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Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by bongila(f): 2:21pm On Dec 22, 2012
thehunted:

poor boy. he must have waited while u were being hammered by someone else. some guys were born dull.


The difference between you and him is that he is a man and you still a boy. Ever heard of the word *SELF DISCIPLINE*? That's something your woman obviously lacks.

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Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Moschino26(m): 2:25pm On Dec 22, 2012
thehunted: rubbish. what most babes do is that they will continue to milk you while you wait and watch some other guys sleep with them. I dont have that time to waste. I always want to sleep with her and get the whole relationship thing done with. tongue

I think its best to be friends first before relationship. But these lagos girls will continue to milk persin before dem go agree.

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Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Sunnibenty: 2:28pm On Dec 22, 2012
i prefer frndshp b4 relatnshp kux u get 2 knw each oda beta'z easy 2 turn a friend in2 a luva dan a luva in2 a frnd
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Nobody: 2:32pm On Dec 22, 2012
1.start as friend
2.then becomes friends with benefit
3.then comes the open relationship.You go and Bleep someone else while i do my own shit
4.then comes the jealousy if at all feelings starts creeping in.
5.Then the small small quarrels as a result of pretence of not having feelings for each other
6.then the "break up" or is it?
7.After some weeks or months of pride,then apology probably from the man.
FINAL ANALYSIS
lady:Look,what happened between us shudnt ve,you shudnt shout on me that way just because i went to ur pone,i mean we are friends....caught u severally doing same to mine...
guy:Am sorry...Am gonna be the man here cos am a man.I called you this night to apologise bout what happened between us...but i want to ask u one question,Did u have sex with my brother's friend that night?Noticed u left with him...
Lady:I didnt,we had a couple of drinks afterwards ,of course he did made passes at me...but i couldn't....(cuts her short)
guy:Do u have feelings for me?I missed you!dis few weeks has been devoid of happiness and.....
Lady:yea...me too...i..
guy:I love you so much...
Lady;me too....
guy:how long will it take you to open...right at ur door now...
ladysadjumps outta bed)
End of forming...begining of a nice relationship....
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Nobody: 2:35pm On Dec 22, 2012
*Kails*:


nice. smiley
if by "exploring her" you mean psychologically then you are on the right track!! smiley
Very sorry but I was referring to shagging her dirty.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Emperoh(m): 2:36pm On Dec 22, 2012
I really don't know what else to build relationships on. . . .every other thing dies off
Only true friendship, committed friendship can keep you going.

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Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by duni04(m): 2:49pm On Dec 22, 2012
@ topic: absolutely! Luv @ first sight nd al d oda wotnots are just trash coined by h-orny guys for quick knacking.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by sundaybam(m): 2:56pm On Dec 22, 2012
Yeah. Just to study her first and know whether she keep a lot of guyz b4 jumping into relationship with her.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 3:00pm On Dec 22, 2012
sundaybam: Yeah. Just to study her first and know whether she keep a lot of guyz b4 jumping into relationship with her.

My study process takes place before approaching her. That way, she won't have anything to hide just to please or convince me otherwise.. I seldom approach a gurl I do not know into-to.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by duni04(m): 3:03pm On Dec 22, 2012
dmcdad:

Gbam!!! things happen dynamically in real world scenarios...
Exactl! that's y I hate cliches. They don't capture everyone, most times they just represent someone's personal experience. So many different people out there. Depends on d type of person ur dealing with. U can't go and dull urself doing friendship first B4 relationship with a loose girl while she's doing oda guys. And den if she's responsible, it'll make sense 2 b friends first b4 anything. In d same s.tupid way most girls think d way 2 a guys hrt is tru his stomach, some guys think d way 2 a girls hrt is between her legs, hit her there and d hrt is urs.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by kaboninc(m): 3:05pm On Dec 22, 2012
ceewai lebi: I-dont-get-u.Lez-say-u-see-a-girl-u-wanna-marry-now,U-just-marry-her-without-trying-2-b-her-friend-first? shocked;Are-u-serious?
Am quoting you not because of what you said but how you said it!
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Parisfran(f): 3:11pm On Dec 22, 2012
lynpetra: 1.start as friend
2.then becomes friends with benefit
3.then comes the open relationship.You go and Bleep someone else while i do my own shit
4.then comes the jealousy if at all feelings starts creeping in.
5.Then the small small quarrels as a result of pretence of not having feelings for each other
6.then the "break up" or is it?
7.After some weeks or months of pride,then apology probably from the man.
FINAL ANALYSIS
lady:Look,what happened between us shudnt ve,you shudnt shout on me that way just because i went to ur pone,i mean we are friends....caught u severally doing same to mine...
guy:Am sorry...Am gonna be the man here cos am a man.I called you this night to apologise bout what happened between us...but i want to ask u one question,Did u have sex with my brother's friend that night?Noticed u left with him...
Lady:I didnt,we had a couple of drinks afterwards ,of course he did made passes at me...but i couldn't....(cuts her short)
guy:Do u have feelings for me?I missed you!dis few weeks has been devoid of happiness and.....
Lady:yea...me too...i..
guy:I love you so much...
Lady;me too....
guy:how long will it take you to open...right at ur door now...
ladysadjumps outta bed)
End of forming...begining of a nice relationship....



Hahahahahha... I wish it was that easy.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 3:12pm On Dec 22, 2012
duni04:
Exactl! that's y I hate cliches. They don't capture everyone, most times they just represent someone's personal experience. So many different people out there. Depends on d type of person ur dealing with. U can't go and dull urself doing friendship first B4 relationship with a loose girl while she's doing oda guys. And den if she's responsible, it'll make sense 2 b friends first b4 anything. In d same s.tupid way most girls think d way 2 a guys hrt is tru his stomach, some guys think d way 2 a girls hrt is between her legs, hit her there and d hrt is urs.

You are right bruv.... What works with some, might not work with others. The thing with me is, I have a pre-defined way of going about what I do, and that's the principle that guides me in whoever I meet. I don't cut-out for that daddy-bullshit of being friends first before going into relationship. If you don't want to have a relationship with me, then you tell me point-blank rather than make me hang around as if I don't have a destination. Infact! My style is, if I do the talking and you choose to keep yourself at bay, I would just stop further communication with you, whenever you are ready, you can bell me.

I ain't got time to tolerate trash from anyone.

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Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by felixiano(m): 3:15pm On Dec 22, 2012
Yes,,,,,,,i really do believe in frndship b4 relationship as d case implies.Y if u may askIt is becos it serves as a KEY to knw who u reali are.Sum relationships dis days is nothing to write home abt becos dey did'nt allow d room 4 frndship,dey jst rushed into being dated without any consideration of wat wil cum out of it.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by daryoor(m): 3:17pm On Dec 22, 2012
strike when the iron is hot. Theres this euphoria when a chick is just meeting i guy and likes him and that feeling will eventually pass and she will later become more rational and pragmatic which will likely be to your disadvantage. So, u need to close d deal early if u do friend parol go dull. -this is case specific sha, cause certainty no dey behavioural science
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by moneyhungry(m): 3:34pm On Dec 22, 2012
thehunted:

poor boy. he must have waited while u were being hammered by someone else. some guys were born dull.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dunmorris(m): 3:36pm On Dec 22, 2012
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Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Ebyden: 3:37pm On Dec 22, 2012
lalaosky: IMHO, friendship before relationship is the best form of dating.it will afford you the time to get to know this person wella.get to know his flaws so that you can weigh the pros and cons and know if you can go ahead or not and if you guys are compatible with one another

many peeps that rush into relationships without knowing the individual later end up regretting when his/her flaws shows up.i prefer being friends with any gurl i wanna date before telling her how i feel about her.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by moneyhungry(m): 3:39pm On Dec 22, 2012
bongila:


The difference between you and him is that he is a man and you still a boy. Ever heard of the word *SELF DISCIPLINE*? That's something your woman obviously lacks.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by moneyhungry(m): 3:45pm On Dec 22, 2012
lynpetra: 1.start as friend
2.then becomes friends with benefit
3.then comes the open relationship.You go and Bleep someone else while i do my own shit
4.then comes the jealousy if at all feelings starts creeping in.
5.Then the small small quarrels as a result of pretence of not having feelings for each other
6.then the "break up" or is it?
7.After some weeks or months of pride,then apology probably from the man.
FINAL ANALYSIS
lady:Look,what happened between us shudnt ve,you shudnt shout on me that way just because i went to ur pone,i mean we are friends....caught u severally doing same to mine...
guy:Am sorry...Am gonna be the man here cos am a man.I called you this night to apologise bout what happened between us...but i want to ask u one question,Did u have sex with my brother's friend that night?Noticed u left with him...
Lady:I didnt,we had a couple of drinks afterwards ,of course he did made passes at me...but i couldn't....(cuts her short)
guy:Do u have feelings for me?I missed you!dis few weeks has been devoid of happiness and.....
Lady:yea...me too...i..
guy:I love you so much...
Lady;me too....
guy:how long will it take you to open...right at ur door now...
ladysadjumps outta bed)
End of forming...begining of a nice relationship....



omo see comment nah... u get time sha...
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Ebyden: 3:50pm On Dec 22, 2012
lalaosky: IMHO, friendship before relationship is the best form of dating.it will afford you the time to get to know this person wella.get to know his flaws so that you can weigh the pros and cons and know if you can go ahead or not and if you guys are compatible with one another

many peeps that rush into relationships without knowing the individual later end up regretting when his/her flaws shows up.i prefer being friends with any gurl i wanna date before telling her how i feel about her.
i think i believe u
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by tintingz(m): 5:04pm On Dec 22, 2012
nairalady: i do smiley
i do too smiley
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Nobody: 5:15pm On Dec 22, 2012
Emperoh: I really don't know what else to build relationships on. . . .every other thing dies off
Only true friendship, committed friendship can keep you going.

QFT
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Bamz(m): 5:50pm On Dec 22, 2012
A-ZeD:
Friendship first.
Being friends before dating saves you a lot a problems.

Saves some money too... smiley
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Ejay(f): 5:51pm On Dec 22, 2012
For me i don't believe in keeping a guy that woos me as a friend.A typical african believes he has not proved his manliness to a gal he woos until he gets in between her thighs,so why tell him lets be friends first.I would keep him at arm's length,a simple hi,no room for long gist.My 1st relationship was based on friendship 1st,then after 2yrs we entered into romantic relationship after we certified ourselves compatible,after a couple of eight months,it crashed,all measures to save my relationship proved abortive,so we called it quits.So my present relationship which happens to be my 2nd was really funny the way we started,we weren't friends,we just happened to know each other's face cos we were in the same faculty.The day he wooed,was the day we hit the road,i didn't feel i should first be friends wit him,i liked his personality so why wait when i know wat i want.I'm very happy wit my relationship and marriage is already in the picture.My own opinion,everyone to his or her own view.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Bamz(m): 5:57pm On Dec 22, 2012
oraclefemi:

terms and conditions because of a relationship, abegi

LOL... I tire o...what will be will surely be.
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by Haryanphe(f): 6:26pm On Dec 22, 2012
2 me,friendship is a gud starting point. If u dnt date ur friend.who do u wnt 2 date? Ur enemy?
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by lawaol2003(m): 7:03pm On Dec 22, 2012
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Ehehehehehhe.....are you not a nigerian? it happens all d tym evry whr and evry tym....sex then relationship then if d worse come to be you escort urselves into frinedship....
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Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by semit: 8:31pm On Dec 22, 2012
for shizzle
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by secreyor: 8:36pm On Dec 22, 2012
Well i don't think there is still hope in my own case....we've been friends for over 4 years.IT SUCKS!!....I love her so much #sobs#
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by mamagee3(f): 9:03pm On Dec 22, 2012
I don't believe in that but I welcome anyone that does. . .

Some people just prefer it
Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by nyema91: 9:41pm On Dec 22, 2012
my opinion,is being in friendship with a person befor going into a relationship,dat wil help u to access d person,if u ar compartable or nt,is better to sit on d fence,dan to hav a heart brake in d nearest future.

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