Why do some couples later get tired of each other. This thing is always very common among couples in a relationship or marriage.. when a partner could suddenly lose interest in the other partner, and before you know it, they start drifting apart gradually.

And ladies usually do this alot, since they are known to fall out of love quicker than guys in most relationships. citing lost of interest, compatibility or lack of love as the reason for such an action. and this is also one of the main causes of divorce or seperation among most couples...getting tired of each other. I begin to wonder, how can a couple who were so much inlove, and inseparable a while ago, suddenly get tired of each other before the cock crows. And come and see how love atimes, could turn into resentment or hatred between a couple who were once madly inlove. That's why I'm asking the question, why do we get tired of each other in a relationship or marriage later. why do people fall out of love suddenly when everything seems to be in place. Nice job, fine house, enough cars, faithful wife or hubby, lovely kids, successful businesses, properties here and there etc. Then what could be cause? or could it be as a result of lack of romance/intimacy, doubts or distractions (like getting attention or interest from other persons)? which is possible, cos any of this could be the reason. especially if one of the couple is getting serious attention or interest from another person. he or she would definitely start having doubts about his/her realtionship or marriage.

And there are those who are in a loveless relationship, but may decide to stay in it, in order not to offend or hurt the other person, to the detriment of their own happiness. that's why most people end up cheating on their partners. once the interest or attraction is no longer there, they are bound to be unfaithful later. Just like when a man or woman is no longer attracted to his/her partner due to some factors, its bound to cause cracks in their marraige. and most times, such a development could be due to emotional, material or psychological reasons. Psychological reasons especially, since we live in a vain world. Cos, almost everybody wants to be with a fine man or beautiful woman. and once the beauty of the other person start fading, some might start losing interest in the person. this thing do happen alot. especially if the union is not based on genuine love and the foundation of that marriage is not solid. cos I cannot imagine a couple that is genuinely inlove, that has the fear of God, and are also genuine believers, go through such an experience. dont get me wrong, it can happen to anybody. for we are all humans. and almost every couple faces some challenges, but it is how they are able to resolve them amicably that differentiate some couples from others. some allow issues to get out of hand first before running from pillar to post for solutions, while others simply seek the face of God in situations like this. There is nothing in this world that would last forever definitely. but with God, you are bound to overcome the challenges of life...for God is love, and His own love is everlasting.

Couples get tired of each other because they got married in d 1st place for d wrong reaons! If u marry because u just want to be Mrs then u r in for a different ball game! Tolerance, perservance, faith, understanding, patience n trust r d key essentials to a successful marriage. Above all, a sound r'ship with God is required to also make it work. God bless