope ur geeewd?

Vanneni: dint c any posts frm u in a day iz dat normal?? hope ur geeewd?

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edelweiss: thanks sister! I kinda moved on, but not trying to get into a relationship, but making my self a much better person, financial independence,setting my priorities right, I have a mate, just a mate, dunno what else to call it, I have been so scared to even care for any man again, and am just here telling myself not until I fall in love again will I be obligated to any man again. So am just confused.

mondi_cheeks: Almost 2yrs later... I don't even remember the last name of the guy I dated 2yrs ago

acidosis™:

are you stalking him

mondi_cheeks: Almost 2yrs later... I don't even remember the last name of the guy I dated 2yrs ago

190-the-clown:



baby xmas don come and i need money to take care of my 7 gf's
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190-the-clown:
Relationship wahala everywhere these days

Make God help us ooo

kitty kat:
And u stillwant to go back to the same person that destroyed your self confidence? Hmmmm.... Listen to yourself lady. I don't think you have grwon strong enough. Plsssss o run as fast as you can. If you are having problems findinG someone then you are allowinG your old fears to stop u. One relationship counsellor adivises that one shd meet at least 40 men before you settle. She didn't say date them or have any sex. Just meet them, have conversations without any romantic inclination. This helps one build self confidence and removes desperation cos u r now used to havin men around u but u know in ur mind u don't want them for a date. By the time u loosen up and see that all men aren't monsters u will be better positioned to meetin a Good man.

Pls spend ur time doin other worthwhile thinGs than allowinG that joker into ur life.

mondi_cheeks: Almost 2yrs later... I don't even remember the last name of the guy I dated 2yrs ago

mondi_cheeks: Almost 2yrs later... I don't even remember the last name of the guy I dated 2yrs ago

acidosis™:

as in you dey change dem like sandals

dmcdad:

Just another one again... I think people should just stay out of relationships then.. Its better and a lot safer that way. Anywayz, after about 2 yearz u think he would have changed for the better? Well, I don't know buh, I'd advise u keep ur peels up and be rational before taking any decision. Besides, you should have moved on by now.

To say the truth, accepting him back will make you highly vulnerable and he might take advantage of the fact that your achilles heel is that you can't really cope much without him..

It's your decision ma'am.. Be cautious

edelweiss: hahaha, u got me cracking!so I should just ignore him and don't take him back?

edelweiss: thank u very much, its well noted, am grateful

edelweiss: thanks well noted am grateful