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| Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
If u have been staying with ur man/woman for 10years. U live like a married couple. He/she keeps telling you he/she is not yet ready for marriage...would u continue to live like that hoping someday he/she will be ready or would u jus leave him after 10years of being committed to him/her? |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by RedLight1: 1:48pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
10yrs? Are u kidding? |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Mynd44: 2:00pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
10 years? That is longer than a lot of marriages leave the dude |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nobody: 2:07pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
Mynd_44: 10 years? That is longer than a lot of marriages leave the dude  |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by OgidiOlu3(m): 2:15pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
If you're happy with your relationship, stay with him. Marriage is just a formality, what matters most is your happiness. Like Mynd said, 10yrs is longer than a lot of marriages. On the other hand, wetin you dey look for 10yrs?  |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Caracta(f): 4:19pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
In the 1st place, i wouldn't live with a man i'm not married to. However, a relationship of 10years is funny. How old were they when they started the relationship? |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
mondi_cheeks: If u have been staying with ur man/woman for 10years. U live like a married couple. He/she keeps telling you he/she is not yet ready for marriage...would u continue to live like that hoping someday he/she will be ready or would u jus leave him after 10years of being committed to him/her? This can only happens in the western worlds. It cannot and will not happens in a place like Nigeria so it will be rights if you posted these question on askmen.com or a women foruming in America or England |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
Caracta: a relationship of 10years is funny.lol |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
richarts:or u cld jus pretend u didn't see it and let those who want to say something on the topic say it  |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nobody: 5:12pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
Red-Light: ^ |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by luvmijeje(f): 5:21pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
10yrs!4 me to leave a guy dat ve been with 4 dat long,there has to be a better reason and nt because he didnt get married to me. |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nobody: 5:29pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
Will u be leavin with the kids too  |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nnekacherry: 6:09pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
Red-Light:  |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
It depends ... If I wanted to have children soon, I'd leave. If I didn't want to have chidlren soon and the relationship was happy, I wouldn't leave. |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by switdick(m): 11:45pm On Dec 04, 2012 |
its not wise to stay with him in tha first place,except of course, you two are engaged. Relationship does not guaranty or justify anything to bind you guys under the same roof,it only shows the desperation of the party willing to stay. Even if he assured you he'd marry you,let him bend over backwards to facilitate his plans.Staying with him will only make you tear your hair,thus, exhibiting to his face" his lack of marital plan prowess,and he could call off whatever engagement plan he has for you both out of frustration. when he's ready,he should come to you, its more respectful that way.  |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Mynd44: 3:12am On Dec 05, 2012 |
Seriously, 10 years? Dang!!! |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Flashaldrin(m): 7:36am On Dec 05, 2012 |
I cant stay with someone i'm not married to. Yea, i'm still an old-fashioned christian. |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nobody: 9:26am On Dec 05, 2012 |
mondi_cheeks: |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by student10: 9:32am On Dec 05, 2012 |
mondi_cheeks: If u have been staying with ur man/woman for 10years. U live like a married couple. He/she keeps telling you he/she is not yet ready for marriage...would u continue to live like that hoping someday he/she will be ready or would u jus leave him after 10years of being committed to him/her? Don't think u should leave at this point cos let's face it he's finished using u, just let him have wots remaining. |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nobody: 9:46am On Dec 05, 2012 |
Flashaldrin: I cant stay with someone i'm not married to. Yea, i'm still an old-fashioned christian.nd its not a bad thing |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Flashaldrin(m): 10:29am On Dec 05, 2012 |
mondi_cheeks: nd its not a bad thingmaybe you should try it. |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by ferhyntorlah(f): 11:25am On Dec 05, 2012 |
Caracta: In the 1st place, i wouldn't live with a man i'm not married to. However, a relationship of 10years is funny. How old were they when they started the relationship? Way to go babe! |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by ferhyntorlah(f): 11:27am On Dec 05, 2012 |
Flashaldrin: I cant stay with someone i'm not married to. Yea, i'm still an old-fashioned christian. Bless you brother! |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by ferhyntorlah(f): 11:29am On Dec 05, 2012 |
Flashaldrin: Hehehehehehehe, very funny! |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by CrimsonLove(f): 5:51pm On Dec 05, 2012 |
mondi_cheeks: If u have been staying with ur man/woman for 10years. U live like a married couple. He/she keeps telling you he/she is not yet ready for marriage...would u continue to live like that hoping someday he/she will be ready or would u jus leave him after 10years of being committed to him/her? you leave. I don't feel like this is a difficult question, you can't convince your partner of something of that magnitude they have to come to it on their own or they won't. |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by P4VS20: 4:19pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
10 yrs is too long. max 3 yrs, not ready, gone like the winds. |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Gloriagee(f): 4:25pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
Lai Lai. I'd be bored out of my wits |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Mynd44: 5:28pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
P4VS20: 10 yrs is too long. max 3 yrs, not ready, gone like the winds.3 years in some cases is too much sef. |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by P4VS20: 5:36pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
Mynd_44: am just tryin to be nice. 1 yr, we suppose know where we dey go |
| Re: Would You Stay Or Would You Go? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Dec 16, 2012 |
richarts:you are actually quite wrong, it happens very often in Nigeria. I've seen people live together for years in Nigeria, have kids etc without any marriage ceremony.i've Even attended a mass wedding for 15 couples who have been living together for 10 years and above. The only thing is that it's more common amongst the unskilled/illiterate/semi- literate here in Nigeria. |
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