jmoore:
if their doctrine says a man should slap his wife if she annoys him then it is good to follow the doctrine? smh

bukatyne: Compare your first and subsequent posts.

PEN_MIGHT: . Doctrin or No Doctrin,obedience to any authority whether it's d husband,religious leaders or any individual should be based on Righteousness. Infact,it is righteous to obey one's husband as long as it is not SINFUL.U can't be naked or unclad even if u are alone in d house or wt ur hubby.Islam forbade dt cos even though u may not be shy of urself or ur hubby but ur creator is more worthy of being shy off. During love-making with ur legally married wife u are requested to find a cover over both of ur bosoms. When adam and eve went sinning,their exposed their unclothedness and they both went in search of leaves to screen themselves. In summary,wife can lessen her aura(privacy) in her house diff from outside but not to find it a habit to unclad unnecesarily?

1920MaMa: [size=14pt] sorry, the emphasis is on DEEPER-LIFE COUPLE, not me, as i'm not a member. i know how to look real good, if that's all dat is required of me from a man, then i wud say he has no problem at all! [/size]

1920MaMa: [size=14pt]my response was based on the scenario. changing a staunch member of deeper-life's mode of dressing. is just like a man asking me to change my mode of dressing to that of MARY AMAKA. e no go work na.[/size]

jmoore: those who think it is against Gods will for a wife to be n@ked infront of her husband alone deserve to be hit 77 * 7 times with the bible

sonikstargirl: abeg i dnt ve tym 4 deeper life n thier mary amaka funny lookin dressin... Jst passin

tpia@:


look at this one now, wont he turn the wife or girlfriend to a punching bag as soon as she gets into his clutches.


but before then, he can pretend to be a deeply religious person, hopefully its his type he'll meet up with.

It will all start from somewhere, like he starts haranguing the wife over doctrines he pretended to accept while dating.

dabrake: To think she'd been wearing her 'mary amaka' dresses all these while, . . . Upon sey we don marry you still wan dey wear okonjo-iweala cloth for our house. Deeper life people eh, . . .

bukatyne: so because she is expecting visitors, she would wear skirt and blouse in the house 24 7?

Bludeville: My friend came to me, she is a deeper life lady and she is married to a deeper life man. Recently he called her and told her that he wanted her to become more Sexy for him, to perm her hair,wear earrings and wear more appealing clothes like knee length skirts and even bum shorts when they are alone at home. She's confused. So my deeper life sisters, is it okay to dress like this when your husband asks you to, or would you not do so and risk losing your husband. Because she said she's confused.

Mynd_44: I think y'all are being unfair here. The husband saw that she is conservative with her dressing before marrying her right? Whu decide to shift the goal post in the middle of the game?

This is part of her religious beliefs and I don't think she should be ready to displease her God to please a man's canal wants.

Note that I don't think wearing sexy things is bad oooo. I am just looking at it from her view which a lot of people should too.

He is her husband and so? She is still human.

And did someone say he might cheat if she does not? A man that will cheat will cheat no matter what the wife wears

Bludeville: My friend came to me, she is a deeper life lady and she is married to a deeper life man. Recently he called her and told her that he wanted her to become more Sexy for him, to perm her hair,wear earrings and wear more appealing clothes like knee length skirts and even bum shorts when they are alone at home. She's confused. So my deeper life sisters, is it okay to dress like this when your husband asks you to, or would you not do so and risk losing your husband. Because she said she's confused.

Dondav:
The f*ck u talking abt?... Thanks for ur advise though! Very helpful..

alutacontinua: Guys ...[b] A GOOD CHRISTIAN HUSBAND DOESN'T MAKE HIS WIFE CHOOSE BETWEEN HIM AND HER GOD!!!

IZUKWU: Am not a deeper life member but i understand her dilema , i think her best alternative is to talk to her/their pastor

1920MaMa: [size=14pt]if i were to be in his wife's shoes, i won't! that man is not a true deeper life member, cos we all know how they dress. asking his wife to dress provocatively at home will mean living in deceit cos she'll always be on her toes so no visitor sees her wearing such. moreover, why dress like a whoar at home and look holy holy outside? who are you deceiving?[/size]

mudistr: @OP
The man starts by first asking that his wife desses sexily which she did not bargain for, next he wil ask that they lick themselves down below, he will then graduate that they use backdoor to satisfy him, then finaly he will say he wants other couples to join them in the act.

She didnt bargain for this at all. If that is what she wanted, she for go Christ Embassy or Pastor Okotie church go find husband. Let him beg her properly and ask for her forgiveness for deceiving her that he was not into se.x. Afterall, if the woman suddenly tells the man that she wants him to be jerrycurling his pubic hair or dressing like a nazi brute when they want to make love, wont he panick?

mudistr: @OP
The man starts by first asking that his wife desses sexily which she did not bargain for, next he wil ask that they lick themselves down below, he will then graduate that they use backdoor to satisfy him, then finaly he will say he wants other couples to join them in the act.

She didnt bargain for this at all. If that is what she wanted, she for go Christ Embassy or Pastor Okotie church go find husband. Let him beg her properly and ask for her forgiveness for deceiving her that he was not into se.x. Afterall, if the woman suddenly tells the man that she wants him to be jerrycurling his pubic hair or dressing like a nazi brute when they want to make love, wont he panick?

switdick:

I've been reading through this thread and I couldn't help but call a halt to my reading as soon as I saw that !.....peeps tend to take things so seriously when not necessary and less serious when necessary,...please how is dressing to the taste of her husband a bad thing like provocative" as you say ?

By provocative,I want to believe you know the meaning,which in mine,everyone's and possibly the husband's opinion is solely to rouse feeling.....mostly in sexual interest !

Provocative is good for married couple regardless of any psychological norm that doesn't even hold water in any religion,let alone impede the crave for desiring it,if the husband want provocative,let him have it,that's what gets him.....not what you,or anyone that thinks he's a love doctor think it should be.
If am to speak in the eyes of the husband,he probably just wants her to loosen up a bit,where's the sin there knowing they're married ? There are no religious norms against such except you're making one up in the mind right now......peeps shld just chill !

obi2012: as if say door no get lock again abi people no dey knock before they enter house