Can you marry someone that is 10yrs older than you?
There was this guy that came to marry but he is 35yrs why am 23yrs. Please I need your help, should i go on and marry him or should i live him because he is too old than me.
Please help

Must Nairalanders tell you whom to marry?
Don't you know what you want?

if u cherish every other aspect of him,i personally dont think a 35 yrs old guy is too old for u
except if his behaviour,action and performance are appearing too old

Yes i can marry someone older than me with 10 years,the reason is that,1 she has alot of experience and 2 she is matured and knows what a relationship is all about.

meeeeeeeeeeeeen,i no fit ooo,

bt i advice u folow ur hrt,we shldnt decide ur future

I personally wouldn't mind marrying someone 10yrs older than me.
This question u are asking, we can't really answer it for you as only you know wHat you want.
Just follow your heart and am sure you'll make the right decision

Male/female i dont see anything bad for a female/male, hmmm seems crazy to me.

35 and 23 is nothing.When you see 65 year old carrying 20 year old for nigeria that na problem

I can marry him in as much he respects me

i thot that was perfect.

@ poster

So a man just showed up and he wants to marry you have you ever heard of dating and getting to know a person or na which village you dey so.
Pros of marrying older
1. the older person knows what they want
2. maturity in some case
3. possibly financially stable
4. dies when you are still young and you can still pop that booty
5. if he is rich think of the inheritance

Cons of marrying older
1. set in his ways
2. probably just wants you for kids
3. old smelly balls
4. he will wrinkle fast
5. if he is poor you will hear complaints for how ever long he has to live
6. his junior brother will try to marry you if he dies
etc

[size=16pt]NO[/size] as a man, maybe YES, if were a lady

I will marry him big time like ma boyfriend now is Ten Years older than me, yet he's the best man ever

go to your pastor 4 counselling

SURE!!! WHy not! I love men 10 yars older than me!

Yes.

yes,i can.age is just a number,that all

My personal opinion is if he is treating you the way he should and if u feel it's the right one,then why not?For me,age is only a number.If u were with someone of your own age and he was treating you as rubish,then what is the point of his age?Soul of the man matters,not age.My fiance is 10 years older than me and lot of people 'roll' their eyes when they hear how old i am and how old he is,but we suit each other for other reasons and for love,so age has nothing to do with it.

omega25red:

@ poster

So a man just showed up and he wants to marry you  have you ever heard of dating and getting to know a person or na which village you dey so.
Pros of marrying older
1. the older person knows what they want
2. maturity in some case
3. possibly financially stable
4. dies when you are still young and you can still pop that booty
5. if he is rich think of the inheritance

Cons of marrying older
1. set in his ways
2. probably just wants you for kids
3. old smelly balls
4. he will wrinkle fast
5. if he is poor you will hear complaints for how ever long he has to live
6. his junior brother will try to marry you if he dies
etc

You just label it all brother, hope you get all your advance from here, still can't stop laughing at line''old smelly balls and he will wrinkle fast''think of this two things, which am so sure that most women don't like men that wrinkle so fast.