I was cooking earlier and realized I used less grease now than I did some years ago and I thought to myself “this is definitely something I learned from someone"

Once I figured out it was something that I learned from an ex, I thought about other positive takeaways from past relationships which I believe has made me a better person today

I know the word "ex" carries negative connotations for a lot of people and rightly so if we’re to go by some experiences

With that said, you must have learned something good from your past relationships (except your ex is Ileke Idi )

Some good things I learned from mine off the top of my head

1. I cook better and use less grease than I did in the past (healthier)

2 Being in a relationship doesn't necessarily mean it will lead to marriage. I think at the back of my mind nothing lasts "forever"

3. I now know how to deal with confrontational situations better

4. I don’t have to settle for less and I will not

5. Every time I win in an argument with my partner, my relationship loses

6. If it ain't worth it, I let it go before it gets serious

7. Don't get too serious too fast

8. I’ll rather hurt knowing the truth than living the lie

8. Appreciate what you have on a daily basis

9. Avoid saying too many whenever you're angry, even better, don't say anything because whatever you say will come back to haunt you.

10. You can't change people, if you can’t deal with it then let it go

11. Don't pull too hard, it will pull away from you

12. It takes two to tango. I now take the blame for my actions.

13. Don't judge the present based on the past (people and situation), you might be wrong

14. Only me can make myself happy

Over to you

Good boy.

1. How to suck it better

2. Different se. Xu. Al positions

3. To freely talk about se x.

Will brb

Ileke-IdI:
Good boy.

Not so fast, i can still edit it

Ileke-IdI:
1. How to suck it better

2. Different se. Xu. Al positions

3. To freely talk about se x.

Will brb

I should include that as well

2legit2qwt:
Not so fast, i can still edit it

Point is you didn't cuz you know who da boss is

Ileke-IdI:


Point is you didn't cuz you know who da boss is

Don't make me do it woman

2legit2qwt:

Don't make me do it woman

Oya tell me more. What have I taught you?

Lol you had to edit it abi?

Ileke-IdI:


Oya tell me more. What have I taught you?

You got what you asked for, read it all over again, yes i did

@ post

We forget the good things because it's easier to blame others

I taught you all of the above, so I am capable of being good.

Na lie?

In your dreams, please don't derail before i invoke a ban on you

1. Dnt show too much caring.

2. Know when to let go

3. Not to be too defensive.

4. Stubbornness does not take you far

Ileke-IdI:
1. Dnt show too much caring.

2. Know when to let go

3. Not to be too defensive.

4. Stubbornness does not take you far

You're still stubborn though

1. Able to detect when someone is trying to physically and mentally mold you into another being.

2. Sharpened my instinct. If my mind sees all the wrong signs, there's a reason why.

2legit2qwt:

You're still stubborn though

Not with "him"

Ileke-IdI:


Not with "him"

That means you haven't learned olodo

Never to support England when it comes to rugby

my ex taught me that no matter how hard you try to keep a clean slate here on NL, pyguru will still ban you

Ileke-IdI:
1. Able to detect when someone is trying to physically and mentally mold you into another being.

2. Sharpened my instinct. If my mind sees all the wrong signs, there's a reason why.

Bolded is tight.

She taught me to wash my mouth once I get out of bed every morning.




_{I love kissing so much but she won't give it to me unless I brush my mouth in the morning}

ability to stay alone without leaning on anyone

1. Dont Love Too Much

2. Dont Eat Only ofe egusi
3. Have a Spare Partner

To be hardworking and make a lot of money.

Yes, I learned it's better to save money and spend it on my wife and children when am married than to waste it on fruitless infatuated relationships.

Ileke-IdI:
1. How to suck it better

2. Different se. Xu. Al positions

3. To freely talk about se x.

Will brb

May your days be long. Amen

IT SHOWED ME THINGS THAT WERE MISSING IN MY LIFE AND THEN WORKING TO FILL IT UP BY UPGRADING MYSELF

ogugua88: [size=13pt]I don't know if my ex taught me anything. I know the situation taught me something, but whether or not that could be solely attributed to my ex, I don't think so.

I learned that even though I'm in love someone, I still come first. If I don't love myself, then no one else can.

I also learned to depend on a man at times. If he sees that I can do everything on my own, then he probably will see no reason to be with me. Being too independent made me feel like he was disposable, which he, nor any other man, is not, as they're all unique. Moral: giving and taking is healthy. [/size]

Ogugua, i have noticed something. Pardon me. You have borrowed some sk tactics. Could thiss be ur new year resolution? Lol

She taught me how to cook Jollof rice, and how to comport myself with a lady