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Dating An Insecure Guy by Godmother(f): 11:36am On Aug 17, 2013
Would you continue a relationship with a guy who's insecure in relationships if he tells you what caused his insecurities and that he's willing to work on it. Though he gets a relapse once in a while. Would you try to help him out and how would you help?


For the guys, would you dump your insecure girlfriend even if she begs you to give her time to work on it.
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Nobody: 11:42am On Aug 17, 2013
Yh,i will help im out and show im reasons y he sudn't feel insecure.
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by olajide8(m): 12:29pm On Aug 17, 2013
I would answer it like this- with a small epistle, I once told a chic, I was asking out after knowing her for a longtime, about my predicament with my now -EX, whom, I loved to pieces, and whom took my heart and marshed, it into a plum, on the ground -time without number because of her indecision and her will to look for maybe better options, do you know what happened she took off, -but during that time, I also had another friend that knew everything, and she was willingly to allow me use her as a landing pad *emotionally* - now to the question emotionally wrecked women are highly erratic sometimes not knowing what they want,*women generally don't know what they want, talk less of this type of women*, but personally, I wouldn't mind helping the *women* over come her in-securities, though it can be very stressful.
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by WackyJ1(m): 12:34pm On Aug 17, 2013
Many ladies will say yes to this but in actuality many can't handle it.
If i see my bro showing the symptoms of insecurity,i'll help him work through because i know that many ladies think selfishly and will just find an excuse to bail

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Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Nobody: 1:29pm On Aug 17, 2013
undecided No I can't handle it.
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Ab025(m): 5:44pm On Aug 17, 2013
@sexytabhi........na wetin u fit handle sef?
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Nobody: 7:29pm On Aug 17, 2013
Ab025: @sexytabhi........na wetin u fit handle sef?
I cn handle you grin

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Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by kenjudy(m): 7:50pm On Aug 17, 2013
Prease wat is inseculity in lerachonchip?
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by WackyJ1(m): 8:13pm On Aug 17, 2013
sexytabhi:
I cn handle you grin
Oh yeah...
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Nobody: 8:17pm On Aug 17, 2013
WackyJ1:
Oh yeah...
undecided
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Ab025(m): 10:57pm On Aug 17, 2013
@sexytabhi.....na for ur mind, u can't handle me, any way u try!!

Believe me, am different
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by mashnino(m): 11:01pm On Aug 17, 2013
the problem with insecure guys is dat dey re over-inquisitive

mostly about what dem girl friends are doing or gonna do...

so d best you can do is try and assure him that nothing is gonna happen...

dats d best

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Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Nobody: 11:04pm On Aug 17, 2013
Ab025: @sexytabhi.....na for ur mind, u can't handle me, any way u try!!

Believe me, am different
I can't,so you are insecure?
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Dyt(f): 11:04pm On Aug 17, 2013
Lmao
Most times
I bring up a fight and all boils down to insecurity lol
*crazy jealous woman*
Lmao
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by LordReed(m): 11:21pm On Aug 17, 2013
Tough love is the only way I know to deal with insecurity. Don't ever change your character because of insecurity it doesn't assuage it rather you even become resentful because you changed but the other didn't. Stand your ground in telling the other that they have you 100% while at the same time check to see if you aren't overstepping the bounds of propriety. If the other cannot accept you as you are it bodes ill for that relationship.

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Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Kairoseki77: 12:08am On Aug 18, 2013
Leave that one and find a confident man that will handle your pussay like a champion.

Is your insecure boyfriend hitting it from the back? If not, leave him.
When you wake up in the morning, do you want to cook him breakfast? If not, leave him.

Do you feel girly when you are with him? If not, leave him!

A man must be able to make you laugh, cum, and get mad. He must be able to do at least two of those. If he can do all three, you should marry am. If he can only do one, leave him.
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by bknight: 12:17am On Aug 18, 2013
Overcoming 'Insecurity' is such herculean task. If indeed she has the strength of mind required to tackle it, then fine.

Besides, insecurity is such an ambiguous word. Wo, I can't shout abeg
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Dyt(f): 12:20am On Aug 18, 2013
bknight: Overcoming 'Insecurity' is such herculean task. If indeed she has the strength of mind required to tackle it, then fine.

Besides, insecurity is such an ambiguous word. Wo, I can't shout abeg

Sounds it
Loool

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Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Kairoseki77: 12:28am On Aug 18, 2013
Dyt:

Sounds it
Loool

Hey guuurl.

Lemme get in your stomach. cheesy
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Dyt(f): 12:36am On Aug 18, 2013
U be food?
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Kairoseki77: 12:42am On Aug 18, 2013
Dyt: U be food?

Will you eat me with your mouth?

I need lots of mouth action. Only if you can get down to the sack.

I won't kiss you though. Gotta stay professional.
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Dyt(f): 12:43am On Aug 18, 2013
You are strictly sick sir

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Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Kairoseki77: 12:45am On Aug 18, 2013
I am NOT sick.

All the tests came back negative

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Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Dyt(f): 12:47am On Aug 18, 2013
Den it must b spiritual
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Kairoseki77: 12:50am On Aug 18, 2013
It's true, I am possessed. You are the only one that can save me.

I need you to suck the demon out of me. cry
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Dyt(f): 12:56am On Aug 18, 2013
Now its so glaring
I been think say na small thing
*runs outta thread*
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Kairoseki77: 12:58am On Aug 18, 2013
Lemme stop playin! grin
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Dyt(f): 1:00am On Aug 18, 2013
grin grin grin
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by segzicres(m): 1:22am On Aug 18, 2013
Ladies, if a guy feels insecure, get on ur knees and give him a BJ. He will calm down after it. I assure you
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Dyt(f): 1:25am On Aug 18, 2013
^ rotflmao
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Nobody: 9:54am On Aug 18, 2013
Dyt: ^ rotflmao
are u done wit Kairoseki77's demon? av got d same demon u need to suck out as well.
Re: Dating An Insecure Guy by Dyt(f): 10:08am On Aug 18, 2013
Jenams: are u done wit Kairoseki77's demon? av got d same demon u need to suck out as well.

So my tots are actually true
The members are escapee

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