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Should Women Take Back Men Who Cheat? by one98five: 11:37am On Jan 30, 2013
Re: Should Women Take Back Men Who Cheat? by slimming: 12:42pm On Jan 30, 2013
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Re: Should Women Take Back Men Who Cheat? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jan 30, 2013
Nice video. Agree with what you're saying and as you mentioned there're exceptions. If the r-ship is new (aka. has just started) and a man or woman cheats, it's best to say bye-bye. But if you've been together for a long time and it happens ONCE, I don't think there's anything wrong with giving him/her a second chance, considering your history together, how they normally behave, etc. There're people who will not put up cheating, even if it happens once and regardless of how old the r-ship is. Should the cheating happen again a second time, then you should definitely let him/her go, otherwise they won't learn anything and will keep doing it because they know you will tolerate it.
Re: Should Women Take Back Men Who Cheat? by one98five: 3:13pm On Jan 30, 2013
Yield: Nice video. Agree with what you're saying and as you mentioned there're exceptions. If the r-ship is new (aka. has just started) and a man or woman cheats, it's best to say bye-bye. But if you've been together for a long time and it happens ONCE, I don't think there's anything wrong with giving him/her a second chance, considering your history together, how they normally behave, etc. There're people who will not put up cheating, even if it happens once and regardless of how old the r-ship is. Should the cheating happen again a second time, then you should definitely let him/her go, otherwise they won't learn anything and will keep doing it because they know you will tolerate it.
Yield: Nice video. Agree with what you're saying and as you mentioned there're exceptions. If the r-ship is new (aka. has just started) and a man or woman cheats, it's best to say bye-bye. But if you've been together for a long time and it happens ONCE, I don't think there's anything wrong with giving him/her a second chance, considering your history together, how they normally behave, etc. There're people who will not put up cheating, even if it happens once and regardless of how old the r-ship is. Should the cheating happen again a second time, then you should definitely let him/her go, otherwise they won't learn anything and will keep doing it because they know you will tolerate it.

Yeah it's okay to forgive someone for something that happens once and is 'out of character' especially if you have a lot invested in a relationship. It wouldn't make sense to throw it away if the indiscretion was never going to happen again. That said, there must be consequences though - and as you said after that second time, that's when there shouldn't be any question about whether or not to walk away.
Re: Should Women Take Back Men Who Cheat? by one98five: 3:13pm On Jan 30, 2013
Yield: Nice video. Agree with what you're saying and as you mentioned there're exceptions. If the r-ship is new (aka. has just started) and a man or woman cheats, it's best to say bye-bye. But if you've been together for a long time and it happens ONCE, I don't think there's anything wrong with giving him/her a second chance, considering your history together, how they normally behave, etc. There're people who will not put up cheating, even if it happens once and regardless of how old the r-ship is. Should the cheating happen again a second time, then you should definitely let him/her go, otherwise they won't learn anything and will keep doing it because they know you will tolerate it.
Yield: Nice video. Agree with what you're saying and as you mentioned there're exceptions. If the r-ship is new (aka. has just started) and a man or woman cheats, it's best to say bye-bye. But if you've been together for a long time and it happens ONCE, I don't think there's anything wrong with giving him/her a second chance, considering your history together, how they normally behave, etc. There're people who will not put up cheating, even if it happens once and regardless of how old the r-ship is. Should the cheating happen again a second time, then you should definitely let him/her go, otherwise they won't learn anything and will keep doing it because they know you will tolerate it.

Yeah it's okay to forgive someone for something that happens once and is 'out of character' especially if you have a lot invested in a relationship. It wouldn't make sense to throw it away if the indiscretion was never going to happen again. That said, there must be consequences though - and as you said after that second time, that's when there shouldn't be any question about whether or not to walk away.

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