This is when a girl rushes into a relationship or marriage without knowing her guy well or noticing all the 'red flags' before plunging into the relationship. not a few girls have made mistakes when it comes to the issue of marriage or relationship. some are left with scars, regrets, while others are six feet below, too late to make amends. like the cases involving those two ladies who were sent to their early graves by their respective partners. while one was beaten and stabed to death by her husband, the other was bathed with acid by her estranged boyfriend and later died as a result of it. there are even many unreported cases of violent acts against women and girls in relationship or marriage. many of these girls are usually to blame for it. cos a violent man has always been one. all he does while courting you is to hide/conceal his real character and then start revealing them once he has gotten the girl. and instead of breaking up from such a person once he starts showing his true colours, most girls tend to remain in such a relationship or marriage until it becomes too 'late'. why remain in a relationship when your neck is under a knife. or your back is always against the wall. every now and then you are always carrying scars on your face, and having pains all over your body. simply cos you've allowed yourself to be turned into a punching bag by a beast who calls himself your boyfriend or husband. my dear, you better think twice before you lick ice. that's if he doesn't end your life by 'mistake' (like most of them always claim), you are bound to be carrying injuries or swollen lips every time. marriage and relationship no be by force. no wonder some ladies prefer to remain single in order to have their peace of mind rather than become a piece of meat....check out the guy you are about to date or get married to, before walking down the altar or going into a relationship with him. if you notice any funny or abnormal traits in him, my dear, quickly do a Michael Jackson and moon walk your way out of that relationship/marriage, fast fast, before it's too late! Dont cos of desperation or cos what he's giving (going to give) you blind your sense of reasoning. Your life and happiness is more precious than silver and gold...Hope someone is listening!

PS: And may the souls of those two ladies continue to rest in peace. Amen.