Infinitegrace: In my case; my husband beats me up with serious injuries and afterwards still feels justified for doing so. He recently beat me up with two months pregnancy. For the sake of our two kinds and the one in the womb, I have opted for separation. I believe an abusive marriage is not worth fighting for cause life is at risk.

Infinitegrace: In my case; my husband beats me up with serious injuries and afterwards still feels justified for doing so. He recently beat me up with two months pregnancy. For the sake of our two kinds and the one in the womb, I have opted for separation. I believe an abusive marriage is not worth fighting for cause life is at risk.

k2039: [color=soyouquotedme]Divorce is not the only option, but death is also another [/color]

makinde3:

The solution is not to divorce but prayers to almight God

2nedo: There's no need 4 weaknes in marriage b4 death comes or are u advicing m..... as an option?

bknight: Separation is an option. It proves effective in certain cases where both need some growing up to do

k2039:

[color=soyouquotedme]suicide or murder will do [/color]

kokosmiles: It is the only option when the man will pray u dead or feels u want to kill him.Before I got separated, if I give my my husband food he will have my children have a taste of it before he eats.But when it comes to other things like my money n other stuffs he won't be scared that I will kill him but will rather beat me black n blue.

kaboninc:

I'll go with you on this one. With separation, both couples can really have a re-think and hopefully they could get back. I really do not want to experience a failed marriage. But if it happens...I believe there must be a way out but....it won't happen. That's my conviction

Emusan: Marriage is the process by which two people who love each other make their relationship public, official, and permanent.

In comparison; a marriage that about to collapse and that of an abandoned building that is so fragile to collapse, to me there's no difference. And to a Builder/Building Technicians, a building that its collapse is imminent can be restore back to is original position which can still withstand winds, heavy rain, and spend the normal life-span. by replacing some old parts with a new part.

Do you think couples can still do something in other to prevent divorce, if a marriage seems fragile and the collapse seems imminent?

cold:
Are you serious?Even to the detriment of the occupants?Or you haven't seen where occupants of a building have been instructed to leave their homes because it has been it has been damaged beyond repairs and has to be demolished.I see you're trying really hard to make an argument of saving a marriage but sometimes a union may have been damaged beyond repair,the only solution would be to pull the plug and go your separate ways before things degenerate any further