I do not dispute that there is will of God in marriage but it seems to me sometimes like a mirage. When you conversant with the will of God things in the churches where it is strictly practised then you will agree it's more of a ruse and what irks me most is the fact that some women in the church even at very late ages still keep waiting for a will of God which they may not find.

3 categories of the will of God. Which one you talking about Good, acceptable and perfect will of God. What is good for one might not be perfect another but every will of God is okay.

I'm sure the OP meant the perfect will.

Good and acceptable will are based on our choice(based more on our knowledge of what is right and wrong), the perfect will is God's choice.

@OP, very true, I have seen many of such marriages, though not itch free, they have their own challenges too(I doubt if their is any marriage without it own challenge), just that God will provide a means of escape.

Basically, IMHO, sice God is all knowing, I believe He simulates ahead of us and provides each of us with the best and possible partner which will us the highest effectiveness and efficiency in life, My Opinion though.

flourishG: 3 categories of the will of God. Which one you talking about Good, acceptable and perfect will of God. What is good for one might not be perfect another but every will of God is okay.

There is nothing like 3 categories of the will of God. Teaching that there is a good will, an acceptable and perfect wills of God is total falsehood.

Roman 12:2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

If there are 3 categories, there will be an 's' at the end of 'will' in the scripture.