There has bin this funny but true trend
U meet a guy, u guys start dating and its just like  he cant live without u as he is just all over you.You guys talk about virtually about everything and anything under the sun.Meanwhile during the course of getting to know each other, you have made this one thing clear: NO SEX UNTIL AFTER MARRIAGE! and he doesnt object neither does he bhave as if he cant just cope with that.
Months into your relationship, he starts bringing up the issue and it gradually becomes an issue and a soource of misunderstanding.Then when ure not yielding, he starts dating someone else.When u find out, you cant stand it and u guys decides to talk about in and in the process u both willingly decide to go ur separate ways.Of course he is too willing to call it off.Obviously,they continue with this their new found love.
Surprisingly,few months after uve both decided to call it over, they start calling and they wanna come back into your life.
Trust me, i REFUSE but they never seem to give up, even till tomorrow.
The truth is why do they  keep wanting to come back after treating me the way they have did?
Dont be suprised this has happenen with 2 guys in a row and has been almost the same story all through trust me.
PLS WHAT DO U ALL THINK?

Lemme get this straight, aren't u glad they come back begging?
wld u rather they were like "good riddance to bad rubbish"? You's the one havin the last laugh so keep ur head up girl.
And don't eva be taking back those dogs, they belong in the pound.

Or perhaps you are still raw gold they are yet to explore

But seriously, ladies who stand their ground on an issue as sensitive as sex are usually well repected by guys

opokonwa:

Or perhaps you are still raw gold they are yet to explore

But seriously, ladies who stand their ground on an issue as sensitive as sex are usually well repected by guys

Thats so true - stand ur ground without wavering.

But if they go cause u wont give them sex, then let them keep stepping - on the other hand, they have obviously seen that they cant live without you and want u back.

we keep coming back cos we cant do without those we really love. . .
if our issues were based on sex, then i see no reasons why we shouldnt heal the wound. . .
Sex aint evrthin

tkb417:

we keep coming back because we can't do without those we really love. . .
if our issues were based on sex, then i see no reasons why we shouldnt heal the wound. . .
Sex aint evrthin

very well said !

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tkb417:

we keep coming back because we can't do without those we really love. . .
if our issues were based on sex, then i see no reasons why we shouldnt heal the wound. . .
Sex aint evrthin

Abeg make you speak for yourself oh!   Learn to sit in one place tbk419!!!!

_{And what is it that we really love?}   Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

If they keep coming back then you should keep looking good the way u are(they cant help that).U are simply great however they might also be comin back to complete what they didnt finish in the first place.Just make sure real love dont pas u by.Enjoy.

sosilly4b:

If they keep coming back then you should keep looking good the way u are(they can't help that).You are simply great however they might also be comin back to complete what they didnt finish in the first place.Just make sure real love don't pas u by.Enjoy.

I agree.

Abeg make you speak for yourself oh! Learn to sit in one place tbk419!!!!

And what is it that we really love? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

exactly what i just told you on the mother in-law thing.(speak for urself)
and tell me where i should sit
and who told u i cant love. . .
abeg gerraway from my side joh!

They keep coming back because you are unfinished business. Its probably not love dear, its the male ego thing. They just have to be the one to pop the cherry.

so true. i wonder why too.

but for those who still stick around (if i tell them i cant date them), once they can come to terms with it, we've learnt to get along by building our friendship and there's many of them i hold close to my heart as bestest friends now . unless he's immature.

i havent dated anyone who isn't cool with my stance on sex. and when we part ways, we stay good friends.

Bravo Lady. Keep it up. Those guys sucks. They didn't really love u in the first place. They are more interested in your cunt. If a guy really love u, he will be more than willing to wait. He just want to add you to the list.
When I was dating my wife and I learnt her stance (she was a virgin too), Boy was I mad with love and admiration for her. Keep it. That is your weapon. Don't let anybody decieve you that virginity is nothing. Personally I treasure it. You will surely meet somebody who reasons like you. Girl I am happy for you and mighty proud of you.

They keep coming back because they now know your value. I love the following quotes. One, more of male ego and perhaps they now know your worth

bjibola:

They keep coming back because you are unfinished business. Its probably not love dear, its the male ego thing. They just have to be the one to pop the cherry.

adeboo:

Thats so true - stand your ground without wavering.

But if they go cause u wont give them sex, then let them keep stepping - on the other hand, they have obviously seen that they can't live without you and want u back.

The above is also very true. Hold your head high. Wishing you happy valentine.

I advice u stay away from that guy because once he get what he's looking for believe me u won't see him again.

Why you always date BAD BOYS aka sex freaky? Basically they are vultures playing along to come back to you over and over!!!

no one knows why he is comin back. he might be really sorry to come back or he might just be comin back for a purpose, no one knows hun so be smart and be careful,

@uspry1


hi dear actually i'm new here, tryin to know a little bout the forum, wassup?

@queen01

Welcome to Nairaland! You will love it! Plenty of time meeting different Nairaland people! Plenty of laughing, educating, contributing, learning, and changing your life lot better yourself!

The more you will save too many heartbreaks learning from their mistakes that you won't happen to youself! Be smart! Be cautious! Keep your legs close!

@uspry


hahahahahahahahah now ur really flattering me honestly, well u can surely trust me for dat, my legs are always close , nways bout learnin alot here ur pretty rite cuz even b4 i resgistered i do come here and read so u can say dat again, av never been to nigeria but it seems to be a nice place dnt know to much of there people though but i can say just a little

i do come across almondjoy,iice,iceblue,yimiton,and u to name a few, i do enjoy readin the post and replies each time i visit nairaland, u guys seems to be havin fun here, but i was a bit mad at oracle99 of wat he said , (so sad).

WE keep coming back because WE can't do without those we really love. . .
if our issues were based on sex, then i see no reasons why we shouldnt heal the wound. . .
Sex aint evrthin

we?. . . our?

@uspry1


is dat u in the picture?