Does true love really exist I'm throwing this question at Guys in the house based on personal experiences with naija n uk gurls....back then., I believed love was a fairytale where u fantasized about that finest girl in your school, department, faculty, dreaming about your wedding in the moon n lovely 4 kids-2 boys n 2 girs not knowing there was a yahoo boy, banker etc turning that dream into a nightmare. Smashing the babe in such a way that you can only imagine (see in po.rn) whereas u get the occasional hug n kisses...guys una understand wetin i mean.

Then, you make sure your shirt is spotless and Ironed front and back, starving your self to buy her lunch, etc.Back then, an average year one, diploma "big gurl" believes her mates are too small especially if ur legs are your tyres, oboy! your chances are close to zero. Even though you loved these girl the "bruno mars" way, never minding the number of months you saved to buy her that perfume set etc for valentine, she just sees you as anoda guy "maga".

Gradually, as levels changes (you know wetin I mean), getting love from different honies including does ones that looked down on guyman when things were bad. Now you can afford the paroles, av tbe job n swag, the panties come down efortlessly -no offense meant to the female activists/feminists in the house.

Also, They babes start showing so much care and concern for your life more than your mother and tell you that is true love. But! After so much experiences, I believe LOVE is very conditional, with the conditions based on how pretty the babe is, her social class n status, father's wealth etc and Im waiting for anybody to prove me wrong. The question again, does true love exist in a relationship?

love in itself is overrated.

k2039: love in itself is overrated.

Thanks brof..." im falling for you", " you are my first love" etc....all na wash!

Though our socioeconomic condition has make it difficult to find genuine love without condition, but true love still exist. The love that can never be explained, not money, beauty, conection or anything else, you can't realy point at any reason why you are in love with him/her. I must say that this kind of feeling may not last long if there is nothing special to sustain it such good characters, ability to meet the minimum finacial needs of ones spouse, maturity and so on. Let me add this this kind of love is not common but if you are lucky you may encanter one.

seunfly: Though our socioeconomic condition has make it difficult to find genuine love without condition, but true love still exist. The love that can never be explained, not money, beauty, conection or anything else, you can't realy point at any reason why you are in love with him/her. I must say that this kind of feeling may not last long if there is nothing special to sustain it such good characters, ability to meet the minimum finacial needs of ones spouse, maturity and so on. Let me add this this kind of love is not common but if you are lucky you may encanter one.

Boss..., the embolden is very ambiguous. You love someone for no REASON Atall?? Beauty, intelligence, social clout, business acumen etc? Boss, abeg, that only happens in fairytales it's not that" it's not common", it dosent exist Atall.

Love is ideal/imaginary. It doesnt exist. Even if it does, it is conditional. Be wise.

A lot of the love that exists out there are based on conditions only a few are unconditional. Unconditional love does exist - I have experienced it- in fact when I love I love unconditionally. Let me add this the love that I express is not only to my "guy friend" but also to my girls and of course family. I have friends but I love a few- I chose to love them and it doesn't matter what they do the love would remain. Love is a gift that God desires us to have but only a few would love selflessly.

there is no unconditional love. if you are attracted to someone, you must have a reason, so where is the unconditional?

truth_bastille: there is no unconditional love. if you are attracted to someone, you must have a reason, so where is the unconditional?

True talk, leave all this dreamers who think life is a fairy-tale.