By Bruno Waterfield, Brussels Last Updated: 2:02AM GMT 27/11/2012

A Belgian is seeking to have his marriage annulled after discovering that his Indonesian wife of 19 years had been born a man.

The man, only named as Jan, married Monica, his family's former au pair in a previous marriage, in 1993 despite legal difficulties raised by the Belgian immigration authorities.

But it was only in recent weeks that he discovered that his wife had originally been a man and had undergone a sex change. "I feel I've been assaulted," he told the Het Nieuwsblad newspaper. "I brought her to Belgium. That was not easy. The Belgian courts had serious doubts about the authenticity of her birth and her identity papers, but eventually they accepted it anyway.

I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman. She had no male traits." Jan, 64, said that he and his wife had decided not to have children because he had two by his previous marriage and she fooled him by pretending to menstruate, using sanitary towels, "to conceal the truth". "Even during sex, I never noticed anything," he said.

For many years the couple lived a normal family life and Monica, 48, was like a "big sister" to his children until their marriage started to come under strain when she got a new full-time job. "Monica began to change very much," he said. "My oldest son saw her sometimes at a nightclub. She began to wear very flashy clothes, those ultra-short skirts or tiny tops, so her abdomen was completely exposed.

" Finally rumours began to surface and after Jan found "amorous messages" from other men on her computer, he confronted her in a violent row that led to the police being called. "A friend told me that he had heard that Monica was actually a sex-changed man.

I could not believe it. My son heard similar rumours," he said. "I pushed her against the wall and said: Now I know the truth. Are you a man? She then announced that she was born as a boy and that she had been operated on. She was now a woman, and so she did not need to tell me about her past as a man. My world collapsed. That evening came to blows.

The police came." Jan, who is undergoing psychiatric treatment following the discovery, has started legal proceedings to have the marriage annulled but the Belgian courts have so far refused to allow him to turn her out of the familiy home. "That person has deliberately deceived him for years, even scammed.

Presumably she has also forged documents used here to get a residence permit. The children, who for years have lived with her, are devastated," said his Liliane Verjauw, his lawyer.

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/belgium/9703166/Belgian-discovers-his-wife-used-to-be-a-man-after-19-years.html

^What would you do if you were the one in the man's shoes?

I'll sue him for damages...wallahi

I would NOT want my enemy to be in this.

What?!

They had "sex" and he did not notice anything?

I need a minute to puke.

DAMN


Hmm, for 19 years? Abeg, continue life as usual.

Too bad he discovered the hard way and I'm sorry for him truly... But me I have a question o... Whenever they are having s£x, will she be moaning "ooohhh" "ahhhh"? Will she be having orga$m? Where did her b¤¤bs come from? Abi na everything sugery fit do?

Thank God I no get plan to marry oyibo, the babe I must marry gas pass thru serious morphological and physiological analysis before any "I do". Sorry oga, so na iron b dey jam iron since. Choi.

Jesus Christ.

Ehm, I wld just let the woman be. Sometimes it hurts when the truth is told. He has been duped. lol

Yours GEJ,:
I'll sue him for damages...wallahi

HER

na wa o!

Lol..... Fvckin an artificial hole 4 gud 19 yrs? God forbid! I will definately kill her at dat spot and kill myself.

waoh

very difficult to believe

19yrs of bleeping him/her, so where he con dy put dat tin

She........erm he get hole sha, Abi?

I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman. She had no male traits." Jan, 64, said that he and his wife had decided not to have children because he had two by his previous marriage and she fooled him by pretending to menstruate, using sanitary towels, "to conceal the truth". "Even during sex, I never noticed anything," he said.

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crime of the millenium !

i swear yawa go gas

This is a very serious caSe

Cutekid54: i swear yawa go gas

how the yawa go gas ?

Ol'boy,see levels

Dygeasy: HER

It! since neither him nor her is correct

19 good years, Monica must be employed by CIA. haba!

Bwahahahahahahahahahaaaahhahahaha!!!
Chai,laff wan tear my belle!!!! Lama!!!What da eeefff
Notice: if your wife dey beat you for house,
or you notice say sometimes when she jokingly hit or slap you, d tin strong pass blow,
or you notice say your wife dey stand urinate sometimes
or your wife dey carry load wey yourself no fit carry
or your wife dey constantly remind you say no be only you be the man of the house....
THEN IT IS SAFE TO SAY "E BE LIKE SAY YOU MARRY MAN"
**** watch out,i will be giving more tips****

Unknown Member:

So do we call him a fagg0t?!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

THE CURIOUS CASE OF THE UNKNOWN MEMBER F@GGOT

Unknown Member:

THAT IS OF COURSE HOW YOU WILL END UP WHEN I TAKE YOU OFF THE PRIVILEDGE OF LICKING MY POO.
BLAME IT ON YOUR GREED.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Mehn I must kill her. This would cause me a serious pyschological trauma if I were in the shoes of that man.

Nawa o_4 oOyoinbo pple_