Hi, i am presently dating a girl which i intend to marry soon, the issue now is this,im falling in love with a colleague of mine in d same office.When i told her of my feelings towards her she also affirms of being in love with me. Now both of us can't date in d same office as its unethical but one of us is willing to leave d job if need be,now im in love with 2 pple and dont know what 2 do. Pls advice me on wat to do

What u have for the lady @ work is called Infatuation, which[b] WILL [/b] lead you to do things you'll regret later,but love never will.

You already have someone u love and want to marry, just stick wit her

put you d--k in one hole man.just one is ok!!

@poster
Which one is lust and which is love?
Which one would you bang and your eye go clear

I'm not in a position to judge or predic which?
How long have you dated your so-called Girlfriend to decide to marry her?
Have you had sex with her b/fore?

What're the qualities in this new office girl that draws you to her?
Are you simply hot for her
You see so many questions which only you can sincerely answer

I am sick and tired of people coming on Nairaland to tell me that they are in love
Worse still, that they are in love with two ladies.
DO YOUR HOMEWORK FIRST.

Sure
u've never been in love with a stripper
How about that?

U need deliverance from the spirit of Sexual Perversion.

Olumide7:

You need deliverance from the spirit of Sexual Perversion.

rotflmao

@post
na na na. . .you're in love with one, you're in lust with the other. just figure out which one you're in lust with and tell her buhbye

masam:

Hi, i am presently dating a girl which i intend to marry soon, the issue now is this,im falling in love with a colleague of mine in d same office.When i told her of my feelings towards her she also affirms of being in love with me. Now both of us can't date in d same office as its unethical but one of us is willing to leave d job if need be,now im in love with 2 people and don't know what 2 do. Please advice me on what to do

I hope the "one you intend to marry soon" discovers this and drops you like a used tampon.

One word - philandering idiot

You told another woman you are in love with her when you intend to marry another? and she said yes?? Meaning some hanky panky has gone on behind the scenes - i.e. you cheated on your 'intended'

If the other office lady knows about your intended, I hope you both end up together, I'm sure the cheating cycle will repeat itself, if not shame on you for taking advantage of two women.

Go hang yourself by your abunna on a sycamore tree.

you ain't in love with nobody hoomie you in lust
set the fiancee free so you can pursue the other girls

debosky:

One word - philandering idiot

You told another woman you are in love with her when you intend to marry another? and she said yes?? Meaning some hanky panky has gone on behind the scenes - i.e. you cheated on your 'intended'

If the other office lady knows about your intended, I hope you both end up together, I'm sure the cheating cycle will repeat itself, if not shame on you for taking advantage of two women.

Go hang yourself by your abunna on a sycamore tree.

one must first posess an abunna to be hung by it.
he needs to be hung by his man boobs

Sad position to be in.

Go fink this through coz there's a lot at stake here. Proper fink, I mean fink and let fins occur naturally. I fink u may end up with the one tht pays u more attention. But remember you'v got a heart in ur hands. Tough decision.

You are not alone in this.

nwando:

one must first posess an abunna to be hung by it.
he needs to be hung by his man boobs

I agree - better yet, hang him by his lying tongue. Its dudes like this that give us men a bad name

In love my foot, the dude even wanted to have a relationship with the other woman while 'intending' to marry another woman soon - no guilt, no shame, nothing. I'm sure he'll carry this same attitude into marriage if care is not taken.

'Its who pays you more attention' ?? What rubbish. He intended to marry one already, so why go tell another woman you're in love with her? The two women should leave him.

"He that tries to pounce on two rats at the same time, ends up with none".

Go figure.

It is a good thing that you are displaying your polygamous tendencies early enough so ALL ladies past, present and future can brace themselves for what lies ahead with you.

Goodluck to y'aaaall!

Tanx all for ur responses and criticisms, but i wonder if any of u has ever heard of 'love triangle'?
I am not a player or irresponsible as alleged by some, cos if i am i'll not deem it fit to come to naira land and seek honest counsel from honourable members,so pls pple advice me rather than crucifying an innocent man who is emotionally troubled.

Olumide7:

You need deliverance from the spirit of Sexual Perversion.

Every problem has to be spiritual, ain't it? lol

debosky:

One word - philandering idiot

You told another woman you are in love with her when you intend to marry another? and she said yes?? Meaning some hanky panky has gone on behind the scenes - i.e. you cheated on your 'intended'

If the other office lady knows about your intended, I hope you both end up together, I'm sure the cheating cycle will repeat itself, if not shame on you for taking advantage of two women.

Go hang yourself by your abunna on a sycamore tree.

I approve this message.

masam:

Tanx all for your responses and criticisms, but i wonder if any of u has ever heard of 'love triangle'?
I am not a player or irresponsible as alleged by some, because if i am i'll not deem it fit to come to naira land and seek honest counsel from honourable members,so please people advice me rather than crucifying an innocent man who is emotionally troubled.

Emotionally troubled? lol. The only people who would be emotionally troubled are the two women you are tryna play.

If you are ready to settle down, then i'll think you should stick to a gurl.
two gurls will distract you. . .so wise up man and pick just one

marry the two ladies now!

My friend
abeg leave d two women for now
otherwise
death is lurking by the corner
I don tell u my half word Oh!

@topic,

it is not and can neva be possible to love 2 women equally at the same time.

one or both has gotta be love, lust or infatuation

I REALLY DO NOT UNDERSTAND THIS, BROKE UP WITH MY EX COUPLE OF MONTHS AGO THOUGH WE ARE STILL IN TOUCH AS FRIENDS. HE CAME UP WIT THIS TING WHICH I DIDN'T AND STILL DON'T UNDERSTAND TELLING ME THAT HE IS STILL IN LOVE WITH ME THOUGH HE NOW HAS A GIRLFRIEND BUT HE LOVES ME MORE. I TOLD HIM TO MAKE A CHOICE, IF HE LOVES ME THEN HE SHOULD LEAVE THE CURRENT GIRLFRIEND BUT APPARENTLY HE IS FINDING IT DIFFICULT TO DO IT THAT WAS WHEN I REALIZED THAT YOU CAN'T REALLY LOVE TWO PEOPLE EQUALLY, IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU SHOULD BE WITH THAT PERSON AND NOT DECEIVE YOURSELF SAYING YOU LOVE TWO PEOPLE.


@ POSTER
I'D ADVICE YOU BE WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE MORE AND FORGET ABOUT ANY OTHER THING,I DON'T THINK YOU IT IS POSSIBLE TO BE IN LOVE WITH TWO PEOPLE. JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART.

squirrel20:

I REALLY DO NOT UNDERSTAND THIS, BROKE UP WITH MY EX COUPLE OF MONTHS AGO THOUGH WE ARE STILL IN TOUCH AS FRIENDS. HE CAME UP WIT THIS TING WHICH I DIDN'T AND STILL DON'T UNDERSTAND TELLING ME THAT HE IS STILL IN LOVE WITH ME THOUGH HE NOW HAS A GIRLFRIEND BUT HE LOVES ME MORE. I TOLD HIM TO MAKE A CHOICE, IF HE LOVES ME THEN HE SHOULD LEAVE THE CURRENT GIRLFRIEND BUT APPARENTLY HE IS FINDING IT DIFFICULT TO DO

Interesting, i think the guy is just preparing a table for himslf in the presence of his *******
He figured out you girls have different qualities and he is selfish to want it all. One has got the money/connections and the other the skills.
I think u need a new guy.

Since u have agreed to marry the first girl that u know well.
Then the other girl is just a distraction, u just think u love her cause u see her at work all the time.

You're in Love with 2 women, you don't know which one to take!!!

Sounds familiar: Ehen I remember, Tony Tetuila has been in the same position, _{ask him} LMAO

masam:

Tanx all for your responses and criticisms, but i wonder if any of u has ever heard of 'love triangle'?
I am not a player or irresponsible as alleged by some, because if i am i'll not deem it fit to come to naira land and seek honest counsel from honourable members,so please people advice me rather than crucifying an innocent man who is emotionally troubled.

@masam

It does not matter whether if you are in LOVE TRIANGLE or not, why not go ahead marry two ladies you are in love with as yourself polygamous guy that is allowed in Nigeria? Go for it while you have double pleasure to have two wives under one roof after marriage, no problem!!!

That is what you want!!! You do not need our Nairaland advise! Go ahead!

Good Reply! Seems everybody forgot about polygamy afterall.

Usiola:

Interesting, i think the guy is just preparing a table for himslf in the presence of his *******
He figured out you girls have different qualities and he is selfish to want it all. One has got the money/connections and the other the skills.
I think u need a new guy.

THINK SO TOO

masam:

Tanx all for your responses and criticisms, but i wonder if any of u has ever heard of 'love triangle'?
I am not a player or irresponsible as alleged by some, because if i am i'll not deem it fit to come to naira land and seek honest counsel from honourable members,so please people advice me rather than crucifying an innocent man who is emotionally troubled.

‘Love triangle’!! Is that wat they call it these days. Please try sticking with the ‘cheating’ we are all familiar with, so we don’t mix thing up here.

Imagine!! You want Nairalanders to praise you for your infidelity and absolute lack of reasoning? Abeg na im make I like Nairalanders joo, they tell it to you the way it is man!!!

You want ‘advice’, go hang yourself!! You certainly don’t need us to ‘crucify’ you.

Emotionally unstable kin, motionally unstable ni!!!