Hello my people, recently my Ex with whom i broke up with 4yrs ago is married and she stays with her husband in Port-Harcourt and now i just relocated to Port-Harcourt, she's now on my neck that she wants me to be the only guy she will be having sex with 'cos she's tired of her hubby that is not always around,and that she haven't seen any other man for four years now....................... she has been sending me pornographic pictures of hers through bbm. The actual fact is that i still like n respect her as a good friend but not to the extent of committing adultery. I have also told her to stop all these but she wouldn't. I need proper help.

guy u need help,abi? here is my 2 cents. flee flee flee. remember joseph in d bible.

This is why i don't support keeping even cordial relationships with ex(s) especially the married ones, it can be tempting. believe me, if you go anywhere near that lady, you don chop pesin wife be dat!!
keep as far away from her as possible and next time she calls, talk to her harshly, and tell her to come back to her senses. if she becomes a real burden as such then wittingly threaten to tell her husband, believe me she will stop harassing you.

On point, 991!
On their quest to feign civility, and preserve fake friendship, they almost always introduce more drama into their lives, than they actually imagined, if they do not act "civilised".

You dont need advice.
you'r an adult and you know whats right, so do it

free2ryhme: guy u need help,abi? here is my 2 cents. flee flee flee. remember joseph in d bible.

joseph was a virgin evn till the time the oga's wife wanna fucck, ds OP don stain already so make e no use himself compare joseph or expect dt kind joseph blessin.
I no get solution for d OP bt e vex me as u compare virginless guy to joseph instaed of judas.
If he no fucck am wella before, she go come bk?
Wen we dey advice u to do am small small na slam slam u dey do.
It's simple, d dead body wey u bury, the leg don shoot out b dt. Go re-bury ur thing.
This is ur cross, judas, carry am

She just wants to you use to satisfy her intimate needs.

You'll only be called when her hubby is away and she happens to be h.o.rny. You don't really want to be just a tool for s.ex do you?

Plus you wouldn't want your own wife to do that to you.

When you relocated to portharcourt, you quickly called her, na wa 4 you o. I put it to you are looking 4 something her

KINGwax: joseph was a virgin evn till the time the oga's wife wanna fucck, ds OP don stain already so make e no use himself compare joseph or expect dt kind joseph blessin.
I no get solution for d OP bt e vex me as u compare virginless guy to joseph instaed of judas.
If he no fucck am wella before, she go come bk?
Wen we dey advice u to do am small small na slam slam u dey do.
It's simple, d dead body wey u bury, the leg don shoot out b dt. Go re-bury ur thing.
This is ur cross, judas, carry am

Loooolllll

okosodo: When you relocated to portharcourt, you quickly called her, na wa 4 you o. I put it to you are looking 4 something her

So on point

@OP am sure you actually got what you crave & yet come here to feign innocence, else how do you explain the retention & non-blocking of her bbm contracts despite her repeated sexual harassment. Be wise & do the right thing, if she do cherish you then she probably would hv gotten married to you in the first place.

is this a joke or what? Abi u sell your brain? A married woman wants you back and you the ask for advice. oya go phuck her na since nut dey ur head

if u f4k person wife dem go f4k ur own ooo, soo fleeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

bedford101: if u f4k person wife dem go f4k ur own ooo, soo fleeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

dis na fallacy

okosodo: When you relocated to portharcourt, you quickly called her, na wa 4 you o. I put it to you are looking 4 something her

No mind the lil boy. Its only a matter of time before he gets laid. He should be askin his wife the same question his askin here.

No mind d guy, e d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ hungry am to go collect 1 shot. Oloshi!

Stop reading her messages. Tell her 2 stop creating evidences against herself.

@op, in case u need who go borrow u leg to take run,let me knw.

Same thing happened to me: WHAT DID I DO?

I made meself so unattractive to her the only dreams she'd have of me are nightmares...
I plan on apologising to her in 20 or 30 years if God Permits i.e when she has old children
and is wiser and more controlled... Untill that time.... lol!

Advice?, you asked for it. Good Luck