This has being a topic for discuss that brings forth bitter tales frm some guys '( .
I want experienced nairalanders to put forth their contributions into this matter,#mizmycoli, #lalasticlala& a host of others...

Wel,this Lady approached me,(we've knwn each oda fr smtym,being classmates too),expressn feelings of 'love',saying/singing the normal "I've being wt so many guys, but u are just special...bla bla bla" (the bae fyn shaa,she's worth a die for )

we got along,no scuffles,no bad story.... On one occasion she requested i do her a favour( moni na..watelse),ah den explained dat she should exercise patience,d money would get to her,(na here our beef start)...
Recently, while chattn wt her,she bluntly told me she was hallucinating wen she saw dose qualities she told me i had..that i was simply an illusion!!!
I'm not a fool and neither m i dumb headed not to notice her sudden change frm dat day,

She hardly calls,(tosyne2much,are u seeing somethn here)
Now the question is... why do some ladies posses this erroneous belief that d guys shuld always b on d giving side while they remain permanently on the recievn end tho.d guy is expected to take care of the bills tho,is it a crime for a Lady to get her boo a gift?

I am seriously thinkn of calling it quits wt ds gal...
In need of helpful advice plss..No space booking oo

MIZMYCOLI......TOSYNE....LALASTIC.... PLS REAL LOVE DOCTORS... really want to hear ur opinions

Lol it seems its not only u.... I openly reminded my female bestie dat she has a boyfrnd so if she wants money, she should askk him..hw can sum1 be bleepin u free of charge nd u hv d effontery to ask d guy u frndzoned for money.... Isnt that withcraft?

Do i need to remind you that, "It's not all ladies".

Well not all ladies are parasitic. It takes a matured lady to know that responsibilities in a relationship is supposed to be shared and not heaped on the guy alone.
Ladies with this parasitic mentality should GROW UP.

Well not all ladies are parasitic. It takes a matured lady to know that responsibilities in a relationship is supposed to be shared and not heaped on the guy alone.
Ladies with this parasitic mentality should GROW UP..

Excuse me! Don't judge every girl by your personal experience

mizkeleke:
Well not all ladies are parasitic. It takes a matured lady to know that responsibilities in a relationship is supposed to be shared and not heaped on the guy alone.
Ladies with this parasitic mentality should GROW UP..

he was talkn abt frndship nd not a relationship...

Cutehector4u:
Lol it seems its not only u.... I openly reminded my female bestie dat she has a boyfrnd so if she wants money, she should askk him..hw can sum1 be bleepin u free of charge nd u hv d effontery to ask d guy u frndzoned for money.... Isnt that withcraft?

since you called her bestie, that means she is pretty close to you and you have a common ground, so it's not really bad if she asks you for money. Tho I don't encourage ladies to ask guys for money sha

Cutehector4u:
he was talkn abt frndship nd not a relationship...

Its still d same

haryormeedeh:
since you called her bestie, that means she is pretty close to you and you have a common ground, so it's not really bad if she asks you for money. Tho I don't encourage ladies to ask guys for money sha

haryormeedeh its not good.... Lol ok thr was one tym she sent me a broadcast message on whatsapp..u knw all dese texts dat say if u like me or u want to do smth with me den pick a number..dah kyn tin...so i picked a number which read to have fun with her which is just a normal thing two friends do....den i asked her whch number she would choose, na im she pick two numbers whch read money and iphone 6... I now replied her cmon deat, last tym i checked, ur boyfrnd was still alive and rich..... So it should b his responsibility nd not mine.... I now told her she should pick anoda number.. She picked number 1 which was a baby.....hian i just tire for d girl

Cutehector4u:
haryormeedeh its not good.... Lol ok thr was one tym she sent me a broadcast message on whatsapp..u knw all dese texts dat say if u like me or u want to do smth with me den pick a number..dah kyn tin...so i picked a number which read to have fun with her which is just a normal thing two friends do....den i asked her whch number she would choose, na im she pick two numbers whch read money and iphone 6... I now replied her cmon deat, last tym i checked, ur boyfrnd was still alive and rich..... So it should b his responsibility nd not mine.... I now told her she should pick anoda number.. She picked number 1 which was a baby.....hian i just tire for d girl

lol, maybe she is trying to hint that she likes you.

Well mention sex now and she goes on the defensive... Wish there was an alternative to cure konji, i would have shown them...

Cutehector4u:
he was talkn abt frndship nd not a relationship...

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its on a.friendshp level now tho...buh with this attitude frm her... don't thnk the already-crumbling union can move forward..'(

tosyne2much:
OP, I sight u ooooo

Make I book this space down first b4 I modify am

Are u one of dem?

Pearls92:
Excuse me! Don't judge every girl by your personal experience

really.......buh try looking for a chip in a place covered wt sand....how easy





THE ONES U TALKN ABOUT ARE DAMN RARE TO GET!!!

Cutehector4u:
haryormeedeh its not good.... Lol ok thr was one tym she sent me a broadcast message on whatsapp..u knw all dese texts dat say if u like me or u want to do smth with me den pick a number..dah kyn tin...so i picked a number which read to have fun with her which is just a normal thing two friends do....den i asked her whch number she would choose, na im she pick two numbers whch read money and iphone 6... I now replied her cmon deat, last tym i checked, ur boyfrnd was still alive and rich..... So it should b his responsibility nd not mine.... I now told her she should pick anoda number.. She picked number 1 which was a baby.....hian i just tire for d girl

On 1n note dey gal dey show intrest 4 u abi na watin u won make we knw b dat abi |nl shaaaa

Op, its their nature and nurture, especially wia I com from

BTW, all of u ladies dat claim "its not all ladies", well, I'll pardon ur ignorance cos u dnt wear d shoe so u r nt expected 2 knw wia it hurts...buh FYI, 4rm a guys vantage point, all girls r parasitic, d difference is in d degree/severity/percentage

haryormeedeh:
lol, maybe she is trying to hint that she likes you.

lol...she doesnt....she only likes d way wr r..just frnds.. Cuz way bak i asked her out and she said no dat we should be frnds... So if she is tryn to play silly...den she should get bak to her senses

Geenickel:
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its on a.friendshp level now tho...buh with this attitude frm her... don't thnk the already-crumbling union can move forward..'(

girls sha...dey need to grow up and stick to wat they really want

Because they are a leech, they are hopeless and they are worthless. Most of these girls have nothing to offer. Nothing in their brains at all.
She is still just waiting for you to give her the cash. Once you do she will bounce.

However, you know not all girls are like this (Very few though).

incase of incasity

Cutehector4u:
girls sha...dey need to grow up and stick to wat they really want

nna wia hv u been since
I missed u shaa

Cutehector4u:
Lol it seems its not only u.... I openly reminded my female bestie dat she has a boyfrnd so if she wants money, she should askk him..hw can sum1 be bleepin u free of charge nd u hv d effontery to ask d guy u frndzoned for money.... Isnt that withcraft?

Bros, na real Witchcraft ooo

VickyyB:
Do i need to remind you that, "It's not all ladies".

95% ov ladies r guilty ov dz !

VickyyB:
Do i need to remind you that, "It's not all ladies".

Bt an xtremely LARGE population of em r....makin d few 1's who aren't non-existant

haryormeedeh:
lol, maybe she is trying to hint that she likes you.

Ayomide you registered your account since last year and commented only 25 times. Why now ? Are you a silent user ?

Kenneth205:


95% ov ladies r guilty ov dz !

Nigeria has over 170millions of people.
Let's assume that 70million is female...
How many have you met and dated?

tosyne2much:
Ayomide you registered your account since last year and commented only 25 times. Why now ? Are you a silent user ?

lol, I prefer reading comments to saying anything so as to avoid wahala from others. But hopefully this year, I plan commenting more

This is a discombulating occurence among the vaginalated beings. Shambolic gredigams like this have been incidenting since the era of pharaoh.

Smh