I have had my fair share of relationships. I have actually had two which ended up sore. But the problem is that the two of them have realized their mistakes and now think i am the best for them, hence they both want to come back. Meanwhile, i am now in love with someone who values me more than gold!. Loving me is the only thing he knows how to do.

But my very first guy is tenacious, he still wants 2 come back by all means. And the second is also pleading the same fate. What exactly do I do? Should I cut all ties with them in terms of friendship? Perhaps i should stop talking to them? Is it now that they know my worth? I don't want something that will disturb my future in in the sense that they pop up on my wedding day asking for one thing or the other.

Please, dear readers, your urgent advice and comments will be of great help. Thanks.

girl, move on with the one you love. These your exes who are battling to come back will leave you again. Move on!

Girl, move on. They are not worth it at all. Just let them know it's only at the friend level that you can remain with them if they are interested and don't give them face at all. Do your thing and soon, they will realize where you're coming from and move on themselves if they want to.

babygirl ! wetin you still dey look for? abeg cut the ties and burn dem joo.thier time has gone! focus on your new love and move on with your life. Best of luck

i don't even bother about d other 2 fellows just tell them that Ur in love wit someone else.

You know what?

Those two losers that want you back, make them your errmmm... Spare part. Go with the original one... (the guy that you love now, and the guy that values you more than gold).

Leave the two ex's in the garage.. if they r lucky, u might get tired of ur man, and decide to use them.

don't even keep them in the garage, they might cause some comotion there  we learn from relationships and move on with the lesson _{not turn back to eat whatever we felt we left behind} and unless there is a more geniune reason for rebuilding a relationship gone sour other than, "i realise now how much you mean to me", i don't believe in it, some things never change..................its bad news 

Think of all the reasons why you dont love them anymore, that will help you let go and focus on the man on the scene

they aint serious guys. send them off jo. get busy with more serious guys but keep ur eyes open...

tanx 4 all ur advices especially dat of nice2have..they r really helping to move on!. Nairlanders r gr8 and nairaland is d best site i have come accross
thanx 2 u all!!!!!. Keep d posts coming, please!

I think she is a supermodel or something. You want them off, say you have not shaved your legs for three months. One time ago I did not believe a girl who said that. I learned my lesson .

those exes are not worth it what did they do when they had the chance?messed it all up
carry on with your life girl did they seriously think you werent gonna find another guy?

stick with your latest lover, what were the other ones thinking when they hurt you

tho it's since february, but i'll post anyways.
when d guys come back to your door, just aim a gun at them./
move on with your life.

they hurt you in the past,and they would still hurt you again if given chance.a leopard can never change its spots.move on with the new guy.

You must have that good good but seriously try and find out why you broke up with those guys and if you do you would know who is likely to hurt you or who deserves a second chance

If this is true. . . . be rest assured they are both going to bang you really hard from behind !

I hope you have hair down under !!

Yeah,we've got talents in 9ja,u know what?most of u guys wuld av bn beta of being a guardian counsellor lol,u, guys are gr8,kp it up! And 2 d lady in questn,9ralanders av spoken but i won't fail 2 let u know dt,dose guys who jilted u are up 2 smtin worse if nt worst,if u truly luv ur new man,stay and b faithful wd em,1 more tin,don't fail 2 get em acquainted wt ds cos i tink his luv 4 u is gonna increase,best wishes!!!

don't even keep them in the garage, they might cause some comotion there Cool we learn from relationships and move on with the lesson not turn back to eat whatever we felt we left behind and unless there is a more geniune reason for rebuilding a relationship gone sour other than, "i realise now how much you mean to me", i don't believe in it, some things never change, its bad news Cool

Think of all the reasons why you dont love them anymore, that will help you let go and focus on the man on the scene

ty4eva:

I have had my fair share of relationships. I have actually had two which ended up sore. But the problem is that the two of them have realized their mistakes and now think i am the best for them, hence they both want to come back. Meanwhile, i am now in love with someone who values me more than gold!. Loving me is the only thing he knows how to do.

But my very first guy is tenacious, he still wants 2 come back by all means. And the second is also pleading the same fate. What exactly do I do? Should I cut all ties with them in terms of friendship? Perhaps i should stop talking to them? Is it now that they know my worth? I don't want something that will disturb my future in in the sense that they pop up on my wedding day asking for one thing or the other.

Please, dear readers, your urgent advice and comments will be of great help. Thanks.

they probably realise what it is they lost, . . . . .

That is because you are still freaking keeping in touch with them!!

Word!

there is something in u that wants him back. But if u are already dating someone else tell him to leave u alone or report him to ur current bf

take him

@Poster. My advice is remember the saying "All that glitters is NOT GOLD" and "The Devil you know is BETTER than the ANGEL you presume you have or will come". Moving on may look better and easy but think about those saying and consider the situation do not allow your emotions decide for you it could spell doom (I don't prayer that for you anyway). Wishing you the best.

TOYOSI20:

I have had my fair share of relationships. I have actually had two which ended up sore. But the problem is that the two of them have realized their mistakes and now think i am the best for them, hence they both want to come back. Meanwhile, i am now in love with someone who values me more than gold!. Loving me is the only thing he knows how to do.
But my very first guy is tenacious, he still wants 2 come back by all means. And the second is also pleading the same fate. What exactly do I do? Should I cut all ties with them in terms of friendship? Perhaps i should stop talking to them? Is it now that they know my worth? I don't want something that will disturb my future in in the sense that they pop up on my wedding day asking for one thing or the other.

Please, dear readers, your urgent advice and comments will be of great help. Thanks

so ur present bf is dumb?

The original post was from [size=20pt]2006[/size] no one cares anymore

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