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Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Boss13: 7:49am On Jan 26, 2013
mondi_cheeks: Well I'm sure if u make her understand wat u want in a woman right from the start u won't end up wit some girl trying to move into ur apartment by force lol... I don't believe ALL nigerian women are like that, I'm sure u will find the right one if u keep searching in the right places smiley

They are like that. the good ones are not of this generation. I have searched - from church, clubs, schools, offices, restaurant, bus stops, wedding, social gathering, even overseas training, and even in Dubai (abeg mek i no yarn this one). They just have the same mentality. A Nigerian woman will only change if and when she wants to. Probably, her parents are on her case to get married or she is fed up with the materialistic ambition (which possibly leads them to no where, because men will keep tossing them like basketball). Good girls are turning into monsters. First they blamed the men they dated in the past, now it is about what they can gain from the men they are dating. When a woman add little or nothing to my life, rather she is part of my expense line, I am going to change her like a piece of old cloth i am tired of wearing. Well I do pray to see a sensible one. I recently had a chat with a naija born chick but raised in Dublin and the difference is just so clear, she was on point with the mentality but off point with the body structure (she is a plus size sad)
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 8:25am On Jan 26, 2013
Boss13:
I recently had a chat with a naija born chick but raised in Dublin and the difference is just so clear, she was on point with the mentality but off point with the body structure (she is a plus size sad)
lmao don't worry dear u will find u draya michele who behaves like mother theresa one day, if not this lifetime maybe the try the next one grin
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Boss13: 1:16pm On Jan 26, 2013
mondi_cheeks: lmao don't worry dear u will find u draya michele who behaves like mother theresa one day, if not this lifetime maybe the try the next one grin

No mother Theresa. I just want good attitude and well no ugly
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 1:18pm On Jan 26, 2013
Boss13:

No mother Theresa. I just want good attitude and well no ugly
well keep us updated on how that will go for u smiley
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Boss13: 1:25pm On Jan 26, 2013
mondi_cheeks: well keep us updated on how that will go for u smiley

Sure when I find the perfect naija babe for me. I pray she won't pretend. I might have to go look for tools that exposes pretenders. In case champagne doesn't work. Naija gals can drink these days (Kai). The same lady on thursday wants to hang out again. She likes the champagne and the food. After the nonsense she told me. Well I would spoil her a little and watch her enjoy herself. Maybe she might teach me how to catch pretentious naija babe like herself and how to get good ones. I won't sleep with her. The nonsense she said is scaring the day light out of me. Her saving grace for a 2nd date is because she is beautiful. She is like a trophy, a show off. All eyes on you when you enter.
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jan 26, 2013
Boss13:
Her saving grace for a 2nd date is because she is beautiful. She is like a trophy, a show off. All eyes on you when you enter.
u seem to be enjoying it, I don't see why u are complaining about her ...u like showing off, she likes money...its a win win situation smiley neither of u is serious about the other
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jan 26, 2013
Go and find who break your heart to mend it for you and stop pouring your anger around.
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by HIV1: 2:07pm On Jan 26, 2013
One girl was asking me for school fees grin I was dumbfounded and overwhelmed.I asked her whether I am paying for her bride price. I wonder what right she had to make such demand. Abi na me be her papa. Beware of those girls they used to have many bfs saving there names as Mugu1, Mugun2, Mugu3, Mugu 4, Mugu5, Mugu6, Mugu7 , Mugu8, Mugu9, Mugu10 ;............ grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Boss13: 2:57pm On Jan 26, 2013
mondi_cheeks: u seem to be enjoying it, I don't see why u are complaining about her ...u like showing off, she likes money...its a win win situation smiley neither of u is serious about the other

Mondi you funny grin I just need to hang out and I don't want to go alone to the country club (Ikoyi club). Well she is not the boring type. Champagne in her blood stream makes her naughty and she is a luvly dancer , adorable to watch and makes the men around wish she was with them but she is with me (laughs). Hmm she is a typical naija materialistic babe so it won't last (too bad for her) and maybe she would have told her friends that she has caught a Mugu.
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jan 26, 2013
Boss13:

Mondi you funny grin I just need to hang out and I don't want to go alone to the country club (Ikoyi club). Well she is not the boring type. Champagne in her blood stream makes her naughty and she is a luvly dancer , adorable to watch and makes the men around wish she was with them but she is with me (laughs). Hmm she is a typical naija materialistic babe so it won't last (too bad for her) and maybe she would have told her friends that she has caught a Mugu.
well enjoy making good use of each other lol
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Boss13: 11:24pm On Jan 26, 2013
mondi_cheeks: well enjoy making good use of each other lol

Mondi I'm back from my date (I still feel tipsy). I told you naija gals are hungry n predictable. As usual the normal rounds. Gawd she can dance n she is hawt. I was pleased showing her off. but u know she wanted to test my pocket. And she told me I want to ask you somethig don't know how to say it. As a sharp naija guy I grab. But the alcohol was too much I quickly said u want money (my bad). She was embarrassed. I said don't be just ask me and after 10mins she did. Won't say the amount or reason (maybe she is on nairaland). Well she was surprised I counted it and gave her. She even confessed that she wasn't expecting it. Then I knew she was testing my pocket. She is going to b my experiment. I will make her fall in love or love d money and when I know she is so hook I will attack. She will fall for 2 weeks. That's for being a naija gal
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Boss13: 11:26pm On Jan 26, 2013
mondi_cheeks: well enjoy making good use of each other lol

Mondi I'm back from my date (I still feel tipsy). I told you naija gals are hungry n predictable. As usual the normal rounds. Gawd she can dance n she is hawt. I was pleased showing her off. but u know she wanted to test my pocket. And she told me I want to ask you somethig don't know how to say it. As a sharp naija guy I grab. But the alcohol was too much I quickly said u want money (my bad). She was embarrassed. I said don't be just ask me and after 10mins she did. Won't say the amount or reason (maybe she is on nairaland). Well she was surprised I counted it and gave her. She even confessed that she wasn't expecting it. Then I knew she was testing my pocket. She is going to b my experiment. I will make her fall in love or love d money and when I know she is so hook I will attack. She will fall ill for 2 weeks. That's for being a naija gal materialistic as always.
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by chikeorji123(m): 11:59pm On Jan 26, 2013
Op u sound so frustrated.. l'm sorry take heart..
shortage of real men? strange! the remaining one are not ur league,pls try crusade churches.. *no offence*.
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 12:35am On Jan 27, 2013
Boss13:

Mondi I'm back from my date (I still feel tipsy). I told you naija gals are hungry n predictable. As usual the normal rounds. Gawd she can dance n she is hawt. I was pleased showing her off. but u know she wanted to test my pocket. And she told me I want to ask you somethig don't know how to say it. As a sharp naija guy I grab. But the alcohol was too much I quickly said u want money (my bad). She was embarrassed. I said don't be just ask me and after 10mins she did. Won't say the amount or reason (maybe she is on nairaland). Well she was surprised I counted it and gave her. She even confessed that she wasn't expecting it. Then I knew she was testing my pocket. She is going to b my experiment. I will make her fall in love or love d money and when I know she is so hook I will attack. She will fall ill for 2 weeks. That's for being a naija gal materialistic as always.
lol u really have the time and energy
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Boss13: 7:45am On Jan 27, 2013
mondi_cheeks: lol u really have the time and energy

It's the weekend what should I do with my energy? Save it - common.
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 11:05am On Jan 27, 2013
Boss13:

It's the weekend what should I do with my energy? Save it - common.
its a good thing, but jus don't come here complaining about nigerian girls if u wilfully spend on them. It was ur choice always remember that smiley have a lovely sunday
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jan 27, 2013
Ch@nges:
There are real men if only the Ladies would minimize their Lust for riches & Fame! Who would love to loose a self disciplined, independent lady that makes +ve goals and set the priorities right, eradicating the "marriage 1st" delusion?
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Boss13: 1:10pm On Jan 27, 2013
mondi_cheeks: its a good thing, but jus don't come here complaining about nigerian girls if u wilfully spend on them. It was ur choice always remember that smiley have a lovely sunday

If you don't spend you are stingy. If you spend you be Mugu. So I decide to Change them like my outfit. Just pray I find a good one
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jan 27, 2013
Boss13:

If you don't spend you are stingy. If you spend you be Mugu. So I decide to Change them like my outfit. Just pray I find a good one
okay then
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 2:32pm On Feb 03, 2013
see i sabi naija babes wella.me na prof for their matter.the only time when a babe for naija go dey vex with the guy na when the guy no give her enough money.she no go remember the time wey the guy dey give her in the past when he get.if the guy come broke and dey beg the babe make she understand na dat time she go dey squeeze her face and dey say the guy no dey try.make i tell una the only way to make an average naija to be happy nah to give her enough money or take her regularly to pepper soup joints.u know say our babes no dey take pepper soup joke ooo grin
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 11:11pm On Feb 03, 2013
Phartymah112: You'd better BELIEVE it! Nigeria has a
HUGE shortage of real men! The whole
dating game is polluted with jerks,
players, animals i.e dog,monkeys and non-committing
douchebags... pardon my French!

All they want is sex,sex,sex,sex and sex............ If God ask me to make a wish,i'd say i wanted those beast to change for good,now and ever.

No guy or "beast" abi wetin dem call themselves" should run his mouth here to proof me wrong.
by dia fruits u shall knw dem. Without been told, i can testify dat u re not good enof 2 be somebody's girlfrnd not 2 talk of wife. In fact 2 cut it shot u re a lovepeddler! All u knw is money,money,money,but u can't work 4 it in a genuine way. I pity 4 ur man, dat is if u hv any worthless bitch.
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 11:21pm On Feb 03, 2013
Phartymah112:

would say yes! Yes!!! I think you know and believe the fact that no one is perfect but there are some people who are so near to perfection... Can't be 100% real though,i myself know that am for real not just bragging (nth to brag about)
shut up and stop deciveing ur self!! Wat makes u tink u re good enof 2 run ur dirty mouth here. Do u think dat u re in a brothel? Rubbish.
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 11:35pm On Feb 03, 2013
chronique:


My dear,save this bitterness and energy. You'll need it in advanced English classes. It's "prove",not "proof".
Secondly,if all the guys you attract are jerks and douchebags,I'd advice you take a look @ yourself properly. I've never seen cows n dogs mix together,neither have I seen goats n sheep in same company. You attract what you want/are.
Thirdly,there are numerous real men out there just as there are numerous real women out there. Stop hanging out with the wrong company. I reiterate;if all the guys coming for you are just after sex,then you need to check yourself. "If shi.t nor smell,fly nor go gather round am".
my dear dat's d truth. I can bet u dat idio*t is not worthy 2 be a woman.
Re: Nigeria Has Shortage Of Real Men by Nobody: 11:53pm On Feb 03, 2013
Boss13:

Oh u angry. But it's the truth (don't pity naija gals). If they know you are smarter than them, they begin to play the emotional blackmail game. However, if they are smarter than you, just kiss your heart and account goodbye. They want your love, your time, your money and your attention. Yet what do they offer - just punnany and food (some na only income and egg them sabi). Ain't naija gals selfish and wicked. Yet one of them has the gut to rat her usefulness mouth on this thread. If you respect yourself, I will respect you. If you show me your bitchy side, I will finish you. Shey na money you wan chop, no problem - how much you fit finish in a day? Hungry babes. You want to reap where you did not sow.
ah tanx bro, dey don't knw anything! Dey re very selfish.

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