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Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by ATMC(f): 7:15am On Dec 08, 2012 |
ATMC: Mh, did i hear you say d rich guy is not good behind closed doors? If he was intelligent enough to make money d way he did then i'll believe his intelligence will also make some impact in d other side. Meanwhile, physical attraction is skindeep so i don't think d gala hawkerr will move me like dt seeing his future is bleak.this means d gala boy wont move me buh d rich guy will, for we will both find a solution to his problem with bedroom matters...atleast i have dt to add to his life |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by ATMC(f): 7:20am On Dec 08, 2012 |
xyoung: @all...let's analyze Logicallyto add to what you just said, opposite attracts many atimes but d same opposites account for d reason for most marital issues...so you see...doom all d wayyy |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by vocalprince(m): 7:23am On Dec 08, 2012 |
nnenna.1:Nne help me tell am abeg! How can such conditions exist? Abeg this trade is.......... |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by tunnlex(m): 7:29am On Dec 08, 2012 |
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Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by Serendipity: 7:33am On Dec 08, 2012 |
Virtue lies in the middle. There should be temperance and moderation in everything. Once a woman is averagely beautiful and has bodacious character, I will definitely be content. The descriptions above are too utopian, chimeric and unrealizable. It is different from what is obtainable in the society. |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by chaotik(m): 7:33am On Dec 08, 2012 |
nnenna.1: yea . . . so was shade okoya . |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by Nobody: 7:37am On Dec 08, 2012 |
nnenna.1: LOL damn sis, you put a wrench in my arguments. This is a tough one!! To be honest it would be nice if he was financially stable. And if you put it like that (chance of falling in love with either choice) then yes, I would go with the guy who is set (well off) assuming I am not in love with either one - BUT there would have to be a genuinely mutual connection between us. But if I am in love with the guy who is not rich, and esp. if he is an AMBITIOUS man, then he would be my choice. Gosh I hate these questions. Too deep oh! tunnlex: Theere is always option C even D LOL I think I just chose those two lol. |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by Serendipity: 7:38am On Dec 08, 2012 |
It is self evident that one doesn't need billions to be happy and live life to the fullest. It is also lucid that a woman musn't be intimidatingly pretty to make a man happy. |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by Serendipity: 7:39am On Dec 08, 2012 |
Beauty may attract a man but character will keep him. |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by Koolking(m): 9:19am On Dec 08, 2012 |
Op, you seem to be in a dilemma. Get a reprieve now, at least you have been tipped there is always plan C or option C. |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by charlsecy4(m): 9:53am On Dec 08, 2012 |
ATMC: If he was intelligent enough to make money d way he did then i'll believe his intelligence will also make some impact in d other side. This can't be true. Being rich is necessarily being intelligent... |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by xyoung: 10:38am On Dec 08, 2012 |
ATMC: to add to what you just said, opposite attracts many atimes but d same opposites account for d reason for most marital issues...so you see...doom all d wayyyIn terms of opposite attraction, I wld say it only work for teens relationship (boyfriend and girlfriend) but when it comes to real arriage dating or courtin, it will never work because no responsible man wil EVER marry an irresponsible woman or no man of God (pastor) will EVER marry a pagan or no SHELL stylish worker will EVER marry an illiterate girl or no good guy will EVER marry a wayward/stripper girl. Hope u catch my drift |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by miss9ja(f): 1:32pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
nnenna.1:U said her own chances, dat does not mean dat d guy cannot have money. So....there is still a chance of her stat being improved |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by Nobody: 4:05pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Pondering... cr8v: I have a very keen sense of perception. I can tell your future by relating with you. I know that a gateman with enough character and mindset of an achiever can be a General Manager tomoro while a rich money-miss-road General Manager who has no character can degenerate to a Gate Man tomoro. So I look out for internal qualities. They are pricelessGood answer. |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by star4(f): 5:50pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
I'll chase the old rich guy. He's old so he'll die sooner and then I will inherit the millions and live happily ever after. Then some hot guy will chase me for my money and I'll die happy! Thee end 1 Like |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by smartg(m): 8:03pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
I would choose the poor girl, although there's nothing wrong in marrying an ugly or rich girl but i will not like to marry a girl that is older than me. |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by temkemol: 1:03am On Dec 09, 2012 |
Are u wondering if you are in love as a lady... Here are signs that will tell you if you are truly in love http://www.nigerianewsinfo.com/2012/11/15/10-signs-that-you-are-in-love/ |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by Denise216(f): 1:33am On Dec 09, 2012 |
nnenna.1: This depends on the position of the woman for a fair exchange. I'd go with option A, I prefer quality of life over standard of living. I can make an attractive man rich, I can't make an old man young. |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by diva90: 3:17am On Dec 09, 2012 |
Looks are a necessity and so is the persons status. I can't marry a poor man sha.... He has to have a good job and be comfortable to a certain level before I agree to date him talkless of marrying him |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by Nobody: 9:55am On Dec 09, 2012 |
claremont: I will choose the beautiful but poor lady, being poor is reversible. Money can be used to mask ugliness but an ugly gene is irredeemable, it will definitely be transferred from one generation to the next. lmao |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by iamtheprincipal: 10:58pm On Dec 14, 2012 |
Graphy: d world wuld be a beta place if men like u still exist. @Graphy, they do exist. The main issue is that damsels with good hearts are in extreme dearth. |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by Nobody: 11:44pm On Dec 14, 2012 |
iamtheprincipal:wish i culd lay me hands on one someday. |
Re: When Choosing A Mate: Wealth Or Beauty/attraction. by Nobody: 11:48pm On Dec 14, 2012 |
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