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You are correct sir. Women are supposed to serve their husbands food whether they like it or not.
I don't understand these modern day women that think women are equal to men. Women should show their inferiority by serving food to their husbands instead of waiting for the husband to serve himself.

debrief08: Lol Uju, You want to give some people High Blood Pressure you this "westernaised" wife, "soon someone else will serve your husband, maybe the maid self and snatch him, then you will come here and be crying, instead of you to take a teacher or civil service job that will give you time to prepare every meal, keep the house clean and sparkely, and be dressed in the s3xiest nightgown waiting for him when he gets home you are here saying you can't serve your husband. Don't you know that a womans life begins and ends in the kitchen cooking and serving? Don't you see all the desperate women doing night vigil for husband? Do you think having a husband is easy? Stay there and be doing oyibo, one day your husband will be served food and will mumuily enter a land of no return"
Hope I said it right. Uju, a word is enough for the wise, better resign and look for a job that will allow you serve your husband you are here doing oyibo, this is not America oh, Nigerian Men have no self control, and God forbid that he cooks or brings dinner home and serves you, you are looking for trouble, they will snatch your husband oh, na serve and follow, any woman you allow to serve him will carry him and go.
I don't blame you sha, You didn't get the "How to be a Nigerian Wife Manual"

Ujujoan: If he doesnt want to be served by the maid, then he's free to get the food himself!

Besides, who still 'serves' food these days

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You are correct sir. Women are supposed to serve their husbands food whether they like it or not.
I don't understand these modern day women that think women are equal to men. Women should show their inferiority by serving food to their husbands instead of waiting for the husband to serve himself.

oyin50: . Ideally, the answer to this question is determined by individual priorities. To some being divorced or single is nightmarish and not on their agendas, to some being single or divorce is hip and could care less of having multiple partners.

slimyem: What would the lady of house be doing while the maid is serving her husband?

Ujujoan: If he doesnt want to be served by the maid, then he's free to get the food himself!

Besides, who still 'serves' food these days

solomon111: Go to hell with your brainless sarcasm.
If you don't want to serve your husband meals,than marry someone who agrees with you.
Don't you dare tag wise women who opt to do otherwise as inferior.

Elebiju: here comes another feminist,I know ur type and d kinda man u want,u need a mugu that will do d cooking,laundry even d baby's diapers and ur f..king undies abi?I do the cooking sometimes if my babe is tired but not as a chore,I'll only agree to d maid serving me if only she can serve me in bed

tshepiso: N TO THE O!no maid should even be closeto the pots.personally i wouldnt want a maid at all no matter how big my house is,is she not a woman like myself,how can she do all those house chores and i can`t.i would rather cook,clean ,fetch the kids from school,and iron for my family myself.Its better to be safe than sorry.

sleekch1c: lots of super-dumb comments. women,serving him food wnt secure him,a dog is a dog even when u dress him in designer clothes.
nigerian men,empty vessels with delusion of grandeur

Ujujoan: If he doesnt want to be served by the maid, then he's free to get the food himself!

Besides, who still 'serves' food these days

bluestreak: ..-what d heck is that...hey! lady wives serve their husbands. My wife cooks for me and also serves me. Its her joy doing that, and its my joy fulfilling my obligations as the head of the family. I guess u're young and ur comment shows u're naive. If u have plans of getting married and enjoyin ur married, pls grow up.when u serve ur husband he will also serve u back in many ways.

Lasinoh: No problem with me there at all.
HE MAY PREFER A DUDE FOR ALL I CARE!

My Agnostic God BLESS America!!!!

Serve yourself OR STARVE TO DEATH!

Kobojunkie:

I am playing dumb? For pete's sake women, you accused me of being angry and I am asking you how to came to that conclusion when nothing in my post suggest anger of any kind.

I don't deny my intelligence, no I do not. What causes my confusion here is how you can, without ever meeting me, knowing my person or having access to my emotion-meter can conclude from mere words in my question there that I am angry. You are not even assuming this . . you CONCLUDED it is the case, from those mere words, and I want to know how you could do that, since all I did was type out my view and questions like I do everyday and flipped over to the next page.

uzoexcel: man,chilllax..tot i was d only one that noticed this anger emanating from u.......so much bile in you.....naija s frustrating but u just have to plow along....gudluck

Kobojunkie:

Another dingbat who when he is unable to respond intelligently thinks that ASSUMING he has the opponents emotional state figured out from his computer screen/mobile phone, he can pretend to have the situation under his control.

Here's advice for you. Grow a brain and learn to argue issues rather than pretend you have intelligence beyond what you are working with.

Sarcoc: [size=14pt]It's such a pity that in this day and age person still dey ask this kind of question!![/size]

Kobojunkie:

Another dingbat who when he is unable to respond intelligently thinks that ASSUMING he has the opponents emotional state figured out from his computer screen/mobile phone, he can pretend to have the situation under his control.

Here's advice for you. Grow a brain and learn to argue issues rather than pretend you have intelligence beyond what you are working with.

dick hardener: . The same America where my girl cooks and does my laundry for me.abegiii... Nigerian girls are a handful.

Lasinoh:

You specified 'your girl', not your wife!
please, wait till then.

[size=15pt]NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE DIFFERENT FROM NIGERIAN WOKEN. One is a slave for a wedding ring, the other a SOLE BENIFICIARY![/size]

Please take note!