Who says guys don’t gossip? Well, I don’t know about other guys, but my friends and I do. Though we rarely have the time, but whenever we do, we like gossiping about women. And I think that subject is very interesting considering how unbelievable women are.

Two weekends ago, we were at it again. He was on his laptop and I on mine. Then he sarcastically laughed out loud, held his head in his two palms in surprise and said, “So Kemi is the girl Kingsley (not the real names) married!” I know Kingsley. He is a friend, not a really close one though, but I know him well enough to know he’s from a good home, has a good job, and seems to be a stable guy. He is also a handsome decent dude. The type every woman will hope for. I think.

“Who be kemi?” I asked. “You no sabi am? Kemi. That girl back in school with one bad ass like that (using his hands to draw up a funny shape) dark, has big bright eyes… bla bla bla… and he went ahead to describe her until I had to pretend to suddenly remember her, though I never did. You know that awkward moment when someone is certain you to know something even when you have no idea what they are talking about.

I got curious and asked “So why are you surprised that Kingsley married her?” “She’s a bad girl!” he exclaimed. He was surprised I asked that question because he expected everyone one who knew Kemi at all to know she was an unrepentant “runs girl”. “Kingsley deserves a better girl” he said disapprovingly in a rather disappointed tone. We went ahead to talk about “bad girls” and how that they almost always gets the “good guys”.

Read the interesting gist here: http://www.gideonbanks.com/love-relationship/why-bad-girls-get-the-good-guys/